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@mamamedicine
Hi everyone!
I just recently made a post about how to take care of yourself when you are sick with a cold or upper respiratory infection! Check it out!
I did want to talk about some of the meds. You’ll notice some repeat brand names with different generic medications. That’s because a lot of brands will combine meds to help with different symptoms all at once.
When taking these just make sure you are also not accidentally doubling up on the same medications. Read the ingredient lists. For example, a lot of the combo brands have acetaminophen (Tylenol) or ibuprofen (Motrin or Advil) in them and you can quickly take too much without realizing it.
As someone whose father overdosed on NyQuil I can personally attest that even over the counter medications can be detrimental and cause harm.
If ever you are unsure about a medication don’t be afraid to ask your doctor if it is safe for you!
Love you all,
MamaMedicine
please wear sunscreen!!! I've seen "fuck the beauty industrial complex" posts about complicated skincare regimens and am 100% with them except sometimes they mention sunscreen and no. no. absolutely not. sunscreen is a wonderful supportive friend who wants to keep you safe, and you should let her do it. throw out all your other cosmetics and skincare products if you want, but keep your sunscreen. and if you're not wearing sunscreen, start wearing it!!!! this is not about terror of aging, this is not about every tiny imperfection our fucked-up culture has made you feel insecure about, this is about protecting yourself from skin cancer. wear the damn sunscreen.
Hope to talk about sunscreen in more detail soon but for now, YES TO THIS☝️
Drinking soda is better than drinking nothing all day. Eating ice cream for dinner is better than eating nothing for dinner. Eating salsa is better than having no produce in your diet at all.
Water is way more hydrating than soda, but soda is more hydrating than nothing. A balanced meal is way more nutritious than ice cream, but ice cream is more nutritious than nothing.
Something is better than nothing. Some hydration is better than no hydration. Some nutrients are better than no nutrients. Some produce is better than no produce.
Don't let societally imposed food guilt trick you into believing that nothing is a better choice. Nourishing your body, however you can, is always the better choice. Fed is best. Always.
DEALING WITH A COLD
So, I am sitting here on day 3 of a summer upper respiratory infection (URI) or commonly called a cold and I figured I would discuss what to expect, how to help yourself, and when to seek a medical professional.
WHAT IS A COLD OR URI?
Basically, a cold is an infection that can cause a myriad of symptoms most often including cough, congestion (mucus), sneezing, runny nose, sore throat, fevers, chills, muscle aches, fatigue, and generalized weakness. Occasionally it can also be accompanied by stomach aches, nausea, vomiting, and diarrhea or loose stools.
Most often these infections are caused by VIRUSES, and like, a lot of them. This can range from rhinovirus, metapneumovirus, adenovirus, Covid-19, the Flu, etc. Why is this important to know? Because, unfortunately, there is no treatment to fight off the infection. Even with the Covid-19 medication known as Paxlovid or one of the Flu medications known as Tamiflu, these medications may help boost immune support to keep things from getting worse but don't actually treat the infection. In fact, Tamiflu has only shown to decrease the duration of symptoms (length of time you are sick) on average by only 12 HOURS.
Usually, treatment is time. There are medications and home remedies to provide symptom support to help make things more bearable until your body can fight it off.
This is why often when you go to the doctor for a cold they will just give you over the counter medication recommendations. It's not because they DON'T want to help you. It's just because there really isn't anything they can prescribe to cure you. And it can feel frustrating and make you feel like you wasted your time and money for nothing. That's why I am writing this post!
So let's talk about some things we can do to help ourselves!
TOOLS TO HELP
There are so many options available it feels so confusing and overwhelming. I am going to talk about these medications by symptom so you can wade through the hundreds of options available based on what you need and what will work best for your specific symptoms.
(Disclaimer: As a resident of the United States I will be using brand names available in the US. Please check your local pharmacy for similar brands if you are outside the US).
Cough
There actually are not very many medications that have been shown to be super helpful for a cough based on current studies. I will talk about some of the common stuff you will see.
Dextromethorphan: Found in Delsym or Mucinex. An antitussive (ati-cough). Studies have not shown great effectiveness for cough.
Guaifenesin: Found in brand names such as Robitussin and Mucinex. An expectorant. Basically it is suppose to loosen mucus and make it easier to cough out the mucus. Studies show mixed results in symptom improvement. Often needs increased fluid intake to work.
Lozenges: Brand names include Ricola or Halls, for example. Often they have menthol to give you that cooling feeling and other herbs which may provide slight relief but studies do not show much effectiveness.
Honey: There is actually some evidence that honey works as well if not better than the other over the counter medications to reduce your cough. (Avoid in those with allergies to honey or those under 1 years old as it can contain botulism which babies under 1 years old can not fight off).
Congestion (Mucus)
If you have high blood pressure it is recommended to avoid certain decongestants as they can narrow blood vessels and increase your blood pressure. and interfere with your meds.
Pseudoephedrine: Found in brand names such as Mucinex or Sudafed. A decongestant. Has been shown to be effective in reducing congestion but may need to be purchased at a pharmacy as it is an ingredient in making meth.
Phenylephrine: Fund in brand names like Sudafed or Dayquil. A decongestant. There is so much buzz on this right now as this has recently been shown to be ineffective to reduce congestion.
Doxylamine or Diphenhydramine: Brand names include Unisom, Nyquil, and Benadryl. Antihistamines used to reduce congestion. Can cause drowsiness.
Nasal Rinses: A physical process of irrigating water from one nostril through the other to remove mucus. Use sterile or distilled water to reduce the risk of contracting bacteria and wash equipment after each use. If you plan to boil water wait for it to COOL DOWN before use to reduce the risk of burns.
Oxymetazoline: Brand Name Afrin. Reduces swelling of the nasal mucosa to help open the nasal passages. Do NOT use for more than 3 days as it can rebound swelling (called Rhinitis Medicamentosa) and can be addictive.
Coricidin HBP: A brand name medication that can help with congestion and is safe to take in those with high blood pressure.
Sore Throat
Cepacol Drops: These lozenges specifically have Benzocaine which is a topical numbing agent that can provide temporary relief of a sore throat.
Chloraseptic Sprays: Active ingredient is Phenol. Similar to how Cepacol drops work as it is a topical anesthetic to help numb the throat and mouth.
Warm Salt Water Gargles: Has shown some effectiveness in reducing severity of a sore throat.
Lozenges: Again, has herbs and menthol to provide cooling feeling which may alleviate a sore throat.
Honey: Again, can work just as well as over the counter medications to help temporarily relieve a sore throat.
Fevers/Muscle Aches
Acetaminophen: Brand name Tylenol. Can help reduce fevers and help with muscle aches and a sore throat. Metabolized through the liver so should be avoided or cautioned in those with liver issues or taking with alcohol.
Ibuprofen: Brand name Motrin or Advil. An anti-inflammatory that can help reduce pain and fever. Metabolized through the kidneys. Should be used in caution or avoided in those with chronic NSAID use, kidney issues, on blood thinners or bleeding disorders, stomach ulcers, gastrointestinal bleeding, pregnancy,
Nausea/Vomiting/Stomach Aches/Diarrhea
Bismuth Salicylate: Brand name is Pepto-Bismol. Can, in the short term, relieve nausea, vomiting, stomach aches, or diarrhea.
Loperamide: Brand name is Imodium. Anti-diarrhea medication.
Ginger: Used for stomach aches and nausea. Found often in teas and lozenges.
Peppermint: Similar as ginger above. Can help with stomach aches and nausea.
Dimenhydrinate: Brand name is Dramamine. An antihistamine that can reduce nausea. Can cause drowsiness.
TIPS
Eat. Whatever you can stomach. Just eat. Your body needs fuel to help fight it off. Do not believe in the old adage "Feed a cold, starve a fever." That's nonsense. The body needs food to survive and strive. And don't worry about eating the healthiest. As long as you are getting your nutrients, vitamins, and minerals just eat whatever you can keep down and make you feel better.
Drink! Your body uses a lot of fluids to create mucus to help move the infection through your body. You may also be sweating more from fevers or chills and will lose some hydration. Drink some water. If you don't like the taste of water, sports drinks such as Gatorade or Powerade can be used and have electrolytes to help maintain balance when you find you are having trouble stomaching any solids or are losing electrolytes through vomiting or diarrhea. Stay away from alcohol. They can worsen dehydration.
Oh my goodness get some REST. Your body is using its energy to fight off the infection invading your body and needs all the extra energy it can get. Trying to "work through" or "power through is just going to make you feel worse in the long run, exacerbate symptoms, and may prolong your symptoms.
Going along with this...
STAY HOME. YOU ARE CONTAGIOUS. STAY HOME. Even if it's mild. Even if it's just a virus. It is contagious Now, I understand this is not always be feasible if you are an adult with bills to pay. Or a child being forced to go to school or have important events or exams to attend. Or need to run errands to take care of yourself or your family. But if you can, just stay home.
If you can't stay home make some precautions. I know this is controversial (although it shouldn't be). Wear a mask. Often these infections are spread through respiratory droplets. Cough, sneezing, talking. This is how it spreads. Masks work not because they completely block air movement but block those big droplets from getting out into the open air or on surfaces.
Wash your hands frequently with soap and water. Use hand sanitizer if soap and water are unavailable. After you
Use a tissue to blow your nose
Cough into your hand
Wipe your mouth
Touch your mouth, nose, or eyes.
Use the bathroom
This will help limit the spread of the infection. Washing your hands with soap and water for 20 seconds will not only kill some of the germs but the physical act of scrubbing will physical remove these germs as well.
Let's talk about Zinc. Some studies have shown it may reduce the length of time of symptoms with viral URIs. This usually needs to be started within 24 hours from the start of symptoms. It can also cause side effects such as nausea and bad taste. We are also unsure as to the mechanism of action or why it helps reduce the duration of infection. It definitely needs to be studied more but benefits may outweigh the risks.
WHEN TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE/CARE
Now, like I said before, most of the time these are caused by viruses. However, there are a some bacteria and fungi that can also cause similar symptoms. These do actually require antibiotics or antifungal medications that need to be prescribed.
Also, some infections may hit you harder or more severely than others. Especially if you already have chronic respiratory conditions, are of older or younger age, or are immunocompromised. So, when do we seek help?
You are having any difficulty breathing.
Coughing fits that make it difficult for you to breathe.
You are unable to keep down any food or fluids or are weak from dehydration.
Severe sore throat that keeps you from eating or drinking.
High spiking fevers that don't seem to reduce or resolve with acetaminophen or ibuprofen or last longer than a few days.
You develop a rash.
Symptoms last more than 7-10 days without improvement or continue to worsen.*
You feel like you were getting better and then got worse again.**
You have questions or just want to make sure everything is OK.
*This specifically can be sign that you may have a bacterial or other serious infection as viruses for most people on average see peak symptoms on day 5 and improve within 7-10 days (10-14 for kids).
**This is what many medical professionals have coined "the double sickening" which basically means your body was already immunocompromised from the first viral infection and as it was being fought off you caught a secondary bacterial infection which made you feel worse again.
Again, this is just suppose to be general guidelines and education to help you feel better and what to expect. Even the same infections cause different symptoms and severity of symptoms from person to person. So, if you have any concerns or are just unsure do not be afraid to seek out care. I would never be upset with someone who came to me at my clinic to get checked out to make sure they are going to be OK. Better safe than sorry is always my motto!
Love you all,
MamaMedicine
July 11, 2026
not every day has to be a good one. some days just have to be gotten through, and that’s okay
gentle reminders for anyone who needs it:
you have inherent worth simply by being alive. you are not a failure or unworthy for struggling with your mental or physical health. you're just a human being in pain.
you are not a burden; you have a right to support, care, & community, and it is not your fault that this world isn't built for disabled & neurodivergent people.
your emotions matter. even if they're big, or "out of proportion" to other people. everyone experiences life differently, and you deserve people in your life that treat your emotions with respect & kindness.
you are doing your best. i believe you. you don't need to compare yourself to others, or your hypothetical best self. who you are right now, in this moment, is enough.
it's okay to struggle with change. it can be scary, stressful, daunting, and confusing. you're allowed to take your time in figuring things out. you don't need to have all the answers today. life is about experiencing, not being perfect.
i'm glad you're here. many more people than you believe are glad you're here. it's okay. you're okay. you may not feel okay, or may not be doing okay: but as a person - you're okay.
be gentler with yourself. you're worth it.
regulate before you reason
my anger first aid has been helpful for me but my emotional dysregulation isn't exclusive to anger, so! Regulation Tools
STOP
when emotions seem in control,
Stop
Take a step back
Observe
Proceed mindfully:
if we want an emotion to stick around or increase, continue to do an action that sustains it
if we want an emotion to go away or become less uncomfortable, do an opposite action (link with examples)
if we want our actions to work, we must follow it all the way through and believe that it will work.
Washing Your Body
I am assuming we have all learned at some point in our lives we should wash our body. "You should wash up!" "Take a bath!" "Shower!"
Has anyone ever been told WHY? or HOW?
No one told me how to wash my body. I believe most of us learn from context based on when we were young and parental figures would wash us.
But, are we doing it correctly? Are there techniques, tools, things to avoid?
The skin is not only one of the body's organs it is also the LARGEST organ we have. Like every other organ such as the heart, brain, kidneys, etc., I am sure there are those of us that want to make sure it stays healthy.
However, it's not a topic that is usually discussed because, in my opinion, it feels like everyone finds it intrinsic and common knowledge. Like "Duh, everyone knows how to wash their body." But, truthfully, I didn't know how. And I am sure there are many of us out there that don't know either.
So.... Let's talk about it!
WHY WE WASH OUR BODIES
First off. What is the point of it all? As we live and move through our day our skin produces oils and sweat. We also have old skin cells that die off and shed to make room for new skin cells. We also may come in contact with the usual dirt, dust, and outdoor pollutants, things that can make us sick such as bacteria, viruses, and fungi*, as well as things we put on our bodies purposefully such as make up, fragrances, lotions, sunscreen, etc.
(*I do want to note we do have bacteria, viruses, and fungi that live on our skin and often times that is normal. It is called our skin microbiome. Fun stuff!)
A lot of this stuff can clog pores or lead to infections and illnesses. A build-up of this stuff can also lead to an unwanted body odor. Washing is how we remove all of this stuff to try to keep our skin at its best.
HOW OFTEN SHOULD I BE WASHING MY BODY?
That mostly depends on you! The general consensus is at least 2-3 times per week. The maximum recommendation is 2 times per day. However, everyone is different based on how our natural skin acts, the environment you live and work in, how much you sweat or exercise, the products you put on, etc. There are many factors and they can change from day to day.
I work in mostly a sterile environment. My wash schedule will probably differ from someone who works in construction.
I try to exercise 3-4 times per week. If someone doesn't exercise as much or more than that then their wash schedule will be different, too.
Generally you want to wash whenever you feel like you have a lot of sweat or oils, notice unwanted body odor, or notice visible dirt or debris. You also don't want to wash too much as this can dry out the skin and lead to irritation or flare ups of certain skin conditions like eczema or psoriasis.
AREAS TO HIT
Most of us often focus on the core. Underarms, chest and abdomen, and genitalia. However, we should be aiming for all parts of our skin. (The face is whole issue that I think should be addressed in a different post. We are just going to focus on the body for now.)
Places people often miss:
Behind and the outer ears
Back
Bottom of feet
In-between toes
Belly button
Between buttocks
In-between skin folds
The outside of the vagina (known as the vulva) can also be cleaned with just soap and water. Nothing fancy. No special soaps, douches, fragrances. Just. Soap. And. Water. Do NOT clean the inside. The inside (the vaginal canal) is self-cleaning. Leave it ALONE.
TECHNIQUE
There is a specific technique? Kind of, yeah. What is recommended is to gently massage the skin in small circles about the body. Scrubbing too hard can irritate the skin. Here's how:
Rest your open palm on your forearm. Do not put too much pressure or use your nails. Move your hand in small circles for 2-3 seconds. That's how to wash!
You may want to focus and take some extra time in areas that trap a lot of sweat and oils such as groin, underarms, and between skin folds but otherwise a few seconds of gentle massaging does the trick!
WHAT SOAP DO I USE?
Basically there are 2 general types: soap bars and body washes. The one you use is based on skin sensitivity, cost, or personal preferences.
Soap bars are often what we think of when we think of soap. It is a solid material that has fats to help remove oils and dirt from skin. If you feel as though you do not have sensitive skin and just want to get clean this is what is often used.
Body washes are liquid materials that do a similar work to bar soaps but most people find them to be less drying or better tolerated on more sensitive skin.
Either work just fine! Pick one you like that doesn't irritate your skin and makes you feel clean.
TOOLS
There are a lot of of tools out there to help wash. The biggest are washcloths and loofahs.
Washcloths
Loofahs
Any one of them is fine. The best way to keep them clean is to make sure they can dry between uses and to wash the cloths or loofahs at least once per week, which can often be done with the rest of your laundry.
However if you find you have sensitive skin or do not like the feel. Your hands work just as well!
DRYING
Don't forget to dry yourself once you step out of the bath or shower. Use a clean towel and pat the skin dry. You do not need to rub as this can also irritate the skin, especially for those with skin conditions such as eczema or psoriasis.
Don't forget the skin folds! Skin folds that don't get properly dried can harbor moisture which bacteria, viruses, and fungi love. It can also lead to increased skin friction which can breakdown the skin and cause rashes as well as infection. If you would like to avoid drying with a towel for whatever reason a hair dryer on a cool setting also works.
Make sure your drying towel also dries well between uses and wash your towel at least once per week.
WHAT TO AVOID
Lastly I want to discuss what to avoid:
Long showers or really hot showers can dry out the skin or scald the skin.
Excessive scrubbing or tools that cause excessive scrubbing can irritate the skin.
Washing too often can dry the skin and disrupt the normal microbiome.
Antibacterial soaps may change your skin microbiome or lead to resistance so they are generally unnecessary unless directed by your specific general medical provider or dermatologist.
Scented soaps may need to be avoided for those with sensitive skin. Fragrance-free soaps and body washes work just as well.
So that is what I have on body washing! I am trying to leave it as a general guideline for the general public. You know, stuff I wish someone had told me when I was learning how to care for myself.
If you have any specific questions about your body or any skin conditions I would recommend you talk to a medical provider. Even if you think it may or may not be normal. It doesn't hurt to ask but would best be answered by a trained medical professional who can talk to you in person.
Love you all,
MamaMedicine
July 9, 2026
Welcome everyone!
This blog was made to help those who did not or do not have parental or authority figures to ask about what to expect about their bodies and how to take care of their health and hygiene.
I created this blog because I have had personal experiences where I have been confused about my body and how to keep myself healthy and did not have parents or medical providers to educate me.
I now work as a certified Physician Assistant in an Urgent Care and come across many patients who do not have basic understanding of their health and body. Either from a lack of parental knowledge and guidance, lack of access to health care, fear of the medical system, misinformation, etc.
Everything I give you here will be general guidelines about what to expect with your ever changing body, answering basic questions, how to be hygienic, discussions on general health, and information on preventative medicine.
I would also like to try and make medicine and health easier to understand and less scary. This is suppose to be educational and, of course, NONJUDGEMENTAL.
*Disclaimer: I cannot give specific advice about the individual person and if you do have any specific concerns or questions I will always direct you to your family doctor, specialist, urgent care, or emergency department.
Love you all,
MamaMedicine