India is the land of stories. Myths, legends, fables, and folk tales - our heritage offers a virtual treasure trove of stories which educate, enthrall, enchant and entertain. India is probably the first country where story telling was used as a medium to convey values and wisdom. Vishnu Sharma’s Panchantra tales have travelled all over influencing and inspiring the literature of countries across the world.
With a legacy as rich as this it is sometimes worrying when I am asked the importance of reading and sharing stories.
I have conducted story telling sessions in schools in the continents of Europe and Africa as well as in the cities, towns and slums of India. I have reached out to Gen Y & Z through tales in print, on audio, in virtual and now in the digital media. Irrespective of time, space, language and medium I have been lucky to establish a connect with the kids which has been nothing short of sublime.
Why do I spend so much of my time and energy in spinning and sharing yarns? For money – hardly. I wouldn’t be able to maintain my pet Labrador for a week on the money I get. In fact, more often than not the balance sheet of storytelling is titled heavily on the debit rather than the credit side. Do I do it for fame? Far more people would be aware of a two bit star on a weekly comedy show who shakes his behind than they would be of me and tale telling abilities.
I do it because it makes me feel fulfilled. It makes feel self-actualized. It makes me feel alive….
Why should you as a parent share stories with his or her kids?
When you tell a child a story, you create a bond with him. You give him your undivided attention and also get his. You share something which is very valuable to you - your time - with him. Through your stories you can help your son enhance his imagination and creativity. And most important, you can teach him the value of values.
Of all the things my father taught me, possibly the one that I cherish the most is the value of reading. From a very young age read to your child as much as possible. Get her to fall in love with your words and the pictures in the book. As she grows buy her attractive books with pictures and help her read on her own. Encourage her to ask questions and answer them patiently. As she adds years, add books to her life. Let reading become a regular part of her routine. Discuss her favorite author and characters with her. If you haven’t heard of them read up a bit yourself. This will make your ties stronger. Moreover, if she catches you reading she is sure to imitate you.
Build your own little library and keep it well stocked with books of different genres – so that anytime she wants to reach out for something interesting it is always there for her. On her birthday encourage your friends/relatives to give her books. You too make it a habit of giving books as gifts. This way, not only will you be setting an example – you will also be promoting the reading habit.
If your child is comfortable with her Cell Phone or Tab you can introduce her to new apps which make stories digitally interactive and are increasingly becoming popular.
It really doesn’t matter whether you read out stories from a book, or a digital app. It is of no consequence whether you are hearing the story together or you are spinning your own yarn. What is most important is to share the magical, funny, mythical, crazy universe of tales with her.
An award winning author, Ramendra Kumar (Ramen) loves to dabble in fiction, poetry, satire and travelogues. 25 books written by him have been published by well known names and translated into several Indian and foreign languages. His writings have found a place in textbooks and anthologies, both in India and abroad. The first edition of his latest book Mohini was sold out in the very first week of its release. His first book of non-fiction Effective Parenting : A New Paradigm, published on Amazon Kindle, too has been very well received.
Ramen is an inspirational speaker and storyteller for children and has also been conducting creative writing workshops across the country. He has his own website www.ramendra.in and a page devoted to him on Wikipedia.
About Kirtana : Voice-over artist for ‘Happy Friendship Day’ by Ramendra Kumar
Hello, I am Kirtana Prakash, an 8-year old girl studying in grade 3 at Vidhya Niketan Public School, Coimbatore. I am a voracious reader and a keen Carnatic student. I love star-gazing in the night sky with my father. I also like to write in my spare time. I dream of becoming a Space scientist in future and an accomplished Carnatic singer too. Recording ‘Ramen’ uncle’s stories have been a pleasure for me since his stories are interesting, educational as well as fun to read. Thank you for this wonderful opportunity, Ramen uncle.
About Swadha : Illustrator for ‘Toto and Hari’ and ‘Happy Friendship Day’ by Ramendra Kumar
"I am Swadha Mohanty, a student of class 12.From the very childhood, my ambition is to become an artist who can do the nation proud in the field of art and painting. I want to study in National Institute of Design, Ahmadabad and hone my skills.My hobby is reading short stories (English), making crafts with any unused item, watching TV mainly 'Satyamev Jayate' etc. in addition to of course doing art.I was really thrilled when I saw the story ‘Toto And Hari’ on my computer. It felt great to reach out to my audience through a new medium.