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🇸🇩 “Many women, I think, resist feminism because it is an agony to be fully conscious of the brutal misogyny which permeates culture, society, and all personal relationships.” - Andrea Dworkin

[karinyosa]

just found out that there is a sudanfunds website! like gazafunds, it is a compilation of funds for people facing genocide

[artemisbarnowl]

Pussy looking particularly iridescent today

[forest-woman]

[laurierrose]

we need to start legally protecting these like make this kind of bathroom part of the national park system

[pure]

both cool hip woke leftist women and right wing women believe that enduring pain without complaint is a sign of female maturity. they dismiss women’s pain for the same reasons. they believe our pain is frivolous, and this belief ties directly into medical misogyny and does nothing to improve medical outcomes. leftist women who participate in this will have the audacity to believe they’re morally superior to right wing women, which makes them the worst offenders in my eyes—you must endure the pain of bodily violation to protect yourself and suck it up, they say. they will criticize women for caring about their own pain and dismiss them as being childish rather than criticize medicine for being violent to women. i hate them. 💀

gynecology is a medical field chock full of absolute barbarism. it is well known that the origins of its practices stemmed from using enslaved women as experiments, with no anesthesia. rape and the dismissal of our pain is baked into the practice. women need to be screened for all of these related issues, but gynecology and the wider sphere of medicine in general have done everything in their power to alienate women from necessary care by dismissing our pain. it’s not frivolous. they don’t care. and this lack of care on the part of gynecology is what kills women, not women’s fear and avoidance of rape and pain.

you want women to get pap smears? demand that these evil and sadistic gynecologists offer sedation in all of their offices. they can do it. they won’t do it because they believe our pain is frivolous, and they will tell you as such. they think sedation is a cheat code, they think it’s far too much to ask for, because women asking to bypass pain is always viewed as a sign of immaturity. they will attribute our fear to a matter of psychology instead of a matter of objective self-protection. they are evil.

after over a decade of attempting to get pap smears, failing, crying because i failed to be a big girl by failing to endure the pain, and then coming to the realization that it is the gynecologists who are wrong and it is them who are failing women, the only way i was able to do it was via sedation. after visiting multiple different practices over the years, i’ve come to the conclusion that it is a medical and social crime against women that sedation is not offered. it’s not a perfect solution, but it is a much better, more constructive solution than telling women their pain and fear of rape is frivolous. we’re not insane and we’re not immature. we just live in a male supremacist hellscape.

[quinntheestallion]

Men weaponize suicide so much you couldn't pay me to give af about male suicidality.

Literally one of my first ever boyfriends constantly threatened suicide. And was sad that I was skipping a grade so he talked the principal into letting him skip a grade too (even though he was low key illiterate and in no way qualified for advancement and actually NEEDED extra time to study).

Thinking back on that situation now is kinda crazy. Lmao Like I skipped a grade because I was top 3 in class and he skipped a grade despite having horrible grades because he threw a tantrum??

Male privelege is insane.

[lecruee]

knowing about murder-suicides this is actually such a scary tweet. suicidal men are dangerous and they will take you with them often.

[thefemaleterrorist]

women’s history month has been rather bleak and depressing but i’m here to remind

[lecruee]

stop calling it “rough” sex thats a euphemism and a normative term that serves the purposes of abusers and misogynists. descriptively it is violent, injurious sex. lets be objective! objectivity is the friend of feminism

[lecruee]

exam in 2 weeks and havent started studying am i gonna make this time

[futchcassidyandthecumdancekid]

i dont even care about getting “high” i just really enjoy coughing so fucking hard

[radishnt]

“but what if my friend gets offended and hates me and refuses to speak to me after i set a boundary” easy peasy! that is not your friend. hope this helps

[brazenbipolar-blog]

Why Are Libfems… like she almost got the point, but because of sex posi bullshit she spun it the wrong way. It’s SAD that so many women in kink/BDSM are trying to use it as a bandaid coping mechanism for trauma. It’s sad that the men involved in that scene prey upon women they know are vulnerable. It’s not badass by any means. Hypersexuality as a response to trauma shouldn’t be romanticized.

[gonegrrrrrl-deactivated20200821]

???? TrAuma

Is badaSS?????!!!! I puked

[itisthefunpolice]

Here is a video on re-victimization from the sex positivity guru herself. She actually does a good job talking about the topic dispite not recognizing how BDSM is abuse and encourages re-victimization:

[thecoloredcanvas]

Imagine if we treated any other form of trauma like this.

Are you traumatized by being beaten by your alcoholic father when you were a child? Have you tried asking your partner or a friend to get drunk and beat you, so that you can finally be in control of your life and fully recover?

Are you traumatized by spending time in a war zone? Have you tried asking your friends to explode a bunch of shit around you and pretend to be dead so that you can experience the healing powers of consent?

Experienced enslavement and suffering trauma as a consequence? Why not become someone’s human pet and let them lead you around on a leash and make you eat out of a dog bowl and do all their house chores? Don’t you know how liberated and free it will make you feel, to be willingly objectified and subjugated?

Like?

People just say this shit. There are no studies to back it, no logic to support it.

Yet here we are.

[friendlymathematician]

every time i scroll past this i read the first line of the tweet and go yeah, we should look into the connection between males who are into fucked up things and rapists. and then i read the rest of it.

[anomalys-bane]

all the attention is on sydney sweeney humiliating herself by playing an onlyfans star in euphoria season 3 and having diaper photoshoots and dressing like a dog on a leash and whatnot but where is the attention on jacob elordi?? that man is very okay with taking on roles where he plays sexually violent men that degrade women. 'oh he's just playing a role doesn't mean he's actually doing it, you must also think a fight scene in a movie actually has the actor actually hitting someone blah blah' except fight scenes are made up and no one actually breaks someone's jaw. but the woman in these scenes is very much dressed up and humiliated as part of the role, and we're talking explicit scenes here. and elordi is very much okay with doing that, you can't convince me that doesn't say something about him. fuck jacob elordi for real

[shinhati]

"sabrina carpenter's intention-" sabrina carpenter is a marketing technique. her schtick was invented by a label (men) for mass consumption. they had a vision for a pop star to fill a market niche and hired sabrina for it. she has professional male songwriters on all of her songs, she's styled by men, produced by men, marketed by men. i guarantee that album cover was a man's idea. she's not some solo indie artist she's a product that men made to sell to women

[z0ruas]

Feminism is so in its infancy compared to the misogyny. The misogyny is thousands of years old, but feminism is a hundred years old. We are trying to undo, and we're trying to unpick, embedded structures in society of women being inferior and seen as crazy that have been dominant for millennia.

Dr. Jessica Taylor, "Sexy But Psycho: How the Patriarchy Uses Women's Trauma Against Them"

[tendergesture]

it's orange season

[badmiffy]

um actually I’m immune to social influence btw, i just HAPPENED to arrive at the same free choice as every other woman on the planet. you know, the one that’s socially expected of us and that we face social repercussions for not choosing? yeah it’s pure coincidence

[lecruee]

i tried rewatching rapunzel the other day and boy was i uncomfortable... def top 10 noncey animated movies.