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sunnydrawzzz

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Warm hands

ak-nm

normalbirb

whats even the point of drawing a pair of huge juicy honkas if youre not gonna show off their softness and weight??

normalbirb

satanhaus-deactivated20220217

yo does anyone else feel CONSTANTLY guilty? like you’ve always done something wrong but you don’t know what it is?

why-am-i-even-on-here

Yes, and I’ve spoken to my therapist about it, who offered an explanation:

She says that people who from a young age were made to feel like they kept doing things wrong - people who’s parents had impossibly high standards for them, people who were bullied, people who have special needs, people who didn’t develop crushes on the “right” people, people who didn’t act like the “right” gender - basically ended up being made to feel guilty so much that guilt became their default response to everything. Guilt became the emotional response to anything which the person didn’t already have a set emotion for.

People for whom guilt is the default emotional response are also more likely to have low self-esteem, doubt their own experiences, and experience impostor syndrome. So, watch out for that too guys

josphitia

Unlearning this is a bitch

tigergirltail

It is indeed a bitch, but it CAN be done and it is SO worth it.

the-haiku-bot

It is indeed a

bitch, but it CAN be done and

it is SO worth it.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

pallettown

its miserable having online friends i would help you clean and paint your room and fold your laundry and move furniture and cook mostly edible food for you and generally do tasks for you and drink with you and smoke with you and go on walks with you and see you smile when i make you laugh. but the distance