[merituuli90]

so, i was wondering what the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist was? because your ex is seeing a psychiatrist and i think you should know

Okay, so this has been sitting in my inbox for the past 3 days and... I had no battery power to reply until now. And I have to enforce some goddamn boundaries since y’all aren’t getting the hint. 

I do not want updates or any info on my ex. 

I refuse to respect his chosen name since he has no respect for me, much less the truth of what happened between us. I don’t fucking care about Sam. I really really fucking don’t. I posted about my current relationship as a signal to get anons like you to back off. 

Since I dumped Sam, I have gotten his new url no less than 11 times, even after I explicitly said I don’t fucking want it. Every time something significant or anything of interest happens in Sam’s life, I get anons running into my askbox tattling on him like I’m the Sam Police. 

I am done being nice. I have been clear, specific and explicit. I am getting married. I am happily in a poly relationship with two people. I moved on literally the day after I dumped Sam. I have since given all the information on Sam and our relationship that I could, and I’m done. 

In the next few months, I will be deleting the asks answered on this blog. Asks will be turned off, and a new page will be up on this archived blog for all the information people seem to be craving (if the messages in my inbox are to be believed) and every time I receive an ask or a message about Sam this or Sam that, every single one will be referred to this masterpost, because y’all can’t take explicit directions to leave the goddamn matter alone. 

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

the world isn’t so bad. it has you in it, after all.

[succubusboyfriend]

if you’re offline or away and i message you something (like a link to a meme or a picture or w/e) honestly just assume that i’m just leaving it there for when you get back and not expecting you to answer straight away. i don’t need you to respond with “hey, sorry, i wasn’t at the computer!” or anything. i was leaving u a gift for later.

[slightmayhem]

This also applies if you’re online and just don’t want to or have the energy to deal with humans in the moment. Just because we have the ability to reply in real time does not mean we have the obligation.

[melon-official]

im like a cat i drag the posts to ur doorstep and if ur not there it’s ok, the post will be on ur porch for later

[myvanfam]

If you want to reply hours, or even days later, hey that’s okay! You don’t need to apologize. It’s okay to have other things to attend to, to kinda be done with people, or to not feel like messaging someone. I know I have those moments sometimes. I’ll be here at the end of the reply stump and I’ll never hold it against you.

[commanderrogers]

“uh oh” i whispered as i began to ship it

[kuzkuza]

trying to find content for your rarepair like

[bensoloisalivedotcom]

me jumping from one ship to a new ship and back to the old ship then unto a new one

[deathpov]

not to be nsfw but can someone hold my hand and do the thumb rub thing

[pileofknives]

Attention all customers: our store will be closing in five minutes. If you are present in the store after closing you will be hunted for sport.

[thatadhdfeel]

me: would you like to hear about my hyperfixation

friend: actually yeah i would

me:

[picsthatmakeyougohmm]

hmmm

[hell-in-a-handbasket1]

@biffan

[prettygemini]

when Florence Welch said “You don’t have to be a ghost here amongst the living. You are flesh and blood! You deserve to be loved and you deserve what you are given”

[hawt-me33]

Coming into a fandom late

[baxterdamus-deactivated20130513]

Coming into a fandom early and watching it become an angry clusterfuck

[valorious]

Being in a dormant fandom that suddenly comes alive again after a new book/movie

[leatherpatches-deactivated20150]

Don’t forget about those who come in the midst of a fandom war. 

[fauxmoux]

Accuracy at its best

[street-of-mercy]

Being in a fandom and not even knowing there’s a war going on…

[my-reylo]

all of this shit…lol

[nerdsagainstfandomracism]

When You’re Not In The Fandom But You’re Nosy AF

[not-so-secret-nerd]

When you get into a fandom only to discover it’s dead

[jupiter235]

This gets better every time I see it. 

[sageblackrose95]

@fuboos-mess

[inverted-mind-inc-sideblog-deac]

Being in a dead fandom…

[illogicalarchive]

Or being in such a tiny fandom that it feels like youre the only one

[erilias]

The accuracy hurts.

[fanfic-yes-please]

Being in a fandom that had a shit ending.

[it-is-bugs]

When you’ve been fangirling long enough, you’ve experienced all of the above.

[sweetferalbaby]

Being in a fandom meant for kids.

[teaganvamp]

This just gets better..

[hamboj2]

@mi-kleos

[thatcrazysonicchick]

When you realize that joining the fandom has ruined you

[knightofbloodcancer]

Fandom hell in general

[morathavictoria]

Yes.

[marvelanimelover]

This^^^ just… ALL OF THIS.

[stop-talking-babe-deactivated20]

Being in so many fandoms that you don’t even know what’s going on

[raise-cain-archived]

THIS IS THE SKULDUGGERY FUCKING PLEASANT FANDOM IN ONE POST!!

[crochanblackbeak]

Trying to recruit people to your fandom

[kateriverameliawolfe]

Annnnnnndddd it’s back

[ishipwhatiship247]

Being in a fandom which has so many antis

[ravenhilarious]

I’ve probably reblogged this before, but that was before these great additions.

[swanqueen-author]

Being in a fandom that actually works together

[commanderunhingedmongoose]

Why is this so true? All of it.

[pillowprincesslexa]

being in a fanbase but all your mutuals suddenly turn into Kpop blogs

[hangingfire]

I always enjoy it when a good post comes around again and has been improved by the reblogs like the years for a fine wine.

[priory-of-stars]

Being in a fandom when shit goes down and everyone has different opinions

[marianagmt]

When you are in a fandom and don’t care for others people opinion…..even if they are right…(believe me, I have met several of those)

[batbyte-alghul]

Being in a fandom you never meant to join

[tirnel-sutcliff-spears]

I love this. and it’s gotten better

[cartoonjessie]

After abandoning a fandom you’re still a little bit emotionally invested in….

[brit-is-bookish]

All of these are me. Lol

[thehikingastronomer]

Being in a fandom on Tumblr

[valtsv]

character: *tenderly brushes their love interest’s hair back from their forehead and/or takes one of their hands in their own to try to warm it while they’re unconscious recovering from an illness or injury*

me:

[valtsv]

normally stoic character: *reveals their attraction to their love interest while they’re delirious from pain or fever, but conveniently forgets what they said when they’re fully lucid again so now both characters are secretly pining but mutually oblivious of the other’s true feelings*

me:

[valtsv]

character: *actually remembers what they said or what their love interest said about them while they thought they were unconscious and tries to bring it up and discuss it, but is told by their stoic love interest that they were just imagining things in their feverish state because they’re too emotionally repressed to allow themselves to be vulnerable without an excuse*

me:

[sbeep]

scrollin the Skyrim wiki to choose the least potato-looking NPC spouse for ur dragonborn

[cindersart]

that one friend who hates the same shit i hate: can i be petty abt — me, thru 10 loudspeakers: release the salt

[scrublords-meme-bin]

On this blog, we love and appreciate OC x Canon.

[ethereousdelirious]

characters getting injured: 👌👌👌👌

characters getting injured and then hIDING IT SO NO ONE WORRIES ABOUT THEM: 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👀👀👀👀👀👀😫😫

[reivenesque]

characters getting injured and not realizing it until they fall down and unable to get back up and can only look down in confusion when the hand they hand on their side comes away wet with blood  👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

bonus point if said character is the stoic one who spent the whole time helping everyone out and treating the wounded.