Ravynn

24 I like to make art and music Female liberation over male entitlement. I will NOT debate my rights, I enjoy using the block button A LOT🫶🏽 Woman is NOT a feeling, it’s a state of being.

[ratqueen40]

With this recent story, it really goes to show how fucking male centered so many BW are. Albeit it’s primarily older BW, but it’s still sad seeing how many of them shift blame onto this girl. It doesn’t matter if she lied about her age, it doesn’t matter if she was already sneaking that man into her mama house, it doesn’t matter at all cause he was 20 and she was a literal child. And the mom getting blamed as per usual when males decide to prey on our children. I’m sick and beyond tired of the adultification of black girls and teens. And if she was sneaking him into her home, why tf did he feel so ok doing that knowing what he was doing was wrong??

[ratqueen40]

This archetype of white woman and black man irks me. She looks beyond tired and her filler is migrating so bad. I just don’t understand how BM end up with WW who have similar features that BW have, but often they’re enhanced surgically and cosmetic wise.

[baithate]

this but unironically !

[radfem-flaviusposting]

I want him strung up by his eyes forever.

[realist-fortheloveofwomen]

Jax was such a massive annoying fucking hypocrite I don’t understand how anyone could argue against “him being held accountable” unless they themselves are a misogynist

Jax should’ve been told to shut the fuck up, take responsibility in ribbits suicide, not forgiven, and told that other people have problems too and the world doesn’t revolve around him.

[ratqueen40]

What bothers me is how some ppl have made “yuri” fanart of Ribbit and Jax. Like honestly, what is wrong with some of yall, cause Jax is not and cannot be a lesbian!

[ratqueen40]

It’s disturbing when we remember that rape and male violence become more rampant during natural disasters. Using the unfortunate circumstances to exploit and prey on already vulnerable and displaced women and children. I sometimes wonder if men are of the same species as us, because why is rape a priority during disasters? Completely worthless, that’s what most males are.

The last major tsunami in Japan, killed so many people, but how many men took opportunities to rape and sexually abuse girls, boys and women?? Like wtf, it honestly doesn’t even shock me anymore.

[ratqueen40]

My health has gone down the shitter ever since I gave birth. That’s it, that’s the post. Don’t have kids, don’t ever get pregnant. I don’t regret my daughter, but I regret the circumstances I had her in. I feel really low and emotional today, I need to get out the house and interact with other ppl. But the other part of me wants to binge drink, smoke weed and doom scroll. I want to replace all the bad feelings I have with my vices.

And what makes it all the worse? I want at least one more child. I feel like I’m mentally ill for even having that thought. Why would I wanna go through all that shit again? Why do some moms want more kids after knowing the first pregancy and birth were so unforgiving? I am actually mentally ill. I’m just feeling a lot of things rn, maybe I need to just talk to someone idk. I get very lonely and feel like my identity is just being a mom most days. I’m not even 25 and I’ve already feel like my body is wrecked. I have bowel issues, my vagina was sewn up tighter than it was before because I had an episiotomy, I had to get a c section, I sometimes can’t tell if I need to shit or if it’s just gas due to my c section, my HS has worsened, along with my PMOS, my skin breaks out in hives all over (I had this issue prior to ever getting pregnant, but its every single day breaking out in hives and it’s all over my body except my face and neck), my oral health has worsened (I had to get an extraction earlier this year). Those first few months PP…. I only remember being stressed, tired and wanting to hurt myself and not be alive. Some days I still feel that, and it’s been two years since I’ve had my daughter. My PPD and PPA never went away or got better, and tbh it doesn’t help that I binge drink and smoke weed to try and numb whatever it is I’m feeling. I’m a high functioning addict, and most ppl don’t even realize that. It’s not a flex by any means, it’s just unfortunately my situation and my own choices that have lead me to these habits. I need help.

[ratqueen40]

“Men suffer in silence” but not when they murder their entire families then themselves.

“Men suffer in silence” until they decide to kill themselves from jumping out of a plane while leaving the female pilot by herself to figure out how to land the plane, while also dealing with the fact that she just witnessed that male pilot jump out the plane.

“Men suffer in silence” until that father and husband comes home and drinks and beats his wife, kids and the dog/cat, cause “he’s stressed from work”.

[ratqueen40]

“I think rape would help you” said by the TIF who was spamming my posts with rape and death threats. Like come up with something new and original. You’ll never be a man, even if you “play” the part so well.

at least for me, being raped wasn’t the worst thing that happened to me. Ofc it impacted me and impedes on my sex life with my husband from time to time, but it’s literally not the worst thing I’ve experienced. Like is it an attempt for her to try and “shame” me for the actions of the men who raped me/sexually abused me? Lmaoo

[ratqueen40]

I get heartbroken seeing women undergo cosmetic surgery to alter the way they look. And it was never about judging their value or worth because of it, but lamenting the fact that they erased the faces of the women before them. It’s haunting. I love my nose, my lips, my ears, my skin, my compressed spine and all.

[ratqueen40]

Kanye West is the biggest loser and dumbass in the world. He hates how his daughter North is being exploited and adultified, because he has degraded and publicly disrespected and vilified many women, including KIM! The behavior from the media and other men is forcing him to look into a mirror. This man made a whole song talking about gold diggers, and another song mentioning how a BM will leave a BW for a white girl. Anyways, North west is not “fast”, or “acting too grown”. She’s being exploited and profited off of, and both of her parents are complicit. And this happens all too often and mostly to black and biracial black girls/teen girls. Experiencing it firsthand is definitely something, not enjoyable at all.

[ratqueen40]

She should’ve allowed her son to wear “girls” clothes and grow his hair out, without affirming the trans bs. This definitely feels like it’s more for her than her son. Munchausen by proxy, in this case it’s the parent living through their vulnerable and possibly mentally ill child, all on the basis that they’re “trans”. Most of these kids often end up being lesbian or gay, or gnc and same sex attracted. Affirming a child’s discomfort around their sex and body is abusive, because what parent would affirm their child with an ED, practicing self harm or anything like that?

[fematrix]

i feel sorry for all of the kids that got their blogs infected with cockslinger's bots. we - as adults - may just raise a brow and move on, but i can imagine that suddenly getting 20+ rape and murder threats a day being pretty damaging for a young teenager's psyche.

it's not normal and tumblr pretends not to see it, but when minors on their platform get harassed by a swarm of anonymous accounts, all wishing them death and brutal rape, that's literally a crime by most law systems. not to mention the moral side of it.

@staff how do you feel about little girls and boys being unconsentually exposed, multiple times a day for who knows how long, to explicit scenarios of them being raped and killed, made a sex slave, accused of grooming or pedophilia?

some of you may be parents yourselves. how would you feel about your children being targeted and bombarded with the kind of messages below? just because some time ago a radfem reblogged a cute cat picture from their blog, now they're threatened with sexual violence and death. it's your fault too.

[ratqueen40]

Only a male would conflate rape to not allowing minors to undergo HRT. Only a male would be delusional enough to think those two things have anything to do with one another. It’s also very male coded to immediately bring up rape when it’s literally not relevant to the current issue at hand. Only a male would think the natural onset of puberty is “medidcal torture”. This inflammatory and emotionally driven language is how these males conduct themselves, threatening violence and self harm if they don’t get what they want.

It’s like when a straight male threatens to hurt or kill himself if his wife or gf attempts to leave him because he’s unhinged and violent.

[g1rluninterruptedd]

speaking of drag again, i don’t get why ppl aren’t allowed to be upset by trixie mattel’s old anne frank bit.

“everyone could laugh at fucked up stuff because life was fucked up”. i feel like some of you look through such a narrow, rose colored lens of “marginalized males can do anything they want without criticism, they are never wrong” and it’s unfortunately very prevalent in this community. life being fucked up does not give you the right to laugh at a bit of a real life young girl who was murdered in a genocide. this is disgusting, i don’t care if drag is meant to be weird and different, there is a line and this most definitely crosses it. it’s not “conservative” to say that you shouldn’t make a mockery of a child.

[ratqueen40]

Imagine if a drag king did a costume or character based around Emmet Till, that woman would be dragged to hell and verbally abused online relentlessly. And I used to love drag, like unironically I really loved it. The elaborate costumes and wigs, the bold and expressive makeup, the dance routines and stand up performances. Now it’s just seeing which males can conjure up the most misogynistic costumes based around feminity and questionable stage names.

[ratqueen40]

Call me stupid, but I get bothered by comments like these. OFC this woman is evil and reprensible in what she did to her son and how she made him suffer. But the way this commenter refuses to also dehumanize the father in this case is bizarre, like why does he still retain the title of a “father”, even tho he was complicit and guilty in abusing and torturing his son?

And this pattern(the comments and thoughts you can see for yourself) is very obvious in many of these intense and horrific cases involving young children and babies. Even when the men are just as guilty or the only ones directly guilty in the child’s death and abuse, the moms always seem to get more shit for it. And this doesn’t mean I don’t care that some of these moms are complicit and KNOW their babies are being harmed, but the comments make it clear that the moms will always be the worst ones no matter what. Maybe I’m reaching idk.

[nawadi-roman]

Because the public consensus is children are only the mother’s responsibility. The father’s participation is optional. Fathers don’t have any responsibility towards their kids. They don’t owe them kindness or care but women do. Whenever a man commits a crime, people never talk about him, they only focus on a woman whether she is the victim or the man’s wife or mother. Society and by large men, have decided that men can do whatever they want to whoever because men are free beings, it always falls on women and kids to protect themselves if they ever stood in any man’s way. Men are unstoppable force and we should just move out of their way (run) if we don’t want to get hurt, and if we did get hurt then oh well it’s the force of nature. He did what men do. No one can blame him for exercising his god given right

[ratqueen40]

The only time men seem to get some type of “blame” is when their daughters are called “fatherless”. Because wouldn’t that just reflect on the father failing to show up for his daughter? So men insult other men at the expense of a girl or woman who is tied to him in some way, but she will still be the one dealing with the consequences of the actions of that man?

[ratqueen40]

Call me stupid, but I get bothered by comments like these. OFC this woman is evil and reprensible in what she did to her son and how she made him suffer. But the way this commenter refuses to also dehumanize the father in this case is bizarre, like why does he still retain the title of a “father”, even tho he was complicit and guilty in abusing and torturing his son?

And this pattern(the comments and thoughts you can see for yourself) is very obvious in many of these intense and horrific cases involving young children and babies. Even when the men are just as guilty or the only ones directly guilty in the child’s death and abuse, the moms always seem to get more shit for it. And this doesn’t mean I don’t care that some of these moms are complicit and KNOW their babies are being harmed, but the comments make it clear that the moms will always be the worst ones no matter what. Maybe I’m reaching idk.

[nawadi-roman]

Because the public consensus is children are only the mother’s responsibility. The father’s participation is optional. Fathers don’t have any responsibility towards their kids. They don’t owe them kindness or care but women do. Whenever a man commits a crime, people never talk about him, they only focus on a woman whether she is the victim or the man’s wife or mother. Society and by large men, have decided that men can do whatever they want to whoever because men are free beings, it always falls on women and kids to protect themselves if they ever stood in any man’s way. Men are unstoppable force and we should just move out of their way (run) if we don’t want to get hurt, and if we did get hurt then oh well it’s the force of nature. He did what men do. No one can blame him for exercising his god given right

[ratqueen40]

The discourse and discussion around women wearing wigs almost always centers around BW. It’s bizarre considering BW aren’t the primary or only group of women wearing human hair, they’re heavily over represented in media only wearing them so often, along with all the harmful and disgusting stereotypes and beliefs around BW and their mere existence. Many orthodox Jewish women wear human hair to conceal their natural hair, a lot of white women get extensions and wear wigs, like most white female celebrities wear extensions and wigs ffs. Sabrina Carpenter wears wigs, and apparently some of her fans were shocked by this. See how WW VS BW are treated when they wear wigs, the bias is so obvious and direct. Some WW even get curly perms to alter their natural hair to make it appear with waves or curls. It’s also popular in SK for some women to get curly perms, but they’re more subtle and don’t desire to have super thick or coily looking curls. And seeing so many dumbass white ppl insist that it’s “Caucasian” hair when BW wear human hair, is so mind boggling. They don’t even know that hair is primarily sourced from indigenous and Asian women. Why do so many white ppl think straight hair equates to white ppl? The reasons they prefer those hair types (Asian women and indigenous women mostly in Peru, Brazilian, Ecuador etc.) is because it’s thick, very versatile and long. I am fully aware of the ethical practices of sourcing the hair, and honestly I wish no woman felt compelled to wear hair that isn’t her own. Regardless of the reason, other than maybe having a medical issue or dealing with chemo therapy and losing your hair. I would love to post more and talk about this cause hair has always been important in virtually every culture and society, especially if you’re a black or brown woman. I also recognize why a lot of BW prefer to only ever wear wigs, it’s never about it being just a choice existing in its own vacuum.

I also wanna mention that the word “perm” is often used by black ppl to refer to relaxing hair to make it a straighter/looser curl pattern. That’s what the Jheri Curl was, it created a looser more “desirable” curl patter and it was super popular amongst black people during the 80’s, think of MJ for example. I wish more ppl irl would talk about the significance of hair and why it’s always been deeper than the hair itself.

[ratqueen40]

Call me stupid, but I get bothered by comments like these. OFC this woman is evil and reprensible in what she did to her son and how she made him suffer. But the way this commenter refuses to also dehumanize the father in this case is bizarre, like why does he still retain the title of a “father”, even tho he was complicit and guilty in abusing and torturing his son?

And this pattern(the comments and thoughts you can see for yourself) is very obvious in many of these intense and horrific cases involving young children and babies. Even when the men are just as guilty or the only ones directly guilty in the child’s death and abuse, the moms always seem to get more shit for it. And this doesn’t mean I don’t care that some of these moms are complicit and KNOW their babies are being harmed, but the comments make it clear that the moms will always be the worst ones no matter what. Maybe I’m reaching idk.

[usedbandtee]

[ratqueen40]

Amazing news!!! If they could at the very least raise that he of employment for the waitresses to be 21, that would also be great tbh. There aren’t enough safeguards and protections for these young women, so the very fucking least, they can implement some.