So I have recently had a friendship end right after New Years.
I was pretty distraught afterwards literally came out of no where. I know this person didn’t really have any other friends but I thought over the year we became like best friends. We always had fun hanging out never really had any issues. Now I know with this particular person they’d go weeks or months without talking to me. And I know they weren’t one to open up about anything they were going through with. But I definitely let them know I was here just in case they needed someone to vent to.
Well I have confided in this person with only a few things since we became close not knowing that one I talked to her about in particular really set her off and it had to do with my relationship. For some reason she was really adamant on thinking she knew all about my relationship when she only knew like one thing that has effected it semi previously.
Definitely wasn’t something to get so upset about it’s my relationship and it’s not like it effects her. I didn’t do anything that my significant other wasn’t aware of.
But basically she got all weird and then vile and malevolent and ended our friendship. She said some nasty choice of words and ghosted me. Which she does best with everyone in her life, especially friends and guys that she leads on.
So basically I was so surprised and dumb founded that this even happened and that she couldn’t move forward from something that had nothing to do with her and when it wasn’t even a big deal.
So I talked to some mutual friends about it since I was really upset on how she acted and took things. And how she was getting worked up over nothing of her concern or business.
Come to find out I had several people tell me it’s because she likes my boyfriend. Holy shit I thought, like that all makes sense. She was always on his side of things, asking about him, got him a gift when she was on vacation. I literally thought she was being nice and including him since I thought we were besties. Well that’s not the case apparently she likes my bf and he had no idea since he has only gone out with us a handful of times. She told me that I was spiteful, shady and that my bf deserved better. I told my bf all of this and he was just as surprised, she was invited over to hangout with us for New Year’s Eve but she decided to come over after midnight because she didn’t want to be around if we kissed. I’m like what is this? First off my bf and I have been together going on 6 years. And if anything we’d peck. But she insisted not being there until afterwards. The night went fine, we had fun made pizzas and she went home. The next day we talked about making goal boards for 2018, she was down. Then out of no where she went off on me saying my bf deserves better and all the stuff I previously mentioned she said and then she ended our friendship saying she got rid of a demon in her life this year and it was me.
First off all I have ever done for her was listen and be supportive of whatever she was going through even if she didn’t tell me what it was. I knew never to push her on telling me. Also she’d always disappear and not talk to me but then post memes and quotes about not having friends and shit. And I’m like over here like hello! I’ve been here for you this whole time but okay!
So I would always wait for her to come back around and the minute she wanted to hangout or go out drinking I was her go to and she’d hit me up.
I was always convenient for her when she needed me but not the other way around. I knew she had issues but I wanted to be there for her and show her not everyone is untrustworthy. I don’t know who or what fucked her up but she has some deep dark issues. I always knew she could turn on someone very easily I just never thought it would be me. I was always careful about what I did or said. And just tried to show her there was good friends out there that she could rely on. Well she pushed me away, called me mean names I’ll never forget or forgive. And posted about me saying that, please don’t act like I need you in my life, at one time we didn’t know each other and I was fine then and I will be fine now. Well I knew it was about me since she has no friends and has never had a bf.
She at first said we needed a break from talking but that’s her way of ghosting people without really breaking things off with them. That’s when I noticed I was erased from her IG and social media. After that she continued to say I might of ‘thought’ I was a good friend but that’s only my opinion...I was again mind blown! Even other mutual people were surprised because they knew we were close and I wasn’t anything but GREAT to her ungrateful self. So basically after her caplocks of yelling and calling me names and saying she doesn’t need a someone like me in my life. I responded basically saying ditto and I removed her from SC and social media. I had saved all of our conversation but apparently after removing her as a friend on snapchat since this happened on there the conversations went with her. Guess it’s for the best. I was definitely surprised by this and fooled. I always have good judgment on people and who I become close with. But damn she got me. She was pretending to be someone she isn’t and pretending to care and be my friend. She used me for her loneliness and when she needed a friend but not when I needed her. That’s not a friendship and I’m glad I am no longer tip toeing around trying to not make her upset because I even knew one thing would make her not want to be my friend. But like I said I never thought it would be something about my own relationship that’s my business that would set her off. And I didn’t even think about her having feeling for my bf until it all clicked and she said he deserved better. So here’s to ruining the beginning of 2018 for me, felt like a break up. But saving me from the rest of the year and my life for putting up with someone as shitting as you.
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