nasty

Guiam, Maria Zandrea BOOM.

[iwishihadafather]

She did it. She ended terrorism.

[vehicularmanslaughter-blog]

[theinturnetexplorer]

Man documents the one he let get away.

[guy-with-an-iphone]

I WAS HAPPY AND THEN I GOT SAD

[gzbrin]

+missing you+

[teenagerposts]

That moment when you get in a fight w ur parents and go to ur room but then u get hungry so u mentally prepare yourself for ur appearance in the kitchen.

[sixteensmallstepstohappiness]

Sixteen Small Steps to Happiness

1. push yourself to get up before the rest of the world - start with 7am, then 6am, then 5:30am. go to the nearest hill with a big coat and a scarf and watch the sun rise.

2. push yourself to fall asleep earlier - start with 11pm, then 10pm, then 9pm. wake up in the morning feeling re-energized and comfortable.

3. erase processed food from your diet. start with no lollies, chips, biscuits, then erase pasta, rice, cereal, then bread. use the rule that if a child couldn’t identify what was in it, you don’t eat it.

4. get into the habit of cooking yourself a beautiful breakfast. fry tomatoes and mushrooms in real butter and garlic, fry an egg, slice up a fresh avocado and squirt way too much lemon on it. sit and eat it and do nothing else.

5. stretch. start by reaching for the sky as hard as you can, then trying to touch your toes. roll your head. stretch your fingers. stretch everything. 

6. buy a 1L water bottle. start with pushing yourself to drink the whole thing in a day, then try drinking it twice.

7. buy a beautiful diary and a beautiful black pen. write down everything you do, including dinner dates, appointments, assignments, coffees, what you need to do that day. no detail is too small. 

8. strip your bed of your sheets and empty your underwear draw into the washing machine. put a massive scoop of scented fabric softener in there and wash. make your bed in full.

9. organise your room. fold all your clothes (and bag what you don’t want), clean your mirror, your laptop, vacuum the floor. light a beautiful candle.

10. have a luxurious shower with your favourite music playing. wash your hair, scrub your body, brush your teeth. lather your whole body in moisturiser, get familiar with the part between your toes, your inner thighs, the back of your neck.

11. push yourself to go for a walk. take your headphones, go to the beach and walk. smile at strangers walking the other way and be surprised how many smile back. bring your dog and observe the dog’s behaviour. realise you can learn from your dog.

12. message old friends with personal jokes. reminisce. suggest a catch up soon, even if you don’t follow through. push yourself to follow through.

14. think long and hard about what interests you. crime? sex? boarding school? long-forgotten romance etiquette? find a book about it and read it. there is a book about literally everything. 

15. become the person you would ideally fall in love with. let cars merge into your lane when driving. pay double for parking tickets and leave a second one in the machine. stick your tongue out at babies. compliment people on their cute clothes. challenge yourself to not ridicule anyone for a whole day. then two. then a week. walk with a straight posture. look people in the eye. ask people about their story. talk to acquaintances so they become friends.

16. lie in the sunshine. daydream about the life you would lead if failure wasn’t a thing. open your eyes. take small steps to make it happen for you. 

[spirit3d4w4y]

Things You Need to Know About the Outgoing Introvert

1. When we see you after a long day, we might be all irritable and not want to talk

It has nothing to do with you. Outgoing introverts, though still introverts at their core, often need to recharge after a large use of social energy. After a long day of dealing with people, our social batteries are drained and we need to unwind and recover, usually alone.

2. We’re charming creatures and can be the life of the party, but…

You’ll be surprised how much we actually live in our heads. People often confuse us for extroverts, but we’re too introspective and over-think too much to be one.

3. If we like you, we really like you.

We don’t waste our time with people we’re not completely crazy about. If we agreed to go on a date with you, we like you. Take it as a huge compliment.

4. We have times when we’re weird with our phones.

Some days we can talk for hours, but sometimes we’re not so good at replying and talking on the phone. Don’t take it personally - we screen our phone calls, even from our closest friends. Outgoing introverts sometimes hate the phone because it’s all, like, intrusive and tears our minds away from whatever we’re deeply focusing on (and we are always deeply focusing on something). Our mind doesn’t change direction easily. Listening to one thing and seeing something else is a lot of sensory input piled on top of everything that’s already going on in our heads.

5. But don’t worry, in person we’ll listen to you for hours.

We have spectrums of introversion, so we’re good listeners. We’ll always be naturally in tune with how you’re feeling, so we’ll be able to see through any front you put up and make you jump into the deep end.

6. We need to dip our foot in the pool first.

We need time to warm up, so, like, chill. We tend not to outwardly express our feelings and spill our whole life story in the first hour of meeting you. Or the first year.

7. Our energy level depends on our environment.

Yes, we can get annoyed easily. If we vibe with the crowd, we can get our energy from human interactions. But if we don’t, we’ll start to get really introspective and reflective, and tend to withdraw into ourselves. It’s kinda like a hit or miss. We’re very selectively social. But it’s not because we dislike people - it’s actually the opposite. We dislike the barriers like small talk (which often comes with going out) creates between people, and try to avoid it at all costs.

8. You’ll think we are flirty with everyone.

Okay here’s the thing, when we inevitably have to interact with people, we make it seem like there’s nothing in the world we’d rather be doing. It’s ‘cause we’re, like, overly sensitive and so we go out of our way to make other people feel comfortable and happy. We’re intuitive and outgoing at the same time.

Research has found that introverts pay more attention to detail and exhibit increased brain activity when processing visual information. A study shows that the brain of an introvert weighs internal cues more strongly than external motivational and reward cues.

[jennyandthesquat-deactivated201]

I have never read something that describes me so accurately.

[fromthebayarea-withlove]

ditto. I’m chilling, but comforting at the same time. someone gets it. 🙂

[helllllakitty]

It’s always the ones with the good hearts who lay awake at night.

[booasaur]

[thedepthofme]

when you know you’re doing it right

[tr3velyan]

i’m just amazed honestly

[mattsunsthighs]

down vote that weak shit outta here

[today-ifuckedup]

Today, I fucked up... by letting my mom use my snapchat

So my prom dress just came in the mail and I tried it on tonight. My mom insisted on taking a picture over snapchat and sending it to my aunt, who is on my friends list. I put on the dress, posed for a pic and my mom handed me the phone after she was done photographing me.

I looked at the screen and noticed that instead of sending the picture to my aunt, she made the picture my snapchat story. If you don’t know what that is, it means that every single one of your contacts can see the picture. But sweet jesus it gets worse. The story was a picture of me getting dressed from behind (I guess she took the picture by mistake). My ass was visible. Out of shock and embarrassment, I kind of automatically yelled “you asshole!” and tried to frantically delete the story. However, once she heard my little exclamation she immediately grabbed the phone out of my hand, shut it off, and said that I wouldn’t get it back for a week.

I tried explaining the situation to her but she refuses to accept her mistake and won’t give me my phone back because of my “disrespect”. I can’t even delete the story now because I am without a phone. I’m just sitting here mortified imagining all my friends, family, coworkers and acquaintances being surprised by a picture of my ass.

[cerebralsilhouettes]

But if he doesn’t give you butterflies whenever he looks at you, Don’t be with him. You want someone who makes you fall for them every day, Not just once.

(via virginx)

[inferioristtx]

[vinstage]

[sotnasxsoled]

Tracklist:

Kehlani - Get Away (esta remix) Destiny’s Child - Bugaboo (GANZ flip) Full Crate - Special TLC - Waterfalls (Bixel Boys remix) Maxwell - Ascension (aywy & Sh?m edit) Louie Lastic - Close2u Alina Baraz & Galimatias - Fantasy (Pomo remix) Busta x Janet - What’s It Gonna Be (Kaytra remix) Wantigga - Sucka For Love Kehlani & Chance - The Way (Gladiator remix) Sam Gellaitry - Dntstp (Robax edit) Esta - Only One HXNS - Good Girl Beyonce - XO (Full Crate edit) Sango - Me de Amor Drake - Hotline Bling Sango - Baile Somebody Nehzuil - R.U.That. Somebody Big Sean - Marvin Gaye & Chardonnay (Trippy Turtle remix) Ty Dolla $ign - Paranoid (Hoodboi & Falcons remix)

[mkbye]

[blindthoughts]

x

[thehouseofhippies]

The same boiling water that softens the potato, hardens the egg. Moral of the story; it's about what you're made of. Not your circumstances.