dead boy walking

these hands still don't feel like mine. [ max ]

[srrybabe]

[scatroach]

[scatroach]

[tooafraidtoaskatthispoint]

me and my dog by boygenius

[neckkiss]

LOST.

[commodifiedsouls]

“Cancer/mental illness/disability affects rich and poor alike.”

Uh, no, it doesn’t. Rich people can afford the treatments and accommodations for those things. Poor people cannot. Get the fuck outta here with that classist shit.

[silversarcasm]

Not to mention a higher proportion of disabled people are in poverty and people in manual jobs are more likely to become disabled, there is a class element to disability that cannot be ignored.

[crankautodidact-deactivated2015]

THANK YOU.

[feministfront]

A quote from Chris Rock:

“I had my father get sick when I was 22. And I was poor, alright. And my father had an ulcer, and it exploded and you know all these toxins get in your blood. And basically, my father died, whatever, 50 days after his ulcer. So I had a father get sick while I was poor.

My mother got sick when I was rich. And my mother, you know… I don’t really want to get into it, but my mother was sicker than my father. And my mother’s alive. My mother’s fine, OK? I remember going to the hospital to see my mother and wondering, ‘Was I in the right place?’ Like, this was a hotel. Like it had a concierge, man.

People don’t… if the average person really knew the discrepancy in the health care system, there’d be riots in the streets, OK? They would burn this motherfucker down!”

[afeelgoodblog]

After seeing the dad how do I channel, I really wanted this one. I searched for it and, tada! Mom how do I? Seems rather new, but I love it anyway.

[cloudfreed]

This is such a cute and helpful idea, especially since some people either didn’t grow up with someone who could teach them this stuff or they grew up with parents who did everything for them. I knew a lot of guys in college who didn’t know how to do laundry or cook!

[w00dchips]

Mom How Do I

Dad How Do I

[dreamer-329]

Awww this is so cute and very useful!!!

[a-space-opera]

[lucyaudley]

This answers and raises questions

[hardboiledoldman]

Cassette Futurism God Tier

[sparrowhawk815-deactivated20190]

Cassette Futurism god tier for real tho…

[captain-starskull]

Who made these and how can I support them?

[imthecreativejunkie]

Awesome artist Simon Stålenhag made those.

[bossybussy]

How can we forget solarpunk! (My personal favorite)

[veilune-deactivated20221222]

trans guy: i feel dysphoric cis ally: ur literally the handsomest manly dude guy bro dude man i ever seen before in my life my guy dude! just because you’re biologically a woman doesnt mean you aren’t super manly and handsome!! honestly wow your jawline is so sharp cut me with your jaw daddy father sir

[ro6o]

for cis people asking what they should say, here’s a few suggestions:

- don’t overdo it (the reason why this example is Bad is because the cis person overuses all these masculine words and it’s too extreme).

- don’t say anything about how he is ‘biologically a woman’. never mention that to a trans person. ever.

- don’t shower him with compliments. yes, one or two might be good, but he isn’t asking you to confirm that he looks male (most of the time).

- do show sympathy. tell him you’re sorry that he feels that way and try to comfort him if you can (and if you try to comfort him, refer to the points above this one so you don’t do anything wrong).

- do ask if you can help. if he says that you can’t, leave him alone till he’s feeling better (or maybe try to cheer him up by changing the subject).

- do tell him you’re there for him, if all else fails. if anything, you can make him feel better by reminding him that he has a friend.

[three-eyed-discourse]

I really like this post because it’s honestly really helpful and doesn’t shit on cis people for being ignorant in this situation.

[cametothecold]

This is some real shit. I have some cis guy friends who react with “you’re so manly and check out that beard and blah blah blah” and while I appreciate they are trying to help…. it’s also not helping. Those tips though are very much on point. Do those things. Especially asking if you can help in any way. 

[i-dont-have-a-dick-but-whatevs]

Thank you for not throwing shit at us and actually telling people what they CAN do.

[what-even-is-thiss]

And also check yourself and make sure you’re not being condescending. Transmasc people deal wit being infantilized all the time and it’s infuriating.

[especially]

[darkestcinema]

by @/loudmouthNJ on twitter

[moth-brain]

[recaption]

[understands]

[millennial-review-deactivated20]

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

So I was once actually collecting data in a frozen river, and another guy fell in, filled up his waders and everything. He was wearing cotton (we were floored), and I had the car keys so I was like “alright, I’ll walk you back to the car to make sure you’re okay. Then you can strip down in there and get the heat going. There’s a blanket to wrap up in.” And he looked at me like I was insane. He said, “what? I’m fine.” I informed him that actually, if he stayed outside in subzero temperatures, soaking wet, in cotton, he was Licherly going to Freeze To Death, and he was like, “it’s not the 1800s lmao.”

And then while the guy in charge Forced him to go back to the car and strip, I had to stand there in a frozen river absolutely bewildered by the implication that a Wildife Biologist thought hypothermia is like, an old timey disease that people stopped getting at some point.

[normal-horoscopes]

WHAT DOES HE KNOW THAT WE DONT

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

Vampire spending his current life as a wildlife biologist almost blows his cover when he forgets that humans often perish from Cold and Wet Syndrome.

[andremichaux]

Donnie Darko (2001)