Worst Years Of Life

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by Jim Benton

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Three kinds of attraction and why it’s important to know the difference

Aesthetic attraction: “I want to look at you.” You think someone is beautiful, very pleasing to the eye, but you feel no desire to touch them.

Sensual attraction: “I want to cuddle you.” You feel a great deal of affection towards someone and you want to hug them, hold them, perhaps kiss them, but with your hands never straying below the belt.

Sexual attraction: “I want to fuck you.” You want to do things of an explicitly sexual nature with someone.

Why is this distinction important? Because I didn’t realize I was demisexual until the age of 27 because all my life I thought that aesthetic + sensual attraction was the same thing as sexual attraction. I always thought that finding someone beautiful and wanting to touch or kiss them was sexual attraction, but realizing that it’s not, that sexual attraction means actually desiring sexual acts with a person, has changed my life and explained so many things. When I was figuring this out, a number of other people commented that they felt the exact same as me, so I think this is some pretty important stuff to spread around.

Click here if you think might be asexual,  or here if you think you might be demisexual.

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now i know what true power feels like

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Actually really good career advice from a laughing homicidal madman.

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Evil song by the Dark Beach Boys: “It Wouldn’t Be Nice”

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toe beans

reblog if you agree

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Horror movie trailer editors struggling to find a children’s nursery rhyme that already hasn’t been used for a different horror movie trailer

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*creepy child’s voice singing* Milk milk…. lemonade… ‘round the corner… fudge is made

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Shoutout to the small collection of people who are actually there when you need them..

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rare endangerd species

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is everyone here on drugs

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it’s things like this that give my life meaning

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made a craigslist ad !

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are you telling me to eat my friends

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Naw, ya’ll just get baked together.

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Whoever is really meant to be in your life will always gravitate back to you, no matter how far they wander off

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when you high at the dinner table

and your mom ask you to pass the collard greens

and you give her the mashed potatoes

where am i

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