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personality disorders suck lol

[malkavianne]

I’m out of here.

Between having paranoid ideations + anxiety, having to pour too much time and energy into making everything I say understandable, and a general dislike of having a persona/identity, I’d be happier away from here. I’ve tried every approach I can think of and it’s just not entertaining or fulfilling anymore. I’ve already played this game with Facebook, I know when it’s time to jump.

In the next week or two I’ll finish Cluster C PD post in my drafts, since the other ones seem to be informative.

If for whatever reason you really liked my presence, leave a note and if you’re not a fuckwipe I might give you my Skype.

[malkavianne]

I’m really sick today

[malkavianne]

Women, you’ve been raised to be meek. You’ve been raised to put up with a man’s bullshit with a smile and a tee-hee-boys-will-be-boys, and you’ve been taught that anything else is the hallmark of the psycho girlfriend, the irrational controlling wife, the bitch. You have been taught to have low standards, to clap and applaud men that act with basic human decency.

I wish to see a whole generation of straight/bi women rising up against male expectations and telling them, you don’t get to have your cake and eat it too.

If he won’t quit his precious porn habit, dump him. If he thinks it’s his god-given right to openly ogle other women and dismisses how you feel about it, dump him. If he ever defends himself or another man with “it’s just instinct” or “men will be men,” remind him that grown-ass men are not helpless instinct-driven babies, then dump him.  If he disrespects women, dump him. If he does it as a backhanded compliment to you, tell him that you are just like other girls and dump him. If he unironically believes “”jokes”” that marriage/a relationship is a death sentence, no matter what he says to your face you aren’t special and he’ll say the same shit about you if you choose to stick around, so do yourself a favor and dump him. Likewise, if he calls anyone but especially women bitches and sluts and cunts, you aren’t different or special to him, dump him and watch as you transform into a rabid man-hating whorecunt in his eyes in seconds.

[loliass-deactivated20160907]

[temacia]

“If he won’t quit his precious porn habit, dump him.“

now that’s what I call petty

She didn’t even say “porn addiction”

but “porn habit”

“watch as you transform into a rabid man-hating whorecunt in his eyes“

well if it looks like a duck and sounds like a duck ….

[requiemforadeathmask]

“Every time my boyfriend does or says anything I don’t agree with I’ll threaten to dump him. But I’m totally not irrational or controlling.”

[malkavianne]

I’m going to give (probably too many) people the benefit of a doubt and assume that links don’t show up well on some layouts. I’ve been trying to do this every time I post something anyway. LINK 1 LINK 2 Think about that for five more seconds. “If someone disagrees with how I think/feel, they should date me anyway or they’re nuts.” ??????? Remember everyone, when a man acts like a jackass it’s just a joke and/or a wacky character flaw and you’re far too serious for calling it out. :)

[requiemforadeathmask]

More women are openly admitting to watching porn:

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/10/11/pew_online_viewing_study_percentage_of_women_who_watch_online_porn_is_growing.html

There are also a growing number of female porn directors and production workers:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/meet-the-powerful-women-directors-working-in-porn_55ca50a7e4b0f1cbf1e68c13

Now of course that does not excuse the violence and sexism that’s rampant in porn (especially online underground porn) however, not all porn is awful.

“ If he ever defends himself or another man with “it’s just instinct” or “men will be men,” remind him that grown-ass men are not helpless instinct-driven babies, then dump him. “

This one needs some context. What is he saying “men will be men” about?

In most cases people say that in response to men drinking together or laughing at crude jokes. No rational person will say this about rape or murder.

“ If he unironically believes “”jokes”” that marriage/a relationship is a death sentence, no matter what he says to your face you aren’t special and he’ll say the same shit about you if you choose to stick around, so do yourself a favor and dump him “

Just because he makes a joke about something doesn’t mean he actually believes that. It’s a joke. Plenty of women make those kinds of jokes.

[malkavianne]

A. There’s a massive amount of pressure on women from society and/or their boyfriends to consume, engage in, or at the very least roll over and accept pornography as inevitable. My ex sent me links to his collection on a regular basis hoping to “inspire” me. How many “sex column” articles are about learning to act like a porn star, or teaching your wife/girlfriend to do the same? How many “dating advice” articles are about accepting porn use with a shit-eating grin, and how many of those end with a cheeky “tee-hee just watch it yourself sometime”? How many times has a woman that doesn’t like pornography/the sex industry been portrayed as a rational, fully-fleshed person with a right to her own opinion, as compared to a shrieking harpy that deserves to be lied to/manipulated so that her poor deprived husband can have strippers at the bachelor party? Think carefully.

B. The fact you’re willing to overlook the extremely widespread human rights violations in pornography for the sake of “not all porn” ie. one or two corn kernels on a planet of shit is concerning. The “underground porn” thing is a myth. LINK 1 LINK 2

C. Men defend groping, sexual harassment, cheating, and rape on a daily basis. Enough with the “no REAL/RATIONAL man” rhetoric, please, perfectly intelligent, thinking men do all of that and more.

D. Like how the Charleston shooter told race jokes all the time, but he turned out to be a good kid, right? Jokes are like storytelling; they tell us what we value as a society, they tell us about the person who’s telling them, and people caught being shitty will always throw a tempter tantrum about how it’s juuuust a joke/juuuuuust a movie. 

[malkavianne]

Millon’s theories of personality - exploration of SzPD cognitive structuring

[tails-155]

via http://imgur.com/gallery/x5mE5

Original: http://william-snekspeare.tumblr.com/

[butchsnail-deactivated20170822]

@s0ft-h0m0

[nerdjpg-deactivated20150212]

nailed it.

[egberts]

in sims 3 you can heckle a baby

[striders]

you can heckle a baby in real life

[blanksexual]

it pisses me off when i get customers at my job who tell me “at least it’s FRIDAY” like..no?? it is at best my Wednesday like are you from a magical world where everybody gets a weekend? fuck you

[popgoth]

I’m laughing bc in food and retail fridays are the beginning of the three hell days

[napsforlyfe]

Literally

[ussmckirk]

Steve Rogers is my fitness role model.

In other words, I too want to be injected with a magical serum that’ll give me the perfect body in mere seconds without my having to do any exercise whatsoever.

[jabbersense]

Credit: [x]

[isfjwallflower]

lmao

[intjwoo]

What is this shit and how is it somehow dead-on accurate?????

[sir-unordinary]

Samurai Jack New look Confirmed

[pixography]

Vergvoktre ~ “Arbor Mutabilis”

[malkavianne]

If anyone picked up my wallet they're going to be very disappointed when they find out my Subway card has more on it than my debit.

[saturnalia-and-chill-deactivate]

If your employer charges you for items customers shoplift, they are committing a federal crime. Do not tolerate wage theft. Fight back.

[entitledrichpeople]

Yes, this is in fact illegal and wage theft in the US (& I think in the UK as well). And yet many people hate poor people so much they are more concerned about poor people shoplifting to get by than rich people stealing from employees in order to get even richer.

[malkavianne]

I keep reading that people with Cluster A PDs can have a lessening of symptoms at 40-50, but I’ve never found the paper or study that supports it..............................................

[malkavianne]

/me updated. I should have done it sooner.

[milclark]

[oknope]

I DON’T CARE HOW MANY TIMES I’VE REBLOGGED THIS IT WILL NEVER END