Martinez

Entrepreneurship Model Owner of @nyx-sluttushy on fetlife Owner of GAY-EMPIRE Don't be shy of your ID

[martinezjames]

Introduction Post

What You Can Find In This Post

-General Information

-Requests & How To Request

-How To Chat With Me

-Gay love

General Information

Hey! My name is James Martinez AKA mattymatty

I use he/him pronouns and I am proudly bisexual, gay

I am Dom/Master

I dm anyone I feel connected to I accept dm from anyone interested in me and services

Requests & How To Request

So for requests, try to keep it one at a time. I don't care how many requests you do overall, but at the moment, I just want one at a time so that each individual ask can be in each individual post.

How To Chat With Me

You can chat with me about anything but stick to Tumblr or message me on Discord at mattymatty36 and specify how you found me. I am more active on Discord and skype at live:.cid.b7a9d1f1e5a2cd57

With that out of the way, have fun and enjoy getting to know what life has in pack

Also, join my gay love group… let share live and what y'all know

GAY LOVE 💕 • Community on Tumblr

A community for gays and trans 🏳️‍⚧️ to connect share idea find friends and support each other’s lives stories for a great future

[blissfulvixen]

What I’ve learned about love so far

I’ve had my fair share of situationships, relationships, etc and I’m still learning. Love in general is a huge learning experience all throughout life and it keeps evolving. In this post, I’m going to go over some tips based on my experiences thus far:

1. Never let anyone else define you

Whatever others think of you doesn’t truly matter at the end of the day. You are the only you. The people who love you should accept you for you and not try to change you. If they do, kick them to the curb. Don’t let yourself be molding clay, be a brick.

2. Set boundaries

I’ve struggled with this my whole life. Having boundaries with those closest to you keeps you from going insane. In the long run, boundaries can help you protect your peace as well as your overall well being. A boyfriend or girlfriend is an addition to your life and it’s best to remember that.

3. Don’t be a doormat

Being with someone is amazing and all, but don’t let yourself down in the process. People pleasing isn’t the way to go about anything and it’s extremely exhausting. Don’t push yourself too hard to always be available or to constantly be around them. Being a doormat is not cutesy, but instead desperate looking. Do what you want to do and on your own time because this is your life and you make it to be whatever you want it to be.

4. Standards

I can’t stress this enough, but standards should be present when you meet someone you might be interested in. Not getting you flowers? No dates? No effort in general? Standards make it to where you won’t end up with a bum loser who doesn’t make you feel good and doesn’t make you feel loved or cared about. Your standards don’t have to be through the roof, but the bare minimum in this day and age isn’t cutting it anymore.

And lastly…

5. The 3 month rule

Don’t get intimate with someone for the first 3 months because in those first 3 months, their true colors come out at some point. It’s better not to waste your time on a dumby and regret getting with them when they turn out to not be the person you thought they were. This saves you from not only regret, but also embarrassment, future mistakes, etc.

I will be posting more later but I hope this helps someone!!!

[martinezjames]

Nice 👌

[blissfulvixen]

4 Ways To Create Your Dream Life

You deserve to live your dream life

Your dream life is not just a wish, thought or idea. You keep thinking about your dream life because it’s already here, it’s just waiting for you to take action! Here are 4 ways to accelerate the process :)

Positivity:

Don’t ever let negativity get in the way of your potential. Don’t pay attention to negative comments on your progress, or negative habits that delay your progress. A positive attitude is strong and can’t be broken. Once you master staying positive, you’ll get so much closer to your dream life. Think of all the good things you’ll feel or get when you finally achieve your dream life.

Put in that work:

Things don’t just magically happen to you for free all the time. Your dream life most likely won’t just come to you. Putting in the work in whatever aspects of your dream life will get you closer to your goal as well. Keep pushing, grinding, and staying patient through this process. Your dream life won’t happen overnight babe.

Focus:

It’s easy to lose focus because of your environment and negativity. Don’t let external factors control you. When you’re focused nothing can get in the way of your journey. Stay focused on the end goal and you’ll get there faster than you thought.

Believe and you will achieve:

Belief is the root of the idea - your dream life started with an idea of what life you want for yourself. If you already believe that your dream life is attainable, you will achieve it. Don’t be scared of the world, don’t let anything stop you! You’re on a mission, you get one shot at living your best life so take it and F what anyone else has to say.

[martinezjames]

I love this essay /write-up

[livinginbriefs]

[thepersonalquotes]

[martinezjames]

100% well said

[bloomzone]

in 2025 I welcome :

✒️ New experiences

✒️ Learning and progress

✒️ Positive changes

✒️ Stronger connections

✒️ Self-love

✒️ Better habits

✒️ Personal achievements

✒️ Peace of mind

✒️ Joyful moments

✒️ Growth in all areas

[martinezjames]

Adding this to my 2025 journal

[dovai]

if self-care was a girl, she would…

she starts her mornings with a glass of water and stretches because it makes her feel good

her evenings are a mix of journaling, dancing in her room and turning her phone off when she needs time to be introspective

she’s empathetic and patient, specially with herself

she’s a great listener, but she never lets herself be a dumping ground for negativity

she’s not afraid to walk away from people who drain her energy and make her feel bad

her mantra is “i deserve to be cared, specially by myself”

she knows that healing can be messy and she’s fine with taking one step at a time or even going one step back because life is not linear

sometimes she stays in bed all day because she knows that rest is productive too

she celebrates small wins like taking her vitamins/meds, finishing a good book etc. because she believes joy is found everywhere

she values quality over quantity in every part of her life

she surrounds herself with people who respect her boundaries

her style isn’t about trends: it’s about what truly resonates with her

she values the present moment, even when it’s messy

she leaves every person she meets better than when she found them

she reminds you that you’re allowed to be a work in progress and a masterpiece at the same time

she loves herself just the way she is <3

[martinezjames]

Interesting she’s needed in my journey assuming she’s real

[glowettee]

30 Ways to Romanticize Your Life 🌸

Life is more beautiful when you slow down and notice the magic around you. Here's how to romanticize your everyday moments:

 Wake up early to watch the sunrise.

Use your favorite mug for morning tea or coffee.

Write love letters to yourself in a journal.

Go on a solo date to a cozy café.

Light a candle while you work or study.

Play soft instrumental music while cooking.

Take a walk in nature without your phone.

Organize your desk with pastel stationery.

Capture small moments with a disposable camera.

Make your bed every morning.

Wear an outfit that makes you feel confident.

Add fresh flowers to your space.

Watch your favorite childhood movie.

Dance in your room to nostalgic music.

Try a new skincare routine.

Write down three things you're grateful for every day.

Learn calligraphy or start a creative hobby.

Keep a collection of your favorite poems.

Use a fancy pen for your daily notes.

Take a luxurious bubble bath.

Treat yourself to your favorite dessert.

Read a book that inspires you.

Keep a vision board of your dreams.

Watch the stars on a clear night.

Use aromatherapy oils for relaxation.

Write a letter to your future self.

Wear perfume even if you’re staying home.

Set up a cozy nook for reading or journaling.

Look for beauty in small details.

Smile at yourself in the mirror every morning.

[martinezjames]

I will work on few of this

[6i]

in 2025 i wish you:

• good health

• a positive mindset

• success in abundance

• healthy relationships

• meaningful connection

• angels who guide you

• strength over depression

• peace in your body

• power before surrender

• discernment for good friends

[martinezjames]

I’m gonna win

[martinezjames]

GAY LOVE 💕 • Community on Tumblr

A community for gays and trans 🏳️‍⚧️ to connect share idea find friends and support each other’s lives stories for a great future

Some love and support here. Greetings to @admin and @everyone. I am Martinez from Tx seeking like-minded friends, playmate. Still figuring how the platform works, the above link is a group I created to relate with same interests enthusiast in the lifestyle. Free to join, show some love ❤️

[blissfulvixen]

My quotes/mantras for 2025

• “You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” -Mae West

• “Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.” -Marilyn Monroe

• “Your self respect has to be stronger than your feelings” -Thewizardliz

• "Discipline is remembering what you want." -David Campbell

• “What are you? To define is to limit.” -Oscar Wilde

• “The universe will never give you peace in something you were never meant to settle in.”

• “Don’t take criticism from people you wouldn’t take advice from.” -Kyle Freedman

• “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness, that is life.” -Jean-Luc Picard

[gommor]

Marina Abramović - Spirit Cooking, 1997

[martinezjames]

Horrific

[francoanglo]

[wildfire072]

Purffection always worth a re-blog.

[martinezjames]

Its worth a reblog indeed

[xxxyyy2023]

Why can’t every DJ be him?

[martinezjames]

💃💋

[martinezjames]

At Folsom I had the opportunity to meet @PierreRubberax and @teddytorresxxx. It has been a pleasure. I hope to see you again soon 😎

[martinezjames]

Hahahaha how it started & How it is now

[perfectquote]

“You are not responsible for other people’s happiness and they are not responsible for yours.”

— Bryant MCGill

[martinezjames]

Well said 💋💋 we are all responsible for our happiness though it is not free, everything has a price/sacrifices