Fennec

yapping about my current hyperfixation (whenever my schedule permits) they/them/any neopronouns, autistic

[genderfailure]

non-binary Emma Perkins

[deltaomicronfive]

Can anyone help a black transfem with tech and stability for my teaching job? I only owe 250 in rent and need help with procuring a good computer. If I had to set a goal myself it would 750 for other bills and tech by August, when my class starts.

Please please consider helping me out financially to get my best foot forward as a small time educator. Thank you.

Current Goal: 90/750

Link to a post with all my pay apps wishlists and gfm info below:

Tumblr is a place to express yourself, discover yourself, and bond over the stuff you love. It's where your interests connect you with your

I really really need the computer from my wish list to keep working

[ashen-vulture]

It is funny how I see so many trans issues posts end with "and this doesn't even go into how nonbinary or intersexed people are treated!"

Yeah hahaha yeah it rarely does!

[thisisexorsexism]

people turning being nonbinary into a stereotype for “weird pronouns” and “weird names”

IM TALKING TO YOU PEOPLE WHO MOCK ARSON/BUG WHO USES HE/IT/PUP PRONOUNS. LEAVE PUP ALONE PLEASE

this is exorsexism

[busket]

wait, cis tumblr user!

before you reblog that seemingly innocuous transgender positivity or discourse post, here's some important things to look out for:

1. does this post uplift one marginalized group at the expense of another? specific positivity posts are great, like "protect black trans women" or "lets support intersex folks", but be sure that the post in question doesnt put down another group. examples: "trans women get all the love, so lets have some support for trans men for once" or "trans women are so strong for what they go through, trans men could never understand the struggle and dont experience even half of what trans women are put through" 🚨🚨DONT REBLOG IT!🚨🚨 find another post that doesnt have to put down another marginalized group or pit us against each other. remember, as a cis ally, its not your place to decide who does or doesnt deserve support, or to pick sides when misguided trans folks decide to play oppression olympics.

2. listen for dogwhistles! what seems like a harmless feminist post venting about cishet men can have hateful intentions towards marginalized people. terfs will often misgender trans women when they complain about them so it looks like theyre talking about predatory men, but theyre really meaning trans women. radfems/baeddels frequently omit the "trans" aspect of trans men to hide their anti-transmasculinity. if you have doubts, go to the OPs blog and search terms like "TIM" "TIF" "TRA" "TMRA" "radfem" "terf" "radical feminism" "theyfab" etc. you can also just search trans men/transmasc/trans woman/transfem and if you see anything negative, block and move along!

3. does the post operate under the binary for no good reason? does OP seem to forget that nonbinary and/or intersex people exist? does it use agab language when it seems to only be talking about trans men/women or cis men/women? does it use gendered euphemisms instead of specific and plain language, example: talking about periods and saying "women" "afab people" "females" instead of "people who menstruate". while it seems harmless, these small language quirks really build up in the psyche of trans folks and reminds us that people often are not willing to accommodate us. if your goal as an ally is to make us feel welcome and safe, being as direct and plain with your language is a good start

4. lastly, read the notes! watch out for "us vs them" language or advocating violence. even a common, unserious sentiment like "kill all men" that carries little weight in the cis world is a lot heavier in the trans community; cis men are rarely killed but trans men are murdered at high rates. watch out for malgendering, which is someone holding a trans persons gender identity against them, like "trans men really ARE men 🙄" or calling trans women hysterical bitches. remember that no demographic of trans person is "coddled" or supported by the status quo, we all live in a world that is increasingly hostile to us. if people agreeing with the post in question have this level of vitriol against other trans people, chances are its not actually a very friendly and positive post. again, as a cis ally, its not your place to involve yourself in community infighting.

with these simple tips, you can stop accidently spreading anti trans propaganda or harmful infighting that fractures trans unity and solidarity

[encryptidarchivist]

today is international nonbinary people’s day and i have yet to see a single post about it on my dashboard so i have decided to be a bit annoying about it and reblog a bunch of stuff because, frankly, i am so sick of nonbinary people being an afterthought, ignored, and erased in the queer community. i hope that today and during this week (nonbinary awareness week, the 13th-20th) you, the person reading this, will take some time to engage in some meaningful allyship of the nonbinary community beyond phrases like “nonbinary people are valid,” especially if you are not nonbinary yourself. tell your nonbinary friends they matter, support nonbinary creators (especially nonbinary creators of colour!), learn how to use a set of neopronouns, read up on nonbinary-specific issues and exorsexism and how they intersect with intersex issues and oppression, learn about nonbinary gender experiences in cultures other than your own, learn about some lesser known terms and labels used by the community, stop misusing our language (transfem and transmasc) to push bioessentialist discourse within the trans community and push back against binary gender/sex division when you see it — there is so much you can do and all of it makes a difference!

nonbinary people are not only valid, but an important and foundational demographic of the queer and trans community, and we deserve to be treated as such. we deserve to be taken seriously. and to my fellow nonbinary people reading this: your existence makes the world a better place. you deserve to have your identity not just tolerated, but appreciated and respected. i love you. please stay alive

happy international nonbinary people’s day 🖤💜🤍💛

[the-future-is-chrome]

yall its 2026 can we stop calling it “women’s healthcare”. there are people who exist that need uterus, vulva, vagina, and breast related healthcare and aren’t women. PLEASE stop forgetting about trans people and intersex people for the love of fucking god

[clowns-ofthesame-circus]

if your trans advocacy doesn’t include or forgets nonbinary people, it’s meaningless

[genderfailure]

^ and trying to shove every nonbinary person into the boxes of transmasc or transfem is not actual inclusion

[clowns-ofthesame-circus]

if your trans advocacy doesn’t include or forgets nonbinary people, it’s meaningless

[k-dreemurr]

can't believe i have to say this, but "headcanoning" a nonbinary character who canonically uses they/them exclusively as using she/they or he/they, and then making jokes about how estrogen/testosterone "could save them," is erasure??? you're doing exorsexism?????

please can we just let neutral nonbinary characters be neutral nonbinary thank you

[thisisexorsexism]

not an experience but this tik tok

this is exorsexism

[genderfailure]

Reading the instructions for my reflective report and realizing it's gonna take way longer than I thought because they make no sense

[patronsaint-ofthedenial]

Ted making fun of Bill for not wanting to drink in case they need a designated driver by pointing out that the cops who would pull him over are infected is really interesting cause Ted's philosophy is that since the cops are infected and law doesn't matter anymore, you can just drink and drive because he's not concerned with safety, he's just concerned with being caught. Meanwhile Bill is actually responsible and undestands why DUI is illegal.

[genderfailure]

Saying this as someone who loves queer headcanons (and is queer), I feel like I've seen a trend in the hatchetfield fandom of ppl headcanoning misogynistic men as queer as a way of ignoring/erasing their misogyny.

Like 'oh they're not misogynistic, they would treat men like that too'

[destiel-news-channel]

[Image ID: The Destiel confession meme edited so that Dean answers 'JK Rowling posted upskirt photos of a woman on Twitter' to Cas 'I love you'. /End ID]

No one doing this should be allowed to call themselves a feminist.

JK Rowling deadnamed and posted 'upskirt' photo of trans woman on X

The wealthy author escalated a social media spat that resulted in posting a photo from a 2023 event at the Institute of Economic Affairs in

[solarishashernoseinabook]

Let's not beat around the bush: Children's author JK Rowling sexually harassed someone. In some jurisdictions, this would count as sexual abuse. JK Rowling has committed a sex crime against a woman and fell back on the old rape apologist standby of "she was asking for it".

I hope your nostalgia is worth it

[mel-cat]

[wally-jo]

oh my god

[trufflesmushroom]

[acidtheater]

Most annoying online emotion is "I have a funny personal anacdote to add to this but it doxxes like all of my personal information"