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@mentored-disciplined
Did you stop needing discipline? Stop getting it? Or stop blogging it?
No, I still very much need it. After my mentor moved away to NY and I moved to Chicago, I just have not been able to find a local downtown Chicago disciplinarian yet. I didn’t get any responses when I posted my search. I’ll be able to start blogging it again once I’m able to meet someone. Thanks for the question and interest.
I was contacted today by my previous mentor, we had a really nice chat. Through our conversation, he determined that I really needed to make an effort to locate a new local Chicago based disciplinarian to pick up where we left off. He can tell that it’s evident my behavior and attitude has been going unchecked and has tasked me to post this message tonight. Is there anyone in the local Chicago area interested in administering non-sexual, traditional style discipline?
Seeking Chicago area Disciplinarian
As you all have noticed by now, my mentor has relocated to NY and I myself have moved to Chicago. We had a very successful mentoring with discipline relationship. I now have over 600 followers, most of you have been very kind and very supportive of me and my goals. I have very much appreciated your feedback and your private messages. If any of you can recommend a legitimate disciplinarian in the Chicago area, please send me a private message or email me directly at [email protected]
Thanks to all of you! Look forward to posting again very soon.
Hi there MD, have you had any success finding a new mentor in your local Washington DC area yet?
Hi Desertsoldierdad, thanks for asking, do you happen to know of any legitimate disciplinarians in the DC area? One of the other regular followers has agreed to meet me for coffee to discuss the possibilities of resuming a mentoring relationship. As soon as it happens, or does not happen, I will let everyone on here know.
Hi :) how are you ?you didn't post in a long time , what happened to your last spanking ? saw our disciplinarian is moving, not very cool , do you have another one ?
Hi oscaramjesse, thank you very much for the note. Yes, it’s very sad that he’s moved, but it’s also very good. He has taught me a lot and helped me improve in ways I didn’t think were possible. I hope to find another....but good mentors are not around every corner.
Get that bottom over here, young man.
@mentored-disciplined It’s been way too long, young man. Get that bottom over here immediately and we’re going to discuss your behavior over the past several months and get you back on track. Do I make myself clear?
Yes sir, understood. On my way over right now. :-(
My partner is also a professional tutor who used to tutor for fraternities, and they used spanking on the students when they disobeyed and the tutor saw fit. He only really tutors me now, and I just got a bad whipping for not studying at least three hours a day every day this week. Like, a two-week no-sit, feel it for a month one. He also threatened to put me in diapers if I don't "grow up"... I feel like he's being a little strict. Do you think I deserve what I got?
Hi there, thank you for your question. The thing you must understand is that spankings, when used as discipline for real punishment, are supposed to hurt to be effective learning tools, they are not supposed to feel good, or else it would just be an erotic situation. What you deserve is certainly none of my business, it’s your disciplinarian’s business. If he feels you deserve a severe spanking and diaper punishment, then that is all up to him to decide. Because of his “strict” approach, I’ll bet you study for the required three hours now, right?
What happened to your being disciplined by dcdisciplinarian?
Nothing happened to it, it’s just paused temporarily because we are both experiencing an incredibly busy summer. We keep in contact with each other, and rest assured, he does not let me forget what is owed!
I thought you were required to answer ALL follower questions.... have not seen anything from you in a long time!!! I know me myself have a few unanswered messages from you, I can't be the ONLY one? Whenever you do come back online again, I think you deserve the belt for ignoring me!
Hi FGP, sorry for not responding to your other messages, I’m back in the groove properly now and promise to be much better about it. After the conversation l had last night with my mentor, he’s already promised me a very serious paddling. He hasn’t spanked me with the belt yet, but from the way he was talking last night about how much trouble I am in this week, you’ll have to ask him but, you might be getting your wish about the belt too!
hi! how are you ? that's a long time you didn't post you must be really good :)
hi oscarsamjesse, thanks for the message, sorry it took me so long to respond, but yes, as you can see in my previous post, although I have been doing really good lately, I have also failed to maintain my posts as required and have slipped in a few other areas as well. As a result, I’m going to be held accountable again and will be posting some new photos very soon!
Everyone can see that it's been 4 weeks since you've posted anything. Weren't you obligated by your mentor to post on here regularly, even if you were having a good streak? I'm pretty sure I remember you promising to your followers that you'd be keeping everyone updated with both good and bad news? Several of us were tracking your progress and have been quite supportive of you, the least you could do was keep us in the loop, right?
HI DSD, my apologies to you and all of my other followers. Yes it’s true I have been on quite a “good streak” as you call it, and have been keeping myself out of trouble, but as you and several other followers have now pointed out, I have neglected my obligation to check daily and respond to follower questions and keep everyone updated about my progress even during “good streaks.” My mentor had a chat with me last night about this very topic and has determined that I deserve to be punished. He said that although I have been doing very well with my diet and exercise, I have let too many other things slide, so it’s time for me to be dealt with again. He’s promised me quite a blistering with the paddle which I will have to post on here about afterwards. I hope that will help make things up to you and the others.
So how much weight have you lost since you started getting spanked?
Hi blarglefish, thank you very much for your question, you are the first person to ask! So far, I’ve lost 9 pounds. Because I am working out so often and eating well, I’m beginning to change shape. What I’m saying is, even though the scale has only changed 9 pounds, my clothes are fitting much differently! My mentor can even see a physical difference already at this point, and we’re only just beginning! I have far to go, but as you can see, he can be quite motivating!
Hey dude. I've gotten spanked with pretty much that same paddle you got and it HURTS! What's the last thing you want your mentor to take out? Mine is a long handled wooden bath brush.
Hey there HBS, yes you are very right, that paddle really does HURT! But that’s the whole point of it. My mentor disciplines me to evoke real life behavior changes. If it felt good, or were fun then it would not be of consequence for me, it would be an erotic S&M arrangement, rather than real discipline. As far as the worst implement for me, I would have to say it would the old JoKari paddle. I got spanked with this many times during my teens. Not sure if you have ever seen one or not, but they are wooden paddles that were designed for a racket game, used with a ball tethered on a long stretch cord. It’s a heavy wood, with a large round surface area. One swat can cover every inch of a butt cheek, where your bath brush would only smack about a 2″ spot. Luckily, I haven’t seen one in many years, but I’m sure some of them still exist somewhere! Thanks for your question, we appreciate you following us.
That kind of paddle was used when I was in school. Paddled in 9th and 10th grade with one. Vivid memory
Yeah Stan, that’s what I got paddled with from the 7th to 12th grade! That’s why he’s using it on me now. Definitely have a a very effective mental connection with it.
How often do you cry during your spankings?
It all depends on the style of the disciplinarian and the kind of spanking I’m receiving. A short painful spanking can be very effective, but to evoke genuine tears from me, it takes a long, non-stop spanking with a consistent rhythm to carry me over the edge emotionally. Sometimes the painful quick spankings cause me the watery eyes and the sniffles, but definitely do not enable me to lose my composure.
could really use some of your thoughts and perspectives.....
I’m thinking about asking my mentor to add “Drinking alcohol” to my list of rules, meaning that he start requiring me to ask his permission before consuming alcohol, the same as I’m already required to do for sweets & treats. I’m far from being an alcohol abuser, I definitely do not have a drinking problem. But he’s recently pointed out to me how many calories are contained in the wine I enjoy, and I’m sitting here now wondering how far back these Vodka Tonics are taking my weight loss efforts. Do I continue to monitor myself and see if I can moderate it appropriately enough on my own without risk of getting myself into even more trouble than I already do, or do I just suck it up and voluntarily hand this control over to him as well at the risk of suffering his consequences????
I would go over it with him and see if he can help you come up with a program for monitoring it yourself. Then, if you fail in that, give control up to him and work your way back to learning self-discipline (which I assume is the ultimate goal with all of your rules). If you know yourself incapable and only want to keep control of it to be able to indulge yourself, then this obviously should be something that falls under his jurisdiction. Otherwise, he should be happy to help you set perameters for your drinking and learn to be more aware yourself of the behavior and what all the effects of it really are and how to curb them.
Thank you so much oprintesa for the very intelligent and insightful response. I like your approach very much.
could really use some of your thoughts and perspectives.....
I’m thinking about asking my mentor to add “Drinking alcohol” to my list of rules, meaning that he start requiring me to ask his permission before consuming alcohol, the same as I’m already required to do for sweets & treats. I’m far from being an alcohol abuser, I definitely do not have a drinking problem. But he’s recently pointed out to me how many calories are contained in the wine I enjoy, and I’m sitting here now wondering how far back these Vodka Tonics are taking my weight loss efforts. Do I continue to monitor myself and see if I can moderate it appropriately enough on my own without risk of getting myself into even more trouble than I already do, or do I just suck it up and voluntarily hand this control over to him as well at the risk of suffering his consequences????
