heyy i noticed you tagged one of your reblogs with aspec rayllum- can you further elaborate on your headcanons for them? i’m aroace and i rlly like the idea!!
Huzzah! More aspec Rayllum fans! Honestly, there seems to be a lot of people in the community who headcanon Rayllum as aspec.
Personally, I headcanon them both as demisexual.
I always write them that way too, which is why all my fics end up longer than three chapters. We must establish that deep bond before they can even consider anything further…
One of my favourite things about Rayllum is that they genuinely are friends. You can believe that they enjoy spending time together, they have a similar sense of humour and we see them having fun.
I tend to prefer ships where I see the couple as being legit friends, as well as romantic partners. While technically, Callum and Rayla start off as “enemies”, once they form their little alliance, they very quickly put that behind them. Even though Callum doesn’t fully trust Rayla (and his instincts were correct there) and they bicker on and off, Rayla also indulges him, explaining magic and how the primal stone works. He immediately stops even entertaining the idea of using the boat to get to Xadia once he learns of her fear of water.
Even when they run into Claudia and Soren at the Moon Nexus, Rayla’s issue with Claudia isn’t borne out of jealousy, she (rightfully) doesn’t trust Claudia.
Rayla is clearly upset when Callum says that she and him don’t have the level of intimacy he has with Claudia and Soren, but she’s not threatened by a romantic rival, she’s concerned for Zym and all of their safety.
Their journey together through Xadia was perfection. Sweet and cute but also Rayla standing up to an archdragon for Callum. Him going nuts for magic dirt and Rayla pranking him with fart flowers. Both of them giggling in the adoraburr meadow.
I utterly adored their fumbled first kiss in the Midnight Desert. Clueless Callum listing all the things he admired about Rayla and then seeming totally shocked when she kisses him. Her being similarly shocked by his reaction.
Season five is probably my standout favourite season and that’s mostly due to the major aspec Rayllum vibes I got.
Loved them having a-joining rooms, their trip to Xadia together and all the dorkiness with the inn. Soren’s observation about Ezran being careful or he’ll grow up weird “like your brother and Rayla” (cracks me up every time). Amaya talking to Rayla about opening up and allowing herself to depend on other people.
“I would do anything for you.”
“I hope you know—” “I know.”
Rayla being tortured by Finnegrin and Callum punching him in the face. Callum doing dark magic to save her.
They are so utterly devoted in terms of platonic and romantic love and I adore it.
Rayllum are just so interesting to me. Callum being willing to die to save those he loves, to save Rayla, and her stepping up to be the one to kill him. To break her own heart to do the right thing.
I want to see how they develop as adults, as their relationship matures. As they become parents.
I know some people don’t like how unhinged they are when it comes to each other, but I do not need the “perfect” relationship modelled for me in the fiction I enjoy, just interesting ones.
Their friendship seems to be as important to them as their romantic relationship. During both periods where they were friends but not “official” romantic partners, they were “ride or die”.
They are each other’s person, in every aspect. Life partners. Utterly devoted. Their relationship transcends normal definitions of “romantic” to me. They’re literally everything to each other. Friends and lovers.
Neither title outweighs the other.