Don’t wait. Follow your joy. Allow yourself to experience new things. If someone isn’t treating you the way you desire, or a dynamic has formed that’s undesirable — focus on you, don’t wait for them. Know that it will come together, don’t get angry with them — take full accountability for your role in creating the relationships in your life. Don’t point the finger at them, take full accountability if you’ve under valued yourself or under prioritized yourself.
Work on you, for you. Build you up, for you. Hold a knowing about them, but don’t cut yourself off from things you enjoy — meeting other people — experiencing life. In fact, you may find that people come towards you treating you the way you desire to be treated — this is a good sign! It means what you’re doing is working, so enjoy experiences as they come in and hold a firm knowing that it’ll come from who you want. There’s an infinite ways that things can unfold, your only “job” is to be the change, enjoy yourself, build yourself up, decide what you want and know it will unfold. When you become more engaged with life and enjoying experiences that come in reflecting the changes you’re making — this actually speeds up the process, in my opinion.
If you allow yourself to get frustrated “why is everyone else doing this BUT not the person I want?!”… you get in your own way. Enjoy the results! Amazing! I’m getting the treatment I deserve, it’s totally coming from who I want — I know that, and in the meantime I’m going to enjoy myself because that is what I deserve! I deserve this love! I deserve this success! Thank you! It’s going to keep coming in and coming in exactly the way I desire as I just continue to focus on me and enjoy.
Don’t feel like you have to wait and cut yourself off from the world for a single person. You can persist in the knowing, and enjoy life as it unfolds, too. However, I will say — there’s a huge difference between enjoying life and playing games. If the relationship you desire starts to come in, then give it that fair shot and trust the work you’ve done on yourself, the growth you’ve gone through, and the tools you’ve adopted will take you to the other side. Be willing to let go of the past, be willing to believe in a better version of them and the relationship you desire, and continue to prioritize you and nurture healthy beliefs / perceptions / states of being.
At the end of the day, always prioritize your happiness. When you are your own source of joy, love, happiness and stability — your reality will become the reflection of who you choose to be and how you operate.
Don’t chase. Know it. Be it. Enjoy experiences as they come in and hold the firm knowing that you will get exactly what you desire.
I understand this message won’t apply to everybody, but the point is to realize that nobody is making you feel like you’re waiting for anything but you. And that’s really not “operating”/“living in the end” of your desired result.
grabbed this from Dylan James on Youtube, just wanna put this on here as a reminder
