The Journey of an Unwanted Child

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Personal Experience with This!

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Worst Church Singer Ever: Man Sings 'Looking For A City'

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What Makes Me Laugh On Here...

When people reply to my posts about abuse with abusive replies. What can I say... I like irony...

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296K views · 3.1K reactions | If this is you too, I so see you ❤️‍🩹 I believe you. You deserved a Mother who felt like a soft spot to land.

If this is you too, I so see you ❤️‍🩹 I believe you. You deserved a Mother who felt like a soft spot to land. You deserved a Mother who co

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Because every once in a while, we need to laugh about it.

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If you want to shut down a malignant narcissist that constantly lies, pay attention to their exact words and then call them out.  

That is physically impossible.  

I know that I/you did not say/do that.  

Prove it.   

What you are saying doesn’t make sense.   

I have no reason to do the things you are accusing me of.  

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I'm being stalked by a REALLY MAD Malignant Narcissist right now. 😂😂 They are so mad they have Reblogged their own BS over 12 times. I have blocked 6 of their accounts already, but I'm sure they have at least 6 more. There's little a Malignant Narcissistic Abuser hates more than not getting the last word! 😂😂😂

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They act like toddlers when they get called out as well.

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ableism ableism ableism whoop whoop 😍 let's generalize all narcissistic people!!! it doesn't matter that most develop it because they were abused in their childhood and that we literally Cannot control the fact that we have this disorder, let's pretend we're all evil fuckin villains 🫶🫶

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generalizing every person with npd and saying we're all abusers simply because of our disorder is ableism actually. smarty pants 😋

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GREAT Example of them acting like Toddlers when they get called out.

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The myth I think that annoys me the most is “you have to forgive them in order to heal” and when people push back you get “oh no no! You forgive them for you not them”.

Still, a no from me. I didn’t forgive him for me. So many wanted me to to make things easier for them. Me not forgiving was my way of standing up for myself and saying “enough”. I wasn’t going to do things to make myself small. To make things easier for others. Not forgiving was me making my journey about me.

I think it’s so valid if forgiveness is a part of someone’s journey. (Just please make sure it’s because it is for you and not what others say you should do).

But for me? Not forgiving was a part of it.

I just want you to know that you’re valid if you forgive and you’re valid if you don’t. Both are okay.

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You know what people don’t talk about often enough? Playing catch up in life after spending your teens or early 20s suicidally depressed. There’s so many more layers than just being able to say “I don’t want to die anymore.”

The difficulty in academia or a career after spending years thinking you wouldn’t be alive long enough for any of it to matter.

The exhaustion that comes from self awareness and self soothing, with the constant voice in your head saying “don’t go backwards.”

How lonely it is to watch the people your age starting families when you’re just barely learning what stable relationships are, and the sudden societal pressure of being “up against a clock” for these kinds of things.

The judgement from others if you change your image or interests this late in the game just because you finally figured out who you really are under the demons.

Be kind to those who are developing and blooming after years of not planning on being here long. We are living a life we absolutely didn’t think we’d have, and it’s hard enough without society reminding us there’s expectations of our age.

We didn’t get to be young; we were too busy fighting battles few know.

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They act like toddlers when they get called out as well.