Marion Ro- @marion-o7 - Tumblr Blog

ryntynryn-deactivated20260325

consent isn’t sexy, it’s fucking mandatory. we’ve gotten to the point of forcing performance upon women that we have to “convince” men not to rape women by framing consent as something desirable, instead of just expecting men to value the bodily autonomy of women.

unidentifiedflyingwoman

The concept of a family being functional and healthy only when there’s a man present is truly baffling to me as a Slavic woman who was raised in a post soviet region, where there’s not a single family where father is either 1. Present 2. A breadwinner 3. Not an alcoholic 4. Not abusive 5. Not neglectful and absent 6. Not a cheater 7. Doesn’t have some crazy ass military trauma etc. So many of my peers where raised by the combo “mom+grandma” simply because dads where awful or just left.

The longer I live the closer I come to realisation that our modern concept of this perfect “mom+dad” family is an absolute trash because men just simply aren’t developed enough to truly care for the community. No man ever is a family material. Women are sold this idea that with the right man they can have a perfect healthy household full of happy rosy-cheeked babies, but you almost never hear a happy story, and the saddest of them all are not even about women leaving and choosing to raise their kids with grandmothers, actually. Behind every “happily-married-for-30-years-and-counting” family there’s a woman who just gave up for the sake of social acceptance, buried her dreams and aspirations deep down within and just learned to cope.

We as society tend to overvalue a man’s contribution to a family (even when there’s none, just his mere presence) and undervalue a woman’s. It’s a shame we still view households without a man as unhealthy and non-functional, when in so many cases they actually are and even more so. I would even claim that only a man-free family can be truly functional and healthy.

ratqueen40

There is no male equivalent to Hooters because grown ass women don’t create a demand for it. Onlyfans and porn could be banned and outlawed today and the majority of people angry about it would be grown ass men, and many young males. Males are known to literally riot and become more violent against their own families during soccer and football season, but women are more emotional and driven by their feelings right? The most emotional woman will never compare to the average male who lacks emotional regulation and the ability to articulate his own thoughts and feelings.

lecruee

i fucking hate everyone and everything this is the most casually misogynistic tweet ive ever seen. like you cannot hide from it, it doesnt matter where you go. women are literally inches away from reviving chinese foot binding, lets cheer them on!!!

fuck beauty fuck high fashion fuck high heels fuck make up fuck restrictive, impractical clothing women can barely walk in.

there is absolutely, categorically no way she wasnt feeling pain in those fuck ass heels and it literally makes me cringe just looking at it.

radiant-spirit-guardians

Once, as a young girl, I asked my mum why male dogs would chase female dogs in heat even when the female seemed most unwilling. She told me that was just the way dogs acted.

Then I learned about how other male animals act in a similar way. From dolphins to ducks to bears to salmon to bugs. How some species will have the male kill infants to mate with females. How female ducks quite literally evolved complex vaginas to protect themselves from male ducks' aggression.

Then I learned about how male dogs, chiefly intact ones, are responsible for most fatal dog attacks.

Then I learned about how human males commit the vast majority of violent crimes. Rape, child sexual abuse, murder, animal sexual abuse, torture. How most women have been sexually harassed in one way or another. I was a minor the first time it happened and unfortunately I'm not alone in that experience.

And everything seemed utterly hopeless for a while there. These days I don't buy it that men are inherently violent and evil. They choose to harm others, they choose to be horrible role models to young boys. It becomes an ugly cycle. "Boys will be boys" "It's in their nature" stripes them from any responsibility and takes away their autonomy. Raising boys to be compassionate, decent people seems like an impossible task when you know he'll meet many, many boys who think it's funny to harass girls or look the other way when they see one of their mates do it.

Now, do you know what females of other species often do to protect themselves? They stick together, they protect each other, they fight back as a group. And that's what women need now more than ever. We need to stick together, to work together, to prioritize the women in our lives. Misogyny being sex based made me feel like being born female was a curse for a while, but that's not the case at all, we're not cursed or paying the price for committing the original sin or whatever patriarchal bullshit we've been told. Stick together.

For the so called rational sex, men sure as hell behave like animals.

wombwarriors

No one asked but I've been thinking about a few posts I've seen where women lament discovering radical feminism because it made their outlook on the world so depressing. And I feel for everyone who goes through this, but I think its actually much better for you to know why you're suffering.

Before I knew about feminism, everything that happened was an isolated incident. My mother's childhood abuse wasn't connected to the domestic abuse she experienced as an adult, and my friend's childhood abuse wasn't connected to the sexual abuse she faced from her peers as a teenager. Eating disorders had nothing to do with rape, and neither did cutting yourself, and neither did transitioning. Everything women go through was random, unpredictable, and unavoidable, and nobody was ever to blame.

Except, something is always to blame. Everything happens for a reason- it's all caused by something else. Humans have an innate urge to rationalize traumatic experiences and understand their cause, so that we might avoid experiencing the same pain in the future. But without the language of feminism, there is only one way to rationalize all these things. When you're a little girl, you grow up learning that male violence is the law of the land. These are the way things are, and everyone is happy with it, so if you're unhappy then you're too sensitive for this world. You need to deal with it. You rapist will sneer this at you, and so will your mom, your grandmother, and your friends. And you will believe it.

Without feminism, you internalize that all your discomfort, all your trauma, it's a consequence of your failure to adapt to reality. It's your fault, and so is everything that happens to you, and everything that happens to every woman like you. There's no deeper meaning to anything: it's Nicole's fault for marrying a psycho, it's Aileen's fault for running away from home, it's Amber's fault for not leaving sooner, and it's Ariana's fault for never visiting an ED clinic.

All these women brought it onto themselves, and so did you. You invited that man to touch your toddler body by having a vagina. You invited that boy to hold you down and rape you by talking to him. Without the language of feminism, you can only communicate through the rules of misogyny, where everything is women's fault, and men are never responsible for anything. It's a way of life that is fundamentally hostile to women, and the vast majority of women have internalized it, at a great personal cost, because they have never been offered another way to look at the situation.

Only feminism can break you free from that endless cycle of guilt and shame. Only feminism can give you the language needed to forgive yourself and all other women for how we've turned out after years of violent abuse. And only through that forgiveness- that recognition that women are largely not to blame for the sorry state of our rotten lives, can you begin to heal from your own trauma.

Feminism allows women to redefine our lives and our identities in a world where men have always had the final say. If being able to take that power for ourselves didn't matter, then men wouldn't work so hard to strip it away.

ratqueen40

Just a reminder in case anyone lives under a damn rock-the number one perpetrators of child sexual abuse are biological fathers. And you can argue with me all fucking day about “what about female predators and mothers who are sexually abusing their kids??!” Yeah we know they exist, we don’t like that they exist, and they deserve to be punished for their horrific crimes, but overwhelmingly males (especially teenage males) love to downplay and even wish to be in the positions of male survivors of CSA from female perps. I’ve personally never seen, met or heard a woman hear a story about a male being sexually abused, groomed or molested by a female perp and say “yeah, wish that was me! Why wasn’t it me guys?”. I hate how stupid some people choose to be. And a lot of fathers willingly expose their own sons to porn, take them to brothels and pay for strippers to sexually abuse them. Russel Brand for example, he’s a rapist, predator and degenerate, and it’s not surprising he is the way he is, because it can absolutely be drawn back onto his father who took him to a brothel in the Philippines when he was just 16 years old. Lastly, porn and media is fueling this fantasy that young males should chase and peruse their female teachers/authority figures/older relatives, because they know they are more than likely to have a physical advantage over the woman in these scenarios, and these males openly and proudly admit this. “It’s not the same” is also what they say when we compare it to male predators preying on their female students and grooming them, but they still don’t care about the power imbalance in place minus the physical strength and size difference.

recoveringsoulsposts

Any time your brain is telling you “this is wrong” or “this is fucked up” listen to that voice. Don’t let people gaslight you into making you think what you’re thinking is wrong. Stand firm in your opinions, morals & values.

ratqueen40

You cannot be neutral with the state of pornography and how damaging it is. It’s caused more harm than good, and if you refuse to recognize that then you’re a moron. And don’t you dare call yourself any type of feminist if you’re pro kink, sex work or porn or bdsm. You really believe those concepts created and normalized by men empower and benefit women and girls?

toffeeswirled

I desperately need to live in a female only community. I know this sounds extreme but I really hate going outside and seeing males. Especially when they act without manners and are just reckless and gross in front of everyone. Spitting on the street, catcalling women, blocking people’s ways. So much more. Eugh.

ratqueen40

Do most males really believe having a father in the home is automatically a good thing? Like genuinely, most people I know who did have their dad’s present, were either negligent, abusive, emotionally detached and uninvolved with their kids and wives interests and hobbies. There is never an emphasis on fathers being present while also being competent, empathetic, kind, selfless and supportive, that’s why most males will think it’s better to have a dad in the home than no dad at all. I shit you not, I’ve read enough comments online from males admitting their own daddies beat them, yelled at them over frivolous shit and just general abuse, and these males convince themselves they’re well adjusted and happy their dad raised them like that. Insanity, they see nothing wrong with fathers inflicting fear and shame in order to gain “respect”, no wonder why so many males use violence as a means to feel superior. Men think fatherless women and girls are doomed, when in reality that just reflects on a man’s choice of being a deadbeat father. How the fuck could a man make me feel sorry or ashamed for something my dad chose to do, like how the fuck would that have any affect on my character lmao.

toffeeswirled

This “most empathic gender btw” line is so overused and never made sense to me. Even if all women suddenly became extremely cold and un-empathetic, so what? Where has being caring, nurturing, and empathic got us after thousands of years? After women’s physical and mental “weakness” was taken advantage of for so long, it’s about fucking time. At this point being “the bigger person” is a manipulation tactic. Why is it a moral duty for us to be empathic while men are raping, abusing, and killing women EVERY DAY? It’s happening somewhere at this very moment but you’re whining because your feelings got hurt? Go suck a dick.

artemis-melody

The epstein files thing is like ultimate proof that nobody gives a fuck about women. The richest most powerful men in the world committed unforgivable crimes against humanity, but because women and girls were the majority of the victims, it's okay and not worth talking about to the extent that it needs to be talked abt.

All the men on that list need to get the death penalty but since they are men and the victims are women nothing will ever happen to them