Marypele

Making Sera bi is not the same thing as making Blackwall bi. Complain about the immaturity of the DA fandom all you want, but consider a bit more before making a statement like that. Sera's a lesbian, Blackwall's a straight man. Representation for lesbians (that doesn't just cater to men) is practically nonexistent. Straight guys are everywhere in media. It's not the same at all. The problem is that straight men are so entitled, they get angry when lesbians don't want them, fictional or not.

Please don’t treat lesbians differently from straight men. As a bi woman, I find it highly offensive when people discriminate based on sexuality. Thanks!

As a lesbian woman, I find it highly offensive when people treat lesbians and straight men the same when talking about sexuality.

gloriousdownfall

How the fuck are lesbians equal to straight men. OH MY GOD.

Poor straight men having their relationships hyper-sexualized so they can be valid.

Poor straight men with lack of representation on the media and having their little representation treated so badly.

Damn…

#ask a stupid question #losers

Because we’re all people, dummy, and we all deserve equal treatment. Not PREFERENTIAL treatment in which only lesbians get to mod, but equal treatment in which EVERYONE gets to mod. Don’t bother arguing with me, I’ve already blocked you.

beansidhebea-deactivated2016120

"Making Sera bi is no different from making Blackwell bi."... there is a huge difference, making sera bi is really homophobic. There is no such thing as 'heterophobia', straight people aren't beaten, kicked out of home, or killed for the simple fact that they're straight. Gays and Lesbians on the other hand are. Comparing them is really offensive.

I’m for equality. You offend me by suggesting that lesbians should be treated differently from others. I’m bi and am offended that you would treat me differently from a straight man.

Could have fooled me. On the equality thing, because I just saw you compare lesbians to straight men in another ask. Which is pretty homophobic. If you really want equality, you get rid of the power structures that keep us from having it.

beansidhebea-deactivated2016120

Yes, lesbians and straight men should be equally allowed to date which fake person they want to date. Anything else is discriminatory and will perpetuate that cycle. And guess what? US BISEXUALS GET TO DATE FAKE PEOPLE TOO. I know that both homosexuals and heterosexuals hate to see us represented, but tough shit for them, because we’re real people too. Now please quit being so prejudiced!

What are you even talking about?

itsagronbitch

Lol this site rots people’s brain holy shit

Yeah, all these people claiming lesbians are lesser than men and can’t handle life are really homophobic, right?! I am bisexual and pro-gay. I’m very sick of people treating lesbians like they need special help. They deserve to be treated like people. And as a bisexual, I think I have every right to have my personal game reflect my sexuality, just like any homosexual or heterosexual gets to claim that right. Homosexuals and heterosexuals are equally hateful to bisexuals, so making Sera or Blackwall bi is the same thing to me. Not that MY personal game should have any bearing on others, despite some people’s insistence that lesbians are incapable of dealing with the concept of someone else having a different sexuality. If you’re all for non-discrimination and allowing people to play their private games the way they want, we are in agreement. On the other hand, if you think sexuality should determine how one is treated and what games one can play, then my brain is indeed rotten in your eyes. Still, better a rotten brain than a prejudiced idiot judging people solely on their sexuality!

itsagronbitch

God all i read from what you write is “I AS A BISEXUAL *keeps saying things that make no fucking sense speaking for and over lesbians*”

You have no understanding of anything, you have no perspective of anything and you definitely have no respect for lesbians no matter how much you keep convincing yourself that just because you’re bi you can’t be homophobic. Anyway i’m done talking to you because you’re so wrong and full of shit that i wouldn’t even know where to start, christ jesus.

You should spend less time on this site and more in the real world. How do you even navigate life.

Just to show people what kind of idiots I’m being harassed by. This one can’t even read! ROFL Just another lesbigot...

#dumb lesbians

I’m considering quitting Tumblr since lesbians keep harassing me for being bisexual. I know they’re mostly children that aren’t even actually lesbians, but…I can’t stand the discrimination. I cannot stand that these lesbians are working so hard to make sure that lesbians are discriminated against forever. I cannot stand that these people hate bisexuals so much that they think we should be second class citizens. Sorry to those of you who’ll miss my writing, screenshots, and other art. Bisexuals just aren’t welcome in the Tumblr DA community, I can see that clearly now. I just hope those bitches get what’s coming to them. Of all the crazy spiritual ideas, I hope karma’s real! Does anyone have any suggestions for more positive, inclusive DA communities? Those that won’t harass me for treating people equally regardless of their sexuality? I think I’ll go help some homosexuals that are suffering from REAL discrimination, instead of these whiny teenage girls that claim they’re the only ones who feel any pain. Five years from now, they’ll all be shitting out kids with some man anyway! I can’t imagine real lesbians being so heartless—no one who has suffered would ask for special treatment at the expense of others.

Another lesbigot mocking me? Oh, lucky you! HAHAHA!

I’m considering quitting Tumblr since lesbians keep harassing me for being bisexual. I know they’re mostly children that aren’t even actually lesbians, but…I can’t stand the discrimination. I cannot stand that these lesbians are working so hard to make sure that lesbians are discriminated against forever. I cannot stand that these people hate bisexuals so much that they think we should be second class citizens. Sorry to those of you who’ll miss my writing, screenshots, and other art. Bisexuals just aren’t welcome in the Tumblr DA community, I can see that clearly now. I just hope those bitches get what’s coming to them. Of all the crazy spiritual ideas, I hope karma’s real! Does anyone have any suggestions for more positive, inclusive DA communities? Those that won’t harass me for treating people equally regardless of their sexuality? I think I’ll go help some homosexuals that are suffering from REAL discrimination, instead of these whiny teenage girls that claim they’re the only ones who feel any pain. Five years from now, they’ll all be shitting out kids with some man anyway! I can’t imagine real lesbians being so heartless—no one who has suffered would ask for special treatment at the expense of others.

egoisteclipse-deactivated202005

I’ve returned. I realized that my duty to make the world a better place was more important than hiding from lesbigots like you.

Homosexual, homosexual! No one’s offended by homosexuals except homophobes like you…

‘Homosexual’ was coined in the 1880s by psychiatrists and popularised by a text called Psychopathia Sexualis, which as the name suggests didn’t propose a positive view of non-heterosexuality. (It was similarly negative about kink and asexuality.) Organised medicine referred to ‘homosexuals’ from then on as perverted and mentally ill, often subjecting to them to unethical, abusive, traumatising ‘treatment‘. It was only in 1990, the year before I was born, that the World Health Organisation removed homosexuality from its list of mental illnesses. […] Today’s conservatives use ‘homosexual’ to conceal their queerphobia with the respectability of ‘neutral’ language, instead of using words and phrases we’ve adopted like ‘gay’, ‘queer’ and ‘LGBT’. It’s noteworthy the the first two of these were both originally straight slurs as well: queer people have been able to reclaim them, but never really attempted to do so with ‘homosexual’. That should tell you something about how powerful its history of violence is and why we use it so rarely.

Q&A: What’s ‘queer’, why is ‘homosexual’ a slur and what’s being bisexual like?

#wtf #why oppress oneself?#slurs are slurs #assbackwards #homosexual #q***r is a slur #duh #adoption doesn't make it okay

Thanks for being one of the only people to attempt to be civil and have a normal discussion. However, I feel exactly the opposite. Homosexual is a scientific term, therefore I use it, because scientific terms can never rationally be taken as slurs. I will never use q***r because that is a slur. So...please, PLEASE NEVER CALL ME THE Q-WORD. I’m bisexual, but I’d rather be called homosexual than q***r. I will never use that word because it’s used the same as n*****r, another word I refuse to use. I completely disagree and find homosexual to be a FAR BETTER term than the slurs q***r or the sexist gay/lesbian. The “adopted” phrases and words are the same as when black people say n*****r to each other. So no, I will not start using q****r. I really don’t care if that kind of scum thinks I’m a homophobe, because they’re too dumb to realize they’re oppressing themselves! I will not use slurs. HOMOSEXUAL is still my preferred term for those I respect. I can never call a human being q****r or a n*****r. Just because some people think they “adopted” a slur does not make it no longer a slur. And just because some people reject scientific terminology does not mean that it’s instantly a slur. So I’ll keep respecting people and NOT USING SLURS and saying HOMOSEXUAL instead of using nasty homophobic words like q****r.

beautifuldovahkiin

Trying again...

I’m going to try to use this blog again. Hopefully, the lesbigots have found something better to do than harass bisexuals that don’t want to suppress the straight “side” of themselves. Hopefully, they will not be threatening me and harassing me anymore. Sure, they scared me a while, but I shouldn’t back down from a few loudmouths. This is the world we’re talking about. I can’t leave my son a world in which the abuse cycle continues to run rampant. I will not let my son grow up to be ashamed of who he is, no matter his sexuality. My resolve is doubled. I will continue to fight for true equality, NOT for some self-proclaimed victims to oppress others and continue the abuse cycle. We will never be free of prejudices and discrimination until everyone is given equal respect. To that end, in the DA community, I’m considering making a mod in which absolutely everyone is bisexual. I’ll fly my freak flag and screw anyone who wants to harass me because of it. I know how to contact the police, and I have things with which to defend myself. Anything even the slightest bit threatening, and I’m sending it to the authorities. Just THINK of what your parents would say, kids...if they knew you were one of the cyber-bullies...watch what you say, or it’ll be the cops telling your Mommy & Daddy...! I’m sticking up for what’s right for the world, to support people’s personal, private expression of sexuality that affects no one else, and the hell if I’m going to let some ditzy teen girls intimidate me again. Blockety-block-block! Equality for ALL!

#harassment #equality #bisexuality

I’m considering quitting Tumblr since lesbians keep harassing me for being bisexual. I know they’re mostly children that aren’t even actually lesbians, but...I can’t stand the discrimination. I cannot stand that these lesbians are working so hard to make sure that lesbians are discriminated against forever. I cannot stand that these people hate bisexuals so much that they think we should be second class citizens. Sorry to those of you who’ll miss my writing, screenshots, and other art. Bisexuals just aren’t welcome in the Tumblr DA community, I can see that clearly now. I just hope those bitches get what’s coming to them. Of all the crazy spiritual ideas, I hope karma’s real! Does anyone have any suggestions for more positive, inclusive DA communities? Those that won’t harass me for treating people equally regardless of their sexuality? I think I’ll go help some homosexuals that are suffering from REAL discrimination, instead of these whiny teenage girls that claim they’re the only ones who feel any pain. Five years from now, they’ll all be shitting out kids with some man anyway! I can’t imagine real lesbians being so heartless--no one who has suffered would ask for special treatment at the expense of others.

#being bisexual #bisexuality #gay community #homosexuality #weird lesbians from mars #dai community

don’t fucking dare call me a homosexual. jesus christ, what is wrong with people. you’re a bi woman and yet you refer to people as “homosexuals.” oh my god. bad troll, 0/10, gohome.

Yes, I used the word homosexual. WTF. That is a perfectly good word, not a slur at all. Much more polite than lesbian or gay. What word would you prefer? A slur? Because that’s all that’s left.. WHY THE FUCK ARE TUMBLR LESBIANS SUDDENLY BITCHY AND DUMB!

>uses sexist slur

>uses a term in the exact same way it is used as a slur by straight people

Welp, 0/10, terrible troll, nothing to see here.

Homosexual, homosexual! No one’s offended by homosexuals except homophobes like you...

don’t fucking dare call me a homosexual. jesus christ, what is wrong with people. you’re a bi woman and yet you refer to people as “homosexuals.” oh my god. bad troll, 0/10, gohome.

Yes, I used the word homosexual. WTF....

I respond to reason, not emotional BS. If there is an actual reason that bisexuals don’t exist and lesbians should be treated better than everyone else in the world, go ahead and state it. If not, you agree with me.

beansidhebea-deactivated2016120

"Making Sera bi is no different from making Blackwell bi."... there is a huge difference, making sera bi is really homophobic. There is no such thing as 'heterophobia', straight people aren't beaten, kicked out of home, or killed for the simple fact that they're straight. Gays and Lesbians on the other hand are. Comparing them is really offensive.

I’m for equality. You offend me by suggesting that lesbians should be treated differently from others. I’m bi and am offended that you would treat me differently from a straight man.

Could have fooled me. On the equality thing, because I just saw you compare lesbians to straight men in another ask. Which is pretty homophobic. If you really want equality, you get rid of the power structures that keep us from having it.

Yes, lesbians and straight men should be equally allowed to date which fake person they want to date. Anything else is discriminatory and will perpetuate that cycle. And guess what? US BISEXUALS GET TO DATE FAKE PEOPLE TOO. I know that both homosexuals and heterosexuals hate to see us represented, but tough shit for them, because we’re real people too. Now please quit being so prejudiced!

antaam

sera’s a lesbian. wanting to see her in a relationship with a man is lesbophobic there is literally no way of getting around that, you’re literally looking at a lesbian and saying yes, even though she is a lesbian and will never be interested in a man, i WANT her to be because i can’t possibly fathom the existence of a woman who isn’t attracted to men in some degree.

the ‘’bi sera’’ mod isn’t about bi people at all?? no one’s making it or advocating for it because they want bi representation (except like, you i guess lol) it’s entirely about making sera sexually available to straight dudes, and even if it WAS about bi representation it would STILL be shit because creating representation by taking it away from other marginalized groups is shitty no matter how you spin it.

straight dudes have plenty of people they can romance (cassandra, josie, isabela, merrill, morrigan, leliana) and the only reason they want sera is because they can’t have her. they can’t fathom the idea of a woman not wanting to date their PC and will happily ignore the protests of every lesbian in the fanbase in order to rectify that ‘’’mistake’’’

(also ur equality bid is completely invalid. straight men and lesbians AREN’T equal, straight men have social power & privilege over lesbians so treating them like they’re exactly the same does nothing but 1. reinforce the lesbophobic sentiment that lesbians are Just Like Straight Men & therefore privileged and 2. allow for lesbophobic ppl (like you) to happily take away our characters and fit them to your liking without any ramifications or guilt because we’re ~~just like the straighties~~)

like why are y’all so desperate for sera there are multiple straight and bi women in the da franchise why can’t you just let us have this ONE lesbian like holy shit

I’m a bisexual woman and will never use these things for romance anyway. I just stand up for everyone’s right to express themselves equally. It’s a personal game and no one has the right to dictate how others play, or what someone else’s sexuality should be. I am supporting lesbians that want to romance Cassandra, straight men that want to romance Sera, gay men that want to be with Blackwall...all are equally valid personal expressions of one’s sexuality. Personally, I think the only decent female in the game is Sera. I hate Cassandra’s faith, and Josie is too prissy and feminine. I don’t blame a man for wanting to be with a good woman instead of them. Sera is not real, so we are not suppressing anyone’s sexuality by allowing someone else to make her bi. And yes, it is about bi people, because we deserve representation too, even though many lesbians on tumblr would have me believe that bisexuality isn’t real and doesn’t deserve consideration. I like seeing a real bisexual woman instead of the prissy versions they have traditionally included, with the exception of Isabella as the token realistic bisexual woman. The other thing about being bisexual is that homosexuals and heterosexuals both hate you and discriminate against you. In that respect, there is absolutely no difference between bi Sera or bi Blackwall. If anyone bothered looking from a bisexual perspective instead of their own genital-obsessed view, they’d realize this. And enough about lesbians not having power...that’s a load of crap where I live in the US. Lesbians are truly suffering and fearing for their lives in places like Russia and various countries in southern Africa, but these American lesbians complain about other people’s choices that don’t affect them at all as if it’s the same as being murdered. That’s repulsive and they should be ashamed for taking away from help that is sorely needed elsewhere.

Closed ask box

All the lesbians on Tumblr apparently hate me because I think people should be treated equally, and because I’m bisexual, which they say is not real. I’m ignoring and reporting anyone who continues to harass me and call me a homophobe (like I hate myself, lol). I hope all you little girls grow up someday and realize you’re harming all homosexuals by your antagonistic, hateful, prejudiced behavior. All people deserve equal respect until they choose to behave in such a manner. May all the homophobia rain down upon those rude bitches instead of upon the good people that realize sexuality is no basis for how you treat someone.

don’t fucking dare call me a homosexual. jesus christ, what is wrong with people. you’re a bi woman and yet you refer to people as “homosexuals.” oh my god. bad troll, 0/10, gohome.

kanatatachibana-deactivated2015

Yes, I used the word homosexual. WTF. That is a perfectly good word, not a slur at all. Much more polite than lesbian or gay. What word would you prefer? A slur? Because that’s all that’s left.. WHY THE FUCK ARE TUMBLR LESBIANS SUDDENLY BITCHY AND DUMB!

what….the fuck…..is wrong w/ you???

are you insinuating that gay and lesbian are slurs????

or do you think op would rather you call her a d*ke?????

but seriously how are you so lesbophobic…..????

Someone called me out for saying homosexual. It’s not a slur. I want to know why it’s unacceptable when it’s far more polite and inclusive than lesbian or gay. Make sense? No sane reason to be offended by not restricting it by sex or gender. I’m bisexual, not lesbophobic. Today many lesbians have told me that bisexuals are not discriminated against but lesbians are, and that bisexuals don’t deserve representation because lesbians deserve it more. The group of lesbians harassing me for being bi and liking bisexual Sera are the lesbians I refer to. I do not mean it in general about lesbians...just the snotty little Tumblr lesbians who are so insulting about bisexuality and think everyone should be a lesbian. (I’m beginning to think some are invested in making sure sexuality inequality continues!) All I’m doing is treating people equally without regard to their sexuality. I mention lesbians because they keep yelling out about how they’re lesbians and somehow that means their opinion matters more than that of a bisexual woman. Normal non-hateful lesbians are not the problem, obviously...just those few angry loudmouths that insist being a lesbian means they get more rights and respect than anyone else.

don’t fucking dare call me a homosexual. jesus christ, what is wrong with people. you’re a bi woman and yet you refer to people as “homosexuals.” oh my god. bad troll, 0/10, gohome.