brown sugar

[mercytrouble]

Uwu

[fucklovepayme]

Was Missing College Student Working as a 'Sugar Baby'?

Salt Lake City police said they served a search warrant on Wednesday night at a home possibly involved in Mackenzie Lueck’s case, but declined to give further details.

I’ve been seeing this girl all over TV and this comes to show you some of the dangerous realities of sugaring, especially online. Please be careful when meeting men, whether online or in person. Use common sense and safety precautions. 

[luckyluxlady-deactivated2021043]

Screeeeeeen and tell a friend where you’re going!

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

She died 😔

‼️‼️SUGAR BABIES: YOU SCREEN TOO!!‼️‼️ DO NOT ACCEPT A FAKE NAME “FOR DISCRETION”

You don’t accept a fake name, and IF a man uses a burner number he should still be able to provide the rest of his information. Verify his information through google, linked in, Facebook, Instagram, a business card, and use apps where you input a name/number. NEVER put yourself alone with a man you do not know!! Be safe out there!

[cocosugxr]

ALSO: Get a taser, pepper spray, sharp keychain, etc. and for my SBs, always meet at a public establishment on first dates. Never get picked up by a stranger, and NEVER agree to meet at his place for a first date. Safety is always #1

[mercytrouble]

Hm

Going to a college tomorrow, I’m going to see if any one of these kids parents have dough, and if I’m leaving with business cards in my pocket (:

[sugarbabyxxx-deactivated2019070]

And that’s how you get things done

[mercytrouble]

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

Tips for a new SB? BTW I love your green smoothie.

AYYYY I told y’all it was good!!! Anyway these are literally the only tips you need

1) Fuck the sites, freestyle or flop

2) No sharing anything personal. Get paid in cash, on Venmo, or in crypto. Cash app will show your real name on their bank statements and Paypal freezes SWers’ money.

3) Don’t fall for flashy shit. Unless they’re giving the flashy shit to you, it means nothing.

4) Your money—don’t fucking blow it and act like you never had money before. Save for a rainy day and invest. Pay off all back expenses you have. You never know when or if he leaves. Also, try to finesse some career tips out of him to help you further your own. I never recommend for girls to be jobless while sugaring. If you ever need to return to the market you’ll have a difficult time finding a job.

5) Learn etiquette, how to dress, and worldly topics.

6) Never let him think your schedule is open. You keep distance until he does/buys you something large enough to prove he deserves it.

7) Treat it like a half assed relationship when you choose to give him affection. Men that fall in love with you give you the world.

8) If they don’t give you the money in time—run. If they give you less than enough money—run. Don’t you sit there and avoid confrontation. That’s how they play you. Sugaring is a negotiation; you want him to give you the most, he wants to give you the least. Make sure his least matches your most (for now) by adding some shaming language in there LMAO. “So that’s how little you paid your last SB? :/” “Why didn’t you take your last girl shopping? Didn’t you want to do nice things for her? :(” “Why would you want to go to x? I’ve always thought it was a bit boring.” This allows you to show that you will not accept everything they throw your way just because they have the money. You have plenty of control too.

9) Safety! Public places only until you know him. Background checks, weapons, yadda yadda. If you don’t know him inside and out, what properties he owns, his liquidity, and all of that, you should by the time you’re done with him. It’s public knowledge. During sex always wear condoms, check for any possible STDs. Keep any cameras faced away from y’all. If you gotta be under the influence to tolerate him he’s not the one. Correct him if he’s doing something wrong or could do it better. You however, better slang the best pussy of your life. 😂😂

10) Don’t care about anyone’s staring. If people are staring at y’all, you’re probably in too low end of an area or you’re pretty. Get to the bag, don’t worry about those hoes.

[gothhabiba]

me, every single month without fail: huh weird I feel kind of bloated and lethargic but also very hungry??? and I’m breaking out??? and my back hurts??? this is so strange I have never experienced this before in my whole entire life… what could this be

me a few days later, every single month without fail: oh

[mercytrouble]

Frustrated

The DMV is literally a gold mine for the sugar world and yet, despite the many heads that’s turn in my direction, I can’t score one 😔. I know the reason is because I always have some sort of family member, but I can’t seem to sneak away 🤔🤔.

Btw, the airport is AMAZING for sugaring. I can’t tell you how many old men were doing double, triple head turns. I mean, I winked and smile a couple of times, you know, waiting for the move but unfortunately my mother came right up behind me and ruined it, sigh.

[ambrosiagfe]

[pissvortex]

me when i get called out for ruining 2 marriages

[brokeshibe]

It’s actually much worse because the context of this was, she made this post in response to a black youtuber committing suicide, alleging it was due to “cancel culture” - he wasn’t “cancelled” at any point, he just had untreated and unresolved mental health problems (i.e. depression), which led to the unfortunate outcome. 

She then decided to use that as an excuse to soapbox about her getting “cancelled” after she cheated on her husband with another married man, and it came out and both marriages were broken up because of it.

A white woman using a black man’s suicide to basically call out people who rightly decided she was shit…Y I K E S

[handy-crafts-menship]

She used etikas situation????

[roskii]

Yes she did.

[veemopusvulgaris]

yo what the fuuuuuck

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

Tips for a new SB? BTW I love your green smoothie.

AYYYY I told y’all it was good!!! Anyway these are literally the only tips you need

1) Fuck the sites, freestyle or flop

2) No sharing anything personal. Get paid in cash, on Venmo, or in crypto. Cash app will show your real name on their bank statements and Paypal freezes SWers’ money.

3) Don’t fall for flashy shit. Unless they’re giving the flashy shit to you, it means nothing.

4) Your money—don’t fucking blow it and act like you never had money before. Save for a rainy day and invest. Pay off all back expenses you have. You never know when or if he leaves. Also, try to finesse some career tips out of him to help you further your own. I never recommend for girls to be jobless while sugaring. If you ever need to return to the market you’ll have a difficult time finding a job.

5) Learn etiquette, how to dress, and worldly topics.

6) Never let him think your schedule is open. You keep distance until he does/buys you something large enough to prove he deserves it.

7) Treat it like a half assed relationship when you choose to give him affection. Men that fall in love with you give you the world.

8) If they don’t give you the money in time—run. If they give you less than enough money—run. Don’t you sit there and avoid confrontation. That’s how they play you. Sugaring is a negotiation; you want him to give you the most, he wants to give you the least. Make sure his least matches your most (for now) by adding some shaming language in there LMAO. “So that’s how little you paid your last SB? :/” “Why didn’t you take your last girl shopping? Didn’t you want to do nice things for her? :(” “Why would you want to go to x? I’ve always thought it was a bit boring.” This allows you to show that you will not accept everything they throw your way just because they have the money. You have plenty of control too.

9) Safety! Public places only until you know him. Background checks, weapons, yadda yadda. If you don’t know him inside and out, what properties he owns, his liquidity, and all of that, you should by the time you’re done with him. It’s public knowledge. During sex always wear condoms, check for any possible STDs. Keep any cameras faced away from y’all. If you gotta be under the influence to tolerate him he’s not the one. Correct him if he’s doing something wrong or could do it better. You however, better slang the best pussy of your life. 😂😂

10) Don’t care about anyone’s staring. If people are staring at y’all, you’re probably in too low end of an area or you’re pretty. Get to the bag, don’t worry about those hoes.

[hyrude]

this is the text of good fortune, reblog in 60 seconds and $1200 will spontaneously materialize in your bank account🙏🙌💪🏻😤

[cocosugxr]

Slowly cracking the code on how to sugar via Yelp🔥

Will update in a week or so after testing it out a little more!

[cocosugxr]

I know it has been well over a week, but here it is:

Step 1. Open Maps on your iPhone and zoom and click on Nice/expensive places in your area.

Note: you need to decide if you’re looking for clients that you likely won’t see unless they’re in town (click on nice hotels) or local POTs/clients (click on everything else ie: men’s clothing stores, cafes, bars, etc.)

Ex:

Step 2: scroll to the bottom and click on “Find out more on yelp” I then look for menn who have left reviews. I usually look for older men who mention that they come to this place all the time, favorite spot, etc. avoid the people who just come to talk shit or talk about how pricy items are.

Ex:

This review is okay, don’t necessarily like that he’s talking about saving on bloody Mary’s lol, but you get the picture.

Step 3: click on the profile.

Ex:

Now I not only have access to the fact he lives in LA, (local POT) I have access to all the places he’s left a review aka PLACES where high quality men frequent aka freestyle spots!! There is also access to his friends which could lead to others like him.

I now know new places to freestyle for what I’m looking for, which is a local POT, that I can see frequently and can eventually become a SD/sponsor.

The next possible step to this could be to comment on his posts, make friends, etc etc… but my goal here isn’t to be engulfed in the Yelp world, my goal is to find legit places to freestyle in order to find local potentials.

I can say that I use this method every now and then, and have found some really nice places in LA that I’ve never even heard of, or that I was somewhat unsure of, and think it’s worth trying.

Let me know what you guys think, any tweaks, successes or failures.

Xoxo🌹

[kawaiilondonsb-deactivated20171]

Don’t Be Stupid: What I have learnt as a SB

- If you don’t want to have sex: Don’t follow a man back to his hotel room for any reason

- If you are inflexible in your thinking (like demand an allowance from an Experience SD): Don’t be sad when opportunities pass you by

- If you don’t sincerely believe in your self-worth: Don’t expect anyone else to believe in you

- If you don’t criticise or dump a SD for breaking one of your rules or values: Don’t be shocked when he does it again

- If you don’t double check a message before you submit it: Don’t be surprised when you find a mistake

- If you meet a new POT every day of the week: Don’t complain about feeling drained and empty. Take a break

- If you share your SB status and stories with normal friends: Expect them to have judgements about your decisions. Everyone has different values so don’t expect them to be supportive or anything :/ My friends think I just meet a lot of people from Tinder (and judge the shit out of me for it)

- If you really put yourself out there and message a lot of POTs: Expect to be judged and criticised and rejected

- If you don’t put yourself out there: Don’t expect to fall into the perfect arrangement just by breathing and existing

- If you do something nice for people: Don’t expect kindness from them back. Kindness will always find kind people but perhaps from a different source

- If you ask a man to leave you: Don’t cry when he actually leaves

Essentially what I learnt is that projecting unreasonable expectations on people is what makes me sad. It’s better to expect more from yourself.

Don’t get sad, just get angry at the situation.

[one-peonypetal]

From my old blog before I abandoned SA and deactivated. I wrote that post 4 months ago when I was deeply caught up in a fit of melancholy after I ended my first arrangement. ‘No expectations’ was an epiphany that changed the way I approached all the relationships in my life. It has been so incredibly freeing. 

Never give in to things that make you despair, because only by experiencing those dark moments will you become strong. 

[prettygirls-fitness]

“ Lower Belly Tightener ” - W/ Natalie Jill.

[harlotho-deactivated20190817]

Get rid of them winter pouches ladies

[howtolossweight]

Warm up your abs and lower back with this bodyweight at home core warm up routine. Get your heart pumping and prepare your core for a strengthening workout.

[howtolossweight]

6 Minute Morning Workout.

It’s a good wake up workout. Low key but still gets your heart pumping a bit.

[harlotho-deactivated20190817]

No excuses!!

[thewitchdoctor]

[uranian97]

1) they expensive bruh 2) none of us kno the dif btwn a fucking diamond and some fancy ass glass ur capitalist rock hierarchy has no control over us

[a-chicago-sunflower]

3) mostly mined with slave labor

[everkings]

4) we get excited when our date buys us an appetizer, we don’t even comprehend people buying us rocks that would force us into debt for ten years

[wildhaunt]

5) They aren’t actually that rare and the price is artificially inflated. 

[ariaste]

Pro tip from a former Jared’s salesperson: You want a sparkly white rock that will look like a diamond to the untrained eye and will literally cost the price of a nice dinner for two? Created white sapphire. They’re lab grown and cost *pennies* to make, so you can get a 1 or 2 carat white sapphire for like… $30-80 probably. You can get one as huge as you like, perfectly clear, perfectly flawless. And no one will ever be able to tell the difference except a professional appraiser. Also, sapphires are the second-hardest gemstone (right after diamonds) so they are very durable! Very unlikely that they’ll chip or crack. Get that bitch set in sterling silver and you are GOOD TO GO. Whole thing should cost you less than $200 unless you get a fancy band with a lot of extra stones. Of course, created sapphires come in every color of the rainbow, so if you want something more exciting than plain white, you TOTALLY CAN. 

Created sapphires and silver: The poor Millennial’s engagement ring. 

[everythingcanadian-archive]

THANK YOU EX-JARED’S BASED GOD. 

[dxisybuchanan]

engagement rings: HACKED

[styna]

Get a ring from an antique store. They’re usually less than $100, you know they hold up over time, no one else will have one like it, and it comes with the bonus of being haunted by the spirit of some old woman named Edith probably.

[phruxx]

thanks edith