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“why do you care so much about harry’s sexuality? it doesn’t matter if he’s gay or bi or straight.”
i care because the entertainment industry is ruthless and homophobic. and we know for a fact that young people new to the industry ARE exploited. we know how much pressure queer people go through to stay in the spotlight, not to mention someone who started off as a boybander in 2010.
i care because i saw sixteen year old harry scrunching his face and answering “freedom” to the question “what do you wish for that money can’t buy?”
i care because him not removing a part of his red nailpolish got him ridiculed and laughed at.
i care because the first tattoo he got was a black outline of a five pointed star.
i care because he, at eighteen, got “i can’t change” tattooed on his body. i can’t change. and a birdcage. and a hanger.
when closeted people do come out, they always talk about how they gave signs to fans. harry has never made attempts to hide his queerness. from unsubtle comments about being attracted to men, to actually identifying with the lgbtq community. not to mention the general awareness he brings to the concept of being openly queer, and the donations he does/has done in the past, the fans he helps come out at his shows.
i care because a seventeen year old harry got called a f*ggot to his face. made fun of for simply having a bit of nail varnish. mocked for “dating” multiple leggy models when he was merely photographed by their side. mocked for kisses he physically couldn’t put effort in—because he could not be attracted to those women. even now. fetishised for standing close to another good looking woman.
he has made every attempt to identify with the queer community. supporting queer artists. waving pride flags. donating to lgbt charities. referencing queer icons. and just because he has to play the same old game of plausible deniability and showmance to keep on existing in the industry, to keep on maintaining the image of Harry StylesTM, doesn’t mean he is the man the media paints him out to be.
harry, who has always been kind and supportive of people he’s close to, who talks about “love” like it’s a sacred topic for him, going through different women every year? never taking his “girlfriends” to important events, never mentioning them by name, never praising them, the women also never mentioning him, the stiff physical chemistry, the “candid” hd pictures? “private” outings but walking in busy streets where they can be identified and photographed by fans?
do you not see the pattern? never mentioning them at all? letting the pap pics do all the work? do you think that all the signalling he has done over the years is just queerbaiting? that he chose to play the role of a closeted gay man in a movie where he had everyone’s lines memorised, and put so much effort into said role— for what? marketing? which didn’t even happen, by the way. he received lukewarm responses, at best.
i’m not saying he needs us to let him out of his closet. we don’t even know why he is in the closet in the first place. or what exactly he identifies as. or why he hasn’t come out yet. it’s his life. his reason. but acknowledgement is important. and grown people believing in blatant lies is an odd thing to see. publicity stunts are not a new concept. fake relationships exist. closeting is a real thing. even though he is in a glass closet, he is still in a closet. the fact that you can’t see the patterns is disappointing.
This is the same Harry who liked a picture of a vagina, panicked, deleted it, tweeted “so, the weather,” and spammed cat photos. The same Harry who got caught whispering “think how much pussy you’re gonna get” on live TV at 16. The same Harry who said “I like girls” when asked the best part of being in a boy band. Pretending he’s never shown interest in women erases a whole part of who he’s always been. Ignoring that because it doesn’t fit your theory isn’t activism.
Have you ever stopped to think you’re erasing part of Harry’s personality? Being so convinced he must be gay and closeted makes you filter out anything that contradicts that belief. You’re not decoding clues, you’re filtering reality to support a conclusion you already decided on.
The “freedom” he talked about and the birdcage tattoo were about One Direction, not some coded sexuality message. He was trapped in a system that treated him like a product. In his Better Homes & Gardens interview, he explained that being in the band taught him he had to be perfectly likable to survive, that he had to give himself away for people to engage with him. He talked about journalists grilling him about his sex life and leaving interviews terrified he’d said something that could ruin a contract. When he finally went solo and signed a deal that didn’t control his behavior, he cried because he finally felt free. That’s the cage he was talking about. Reducing all of that to “he must be closeted” ignores what he actually said he was fighting.
Harry has always supported the queer community. That’s real. He has also been clear about his boundaries.
“I’ve never talked about my life away from work publicly and found that it’s benefited me positively.”
“There’s always going to be a version of a narrative, and I decided I wasn’t going to spend time trying to correct it.”
About sexuality, he said: “It doesn’t matter, and it’s about not having to label everything.”
He set the boundary. You don’t get to force a label out of him.
There is no glass closet. Harry is dating a woman right now. That’s reality. Calling every relationship fake, calling his girlfriends props, calling his entire dating history a lie isn’t protecting him. It’s disrespecting him. It erases real relationships and real people. Calling women “PR tools” is not activism. Calling Harry a liar about his own life is not activism.
Fake relationships don’t survive in 2025. Everything leaks. Assistants, drivers, stylists, random bystanders with phones. If Harry were faking relationships for years, there would be evidence by now. Emails. Contracts. Voice notes. Something. Instead, everything that has leaked over the years points to those relationships being real.
And no, pap pics don’t automatically mean stunt. Sometimes it’s literally just people walking outside. Paparazzi get paid to take photos. Even fan-taken pics get labeled fake by people who don’t understand how PR or the industry actually works.
Have you considered that Harry keeping his girlfriends private is him protecting them? Fans spent over a decade inventing a fake relationship between him and a man he’s repeatedly denied dating, and every woman in his life has been harassed because of it. These same fans call an actual infant fake and direct hate toward a baby. Both men denied it. Their families denied it. Everyone involved has said how invasive and disrespectful that theory is. Yet people keep pushing it. Calling his privacy a “secret pattern” is wild when the real pattern is fans refusing to listen to the people directly involved. That’s not reading signs. That’s ignoring boundaries.
And the fetishizing? It’s not coming from the people acknowledging his girlfriend. It’s coming from grown women inventing fantasies about him secretly dating a man he never had a relationship with, twisting every detail of his life to fit that storyline. Forcing a gay romance onto two men, one of whom literally said he is “in fact straight,” and both of whom have repeatedly said it’s not real, is the actual fetish.
Pretending Harry has never had chemistry with women is pure parasocial distortion. He’s dated women long term, confirmed by his family and inner circle. You don’t get to erase a decade of real relationships and say none of that was real without calling him a liar. You don’t get to wipe entire women out of his life because they don’t fit your narrative.
You can support queer people without forcing labels onto someone who has never given you that label. You can acknowledge closeting exists without building a fictional closet around someone who explicitly said his sexuality is unlabeled, not hidden. You can admire his allyship without turning him into a character in a conspiracy.
Saying everything is PR doesn’t protect him. It erases who he is, what he’s said, what he’s lived, and the people he cares about.
Haven’t Larries been insisting for years that Louis never looks happy when he’s with Eleanor? That even if he seems happy, it’s fake? And yet today, to go with these pictures, they post…
Lo raro o curioso de esto es que mis fases de tristeza y ansiedad son muy distintas a años atrás, no se si me explique, bueno es que no hay forma de explicarlo solo yo se como se siente…..
Extraño cuando hacía amigos por tumblr, uno hablaba con extraños, te daban ánimos, o tu les dabas ánimos, incluso te llegabas a preocupar cuando no respondían jajaja (o solo era yo?) y te hacías amigos de algunos……
Tanto tiempo sin entrar a tumblr, ya ni recordaba la contraseña jajaja no se si regrese permanentemente pero me dio curiosidad que es lo que pasa en este mundo llamado tumblr….
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