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Reblog this and tag at which age you first saw pornography and your gender. I’m doing research for an essay I’m writing on
i was 13 and im female. something about it immediately felt wrong about it, but i thought the feeling was from religious guilt
I was 12. Im a woman
nine, i think? am female
That I know for sure- 9. Female.
Female and 12. I think I was like 6 or 7 when my sister and I flurried through a playboy someone gave my dad bc we'd heard of Playboy and knew it was full of naked ladies but nothing else lol. It was an old one too where like the most risqué thing I remember seeing was a woman showering
Female and 13-14. A grown man i met online sent it to me out of the blue. It was nothing extreme but it was clearly a man and a woman having sex and I was too scared to tell my parents.
Before 9, female.
Female, 3
@bi-fem holy shit dude I'm so sorry
Female. I was probably like 11
female, 10
Female, 11
Somewhere between 7 and 9 I believe, my memory before teen years is a but blurry but I know it was before 10.
Female, 11. My friend and I accidentally clicked on it thinking it was YouTube, it was bondage porn
Pls for the love of god stop calling straight/bi women "cock worshippers" or "breeders" it's fuckimg gross
Wasn’t there a gender crit/rad version of twitter? It was like Twitter, but not twitter, and only women were on it. Or did I make this up. If it’s real, send me the info
uhhh like spinster or something??? didnt it turn out that it was run by a guy when the owners got in a fight?????????
That sounds right. That’s fucking crazy, I clearly missed that news.
Wasn’t there a gender crit/rad version of twitter? It was like Twitter, but not twitter, and only women were on it. Or did I make this up. If it’s real, send me the info
bi women don’t perpetrate misogyny by dating men or by being into men. their attraction to men doesn’t make them complicit in their own oppression. i can’t believe i’m seeing “repress your attraction to men or you’re a traitor” takes in 2020. grow the fuck up.
if you hear about a bi woman being in an abusive relationship with a man and your immediate thought is something along the lines of “that’s what you get for dating men lol” i think you honestly should just drop dead
Anyone who uses "bihet" unironically should just sit down and never speak again
Is there any place for gender critical bisexuals to talk? Discord, online groups, anything? Just bi women, no straight women, no lesbians, just bi women. If there is, please let me know 💗💜💙
“If we say “pregnant people” instead of “pregnant women,” abortion becomes a people’s rights issue instead of a women’s rights issue. And then you can’t complain if men decide.”
— Helen Saxby
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the normalization of choking makes me mad because:
you cannot verbally say a “safe word” when your supply of air is being cut off
your brain isn’t rational when deprived of oxygen (this is well documented even in situations outside of strangulation such as altitude sickness) making it hard to give some kind of physical signal like a tap
if your partner ignores the previously mentioned physical “safe word”, the lack of oxygen makes it difficult to fight back
choking (“"consensual”“ or not) seems to be mostly male on female. your average woman is going to have trouble overpowering your average man with her bare hands and this is only magnified by point #3
lack of oxygen can very quickly cause permanent damage or death
if you get off on hurting people something is wrong with you
Notice how all abortion horror stories and abortion doctor murders all involve male abortion doctors?
Male doctors should stay out of our uteruses, literally, no matter what their opinion on abortion is.
(I guess I’ll have to put a disclaimer so no one gets triggered- I’m not speaking bad about abortion. Just mentioning there are doctors who have raped women after performing abortions on them. There are male doctors who have neglected women and let them bleed out bc a complication would ruin their reputation, and there was that creepy abortionist who collected all the dead fetuses in jars lol wtf)
Women should not be afraid to criticize religious misogyny. When religions have strict requirements for women that they do not have for men, especially when these rules expressly relate to the control and ownership of women's sexuality, and when religious communities enforce these rules such that women who do not comply with them are ostracized from communities that often isolate all their members from knowledge of how to live in the outside world anyway, that's a bad thing. Flat out. If someone is pretending that the Amish or white evangelicals don't have their own heinous varieties of religious misogyny, clearly they are being racist in this notion that brown people do misogyny worse than everyone else. But to call a misogynist practice a misogynist practice is not racist and in fact is good for women. This should be pretty clear and part of the problem HAS been white women routinely using criticism of religious misogyny as an excuse to be racist. The takeaway from that is not that basic feminist criticism is racist, but that...racism is bad even when feminists do it.
Why I Hate DDLG: A Masterpost
Besides the obvious connotations toward pedophilia and predation towards children and childlike things, which they can refute all they want, the community itself is guilty of several toxic and obscene habits that make them an all around harmful community.
“It’s just between two consenting adults in the bedroom, it’s nobody else’s business”
This is a lie. If it was nobody’s business, they wouldn’t have public blogs and a whole community dedicated to it. Which brings me to my next point:
They intentionally interact with people who don’t want anything to do with their kink and don’t want to be associated with it.
People who make nostalgia blogs, aesthetic blogs, and people who make art in a childlike style or of children’s characters have to make “Do Not Interact” banners because…
They appropriate artwork and photos that were never meant to be porn in the first place.
When a kink blog posts something, no matter what its original meaning may have been, it becomes porn. It now represents the DDLG community and has a sexual connotation. It embodies childlikeness, sexualized. We are NOT porn artists. I am NOT a porn artist. I, in particular even have written clearly in my commission terms that I WILL NOT draw NSFW art for ANYONE, for any sort of payment. Yet these people have appropriated my artwork and many others’ to represent their kink. All these artists’ works are now porn. And even if they have blocked the offender, their work is still out there, circulating the community.
Even when an artist puts a DNI banner on their work, the community will often reblog or repost it anyway. They get angry and harass you when you tell them not to interact, or to remove the work they reposted.
Just like any fetishist, they think they have an obligation and are entitled to spread their kinks and their porn to everyone around them. Anyone who disapproves or doesn’t want to be associated is just a “dumb prude bigot” who’s hindering “sexual liberation”. Their logic? “If you don’t want to be interacted with, then get off the internet. If you don’t want your work stolen, then don’t post it”.
They flood CLEAN tags with NSFW material.
The tags “Princess”, “Kittens”, and the tags of many fandoms which should be clean and innocent are full of pornographic DDLG posts. This wouldn’t be so bad if they flagged the post as NSFW, but they don’t. Again, they WANT their kink to be everyone’s business, so they refuse to filter it.
Despite their insistence that they’re “Not Predatory”, they sure do have predatory tendencies. They target people who say they don’t want their interaction, broadcast their kink as loud as possible, and they appropriate art that was never meant to be porn against the artist’s consent.
You can debate the pedophilic connotations all you want, but the DDLG community is at its core: entitled, predatory, and rotten. And to me, it’s fucking personal.
Good movies for my fellow feminists (interesting female leads and stories)
Gravity
An astronaut tries to survive and find her way back to earth after an incident left her stranded in space.
Gett, the trial of Viviane Amsalem
A woman tries to divorce her husband but faces the misogyny of a rabbinical court.
Gerald’s Game
After being coerced into BDSM by her creepy husband, a woman finds herself abandonned, handcuffed to the bed and starts remembering the sexual abuse she endured as a child. She tries to free herself (both figuratively and litterally).
Doubt
Two nuns start suspecting that the priest of their parish is a pedophile and decide to confront him despite his authority as a male leader in a patriarchal institution.
M.F.A
After the man she had a crush on rapes her at a party on campus an art student realizes that most rapists get away with it. She decides to take matters into her own hands and becomes a serial killer of rapists.
Midsommar
After a tragic loss, a woman is struggling with grief and panic attacks. Her boyfriend is an absolute douchebag but the only person she has left. Him and his friends invite her to a trip to Sweden where they join a bizarre cult which turns out to be deadly. Keep in mind this is a horror movie.
Trust
A young girl is groomed by a pedophile and a culture that sexualizes girls more and more. After she is raped, both she and her father struggle to recover and communicate as she denies that it was rape claiming the pedophile loved her and he feels powerless to help her.
Camp X Ray
A young woman joins the army and is sent to Guantanamo Bay to help protect her country from terrorism only to discover that she is in fact helping her country commit human rights violations against muslim men emprisonned without trial, one of whom she becomes friend with. She also has to face sexist discrimination and sexual harassment from her peers.
Beatriz at dinner
Beatriz is a gentle and thoughtful vegetarian woman from Mexico who is invited to a dinner with rich white people. Throughout the dinner she can’t help confronting them about capitalism, racism and animal cruelty. As the evening gets more and more heated she starts considering murdering the rich white man who embodies the destruction of her values.
Another Earth
A young woman responsible for a car crash that killed a family is working as a cleaner and ends up working for the man who’s family she killed. She tries to help him recover from depression and grief. A relationship begins but he doesn’t know who she really is.
Hard Candy
Pretending to be a clueless teenager online, a girl is invited to a man’s house where she drugs him and holds him hostage accusing him of being a pedophile.
Ingrid Goes West
Ingrid wants to be popular like all the bourgeois instagram influencers who’s lives always seem so perfect. She becomes obsessed with one of them and starts stalking her and creating a fake identity to try and become part of her life.
Monster
Monster tells the real story of a prostituted woman who was executed for killing her rapist and other “clients” after him. The movie also focuses on her relationship with her girlfriend.
Notes on a scandal
A narcissistic and deeply manipulative teacher becomes obsessed with the new teacher at her school. She sees a love story… where there is none.
Precious
With the help of a sympathetic teacher, Precious, who comes from a poor family and is abused by her mother, tries to find a way out and build the confidence she never had after years of humiliation.
The Others
An isolated and very strict mother of two is frustrated with her daughter saying there are ghosts in the house that she calls “the others”. Turns out… there’s definitely something creepy going on. If you like intelligent scary movies without the gore this one is great.
The Stoning of Soraya M
In a remote muslim village, a man tries to get rid of his wife by accusing her of adultery and getting her stoned to death. The movie takes us through the surreal process of patriarchal “justice” with its inescapable and gruesome ending. Based on a true story.
Wild
After the death of her mother, a woman decides to go on a hiking trip alone for the first time, with all its difficulties, especially as a woman.
Speak
An introverted teenager who doesn’t fit in stops talking after she is raped at a party. No one understands what is wrong with her. Slowly she tries to find the strength to trust and speak again.
There are no rape scenes in : Gravity Gett, the trial of Viviane Amsalem Doubt Midsommar Camp X Ray Beatriz at dinner Another Earth Hard Candy Ingrid Goes West Notes On A Scandal The Stoning of Soraya M Wild The Others
Hard Candy & Doubt are about catching pedophiles but we don’t see anything
Just thought I would specify if it helps :)
Don’t watch the stoning of soraya m if you’re triggered by violence tho the ending is….. maddening