ruthful

Leigh No idea what my life's about. Depression/Anxiety/Borderline Personality Disorder Genderfluid They/Them Biromantic (Panromantic???) Demisexual

[warm-suggestions]

friendly reminders to

Brush your teeth/floss

Wash your face/hair 

Put on some lotion

Take your medicine

Drink some water

Tell yourself something good about yourself

Take a break when you need it

Take a moment to breathe deeply and relax your muscles

Eat some fruits and veggies

Eat what makes you happy

Don’t be so hard on yourself

Remember that everything is going to be okay

[queerbabbe]

If you want to know what it’s like being trans just imagine yourself exactly as you are but everyone else sees you as someone else and if you correct them they may kill you.

[queerlittlecreature-deactivated]

this this this. honetly like we need to reframe the entire discussion around trans issues becuse the problem is not trans people, it eeryone else. young trans kids dont get bullied bc theyre trans they get bullied bc other people teach their shitty kids to hate trans people

[whiterabbitpoetry-blog]

Re-blogging at break-knuckle speed.

[hedgewitchwanderings-deactivate]

Precisely this.

[gruntsandpoetry]

current cause of death: the way Hannibal grips Will’s lower back and begins ever so slightly drawing him in

[masquerade717]

New blog @existential-sonder

[masquerade717]

me: *impulsively tells someone a fucked up thing about myself*

them: that doesn't sound healthy

me: yeah lol

me: *thinks about what i told them for 5 hours*

me: why the fuck

[vijara]

lately i’ve been replacing my “i’m sorry”s with “thank you”s, like instead of “sorry i’m late” i’ll say “thanks for waiting for me”, or instead of “sorry for being such a mess” i’ll say “thank you for loving me and caring about me unconditionally” and it’s not only shifted the way i think and feel about myself but also improved my relationships with others who now get to receive my gratitude instead of my negativity

[postingwhileblack]

HELL YOU TALMBOUT

Ten years ago, Melba Ayco founded Northwest Tap Connection, a social justice oriented dance studio intentionally placed in the most dangerous part of Seattle so that it could serve as a hub and refuge for youth in the area. 

In the wake of the killings of Alton Sterling and Philando Castile, the directors came across a Facebook Live video of the students of Northwest Tap dancing in the streets in protest. This was made with the support of the YoungArts Transformations film project.

Watch full video HERE.

This is a powerful performance. This a cry for justice. 

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

in 2017 I will:

make more art

go outside more

stop being lazy and study hard

worry less about little things

stop comparing myself to others

plan things every day

commit myself to difficult things

read more books and watch movies

focus more on the good things

be spontaneous 

make people feel good about themselves

be a friend to myself

[masquerade717]

me as a little kid: when i'm older i'll be so much happier than i am now i'll have friends and a degree and be doing good stuff with my life

me now: i was tempted to put "the bittersweet embrace of death" on my christmas list but then i remembered my family doesn't understand how constant lowkey existential despair works

[dharmawhimsy]

the room that inspired me to start DreamSpace by Dharma

[zftw-deactivated20210327]

there’s only one way i want to end this year and that’s drunk 

[serious]

true beauty

[haleyincarnate]

[lezzginka]

new year same me because i’m the bitch who never learns!!

[cupcakecommunist]

me: *doesn’t have a therapist, is on no antianxiety meds or antidepressants, does not exercise or eat well, lies constantly to concerned friends*

also me: there is nothing that can be done to fight this

[mioxenoblade]

I’ve said this a lot before, but it’s always worth repeating:

You’re never too old to realize you’re trans. You’re never too young to realize you’re trans. You’re never too old for hrt. You’re never too young to know you need hrt/puberty blockers. Age is not a restraint on any of this. Our journeys are unique and different, we discover ourselves differently. Hrt will always work for you. It will.

Teens, twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, nineties, hundreds.

It’s never too late. It’s never too early.

[masquerade717]

how much it costs a trans person to physically transition: $7000-$50000+

how much it costs you to respect a trans person regardless if they have physically transitioned or not: $0