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love is a choice 26F

[megaera-velocivessel]

Transition Timeline

[juliakeyoto]

[nightcalicos]

I accidentally typed “bless her soil” instead of “bless her soul” just now and felt the spirit of an ancient harvest goddess inhabit my body

[kosmogrl]

[fucking-relax]

this is helpful to getting started on anything regardless of what you call it (from this post)

problem solving steps

IMPROVE distress tolerance skill

[stuckinapril]

you seem avoidant for a girl who’s so hungry to experience the full breadth of human connection

[gojurt]

if anyone pisses me off im drawing us onto this base and then blocking

[jimmyjimsjim]

I saw this last night while I was high and thought I was losing my mind

[rambrandt-the-painter]

they literally invented monogamy to spice up tv dramas

[rambrandt-the-painter]

"what if I really wanted to fuck another person and also my wife really wanted to fuck another person but also we can under NO circumstances let any of that happen" Insane way to live your life in my mind but that's instant conflict

[sireington]

I feel like a lot of tumblr users would benefit from using newgrounds as the culture and limited nature of tumblr posts can sometimes create and re-enforce an echo chamber of ideas. Like, one should primarily diversify ideas through direct life experience and books, but if we're going for more social media derived ideas, then newgrounds offers a much different culturer and globe of art to diversify one's palette

[megaera-velocivessel]

there's not just Adam's apples, if you're a girl it's an Eve's apple and if you're non-binary it's a charm of protection from doctors

[rebuiltcombatsister]

looking back at my teenage years i was so very obviously drowning in gender dysphoria but at the time i had no idea what that was. i had such an intense background radiation of self loathing, i was depressed, i didnt care for how i dressed, i hated looking in the mirror. i didnt have a sense of self, i couldnt conceive of a future, i was a husk. and for all those years my only examples of trans women were "man in a dress" and "knew it the whole time" and neither of those were me so it never occured to me i could be trans. i dont know where id be now if i didnt have a friend bully me onto tumblr when i was 17 or 18, thats where i learned i could be a girl. about 8 months into hrt i spent a whole evening sobbing because i realized how much weight had been lifted from me, how much less i hated myself and how bad it was when i was young. my high school years were stolen from me and ill never get them back. fuck everyone refusing to represent transfemininity. fuck everyone who thinks its taboo to be transfem. fuck the egg prime directive. nobody should have to suffer like that

[tlirsgender]

Things people hate hearing:

You are capable of harm

You have some level of power and agency

Ergo it is your responsibility to communicate your needs and boundaries

If you lie to someone about something being okay when it isn't, that is on you

Something being a trauma response doesn't exempt it from harming your relationships and the other people in them

Enabling your trauma responses will not make them go away, and it is your responsibility to work on yourself for your own wellbeing as well as the people around you

Being A Victim cannot be a pillar of your identity forever, and being victimized does not make you incapable of harming other people (see above)

You are not a mouse in a jean jacket you are an eel with a gun / adult human being who can use your words even if it's Scary

Having a personality disorder doesn't make you evil but you have got to get off of Personality Disorder Tumblr (see above, re: enabling)

[tlirsgender]

Deep sigh. You want me to ~be compassionate~ here's the compassionate answer: your trauma will tell you you're a helpless child forever and you need to Not Think This Way for yourself (living under the assumption you're still in danger whether you actually are or not) and everyone else who has to tiptoe around your Sensitivity. That's how you break the cycle and you can only do this by accepting responsibility for your actions. And it seems like a small semantic thing but imo step one is calling yourself a survivor instead of a victim. Self identifying with your victimhood helps No One. You lived, now get up

[unification]

*torturing you* dude trust me, something really cool happens. you just have to reflect on it for a bit. i'm doing this because i want you to reach your full potential okay?

[cunt-swagula]

[drink-bread]

Kasane Teto, in light of recent events

[megaera-velocivessel]

does anyone remember bibeo on the splonk?

DM me "I remember bibeo on the splonk" if you do

[megaera-velocivessel]

like if you're a honky

reblog if you're a true bibeo gamer