just a silly little guy that wastes away tragically in their room :P MINOR + CANNOT DONATE TO ANYTHING please read pinned post for tws and important info!!
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i am a minor and do not have control of my money/funds therefore i cannot donate to fundraisers at the moment. hopefully someday in the future!
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name: shoko or sho or my username is fine
age: 13-16 aka a MINOR
pronouns: anything, they/them preference
status: taken!! by my beautiful wife @lovergirlrobyn hehehe <3
neurodivergent, chronically ill, queer, genderqueer, i talk abt this stuff openly so ask if your curious!
am i a jirai? thats a good question.. figure im close enough
also a raccoon and ringtail cat therian
DNI: mahito blogs.. nothing wrong with it, just looking at his face makes me uncomfortable. nobody else really, i'll just block you if i want
trigger warnings are tagged as "#tw [thing]"
common tws on this blog include:
- #tw suicide
- #tw self harm
future account if something happens to this one will be @miners-cat
interests:
my bestest friend ever @secretlyad3er
my girlfriendddddd :3
tv girl
class of '09
heathers (musical and movie)
jujutsu kaisen (manga and anime)
fnaf (whole series)
legend of zelda (whole series)
house m.d.
life series smp
jurassic world: camp cretaceous
learning languages (french atm, native english speaker)
learning music (cello player, learning bass guitar, learning guitar and piano soon/eventually)
collecting earrings
fashion and thrifting/making clothing
walking at night
tags:
og posts (vents aren't differenciated cuz this is a vent blog): #to be forgotten (о´∀`о)
reblogs: #shoko's reblogs (๑>◡<๑)
asks: #ask shoko (*^▽^*)
writing, ocs, and art: #rare effort (*´꒳`*)
freakposting/my gf: #my hime ૮꒰ ˶• ༝ •˶꒱ა ♡
credit to @sisterlucifergraphics, @cursed-carmine, @muerdida, and @lovergirlrobyn for dividers!
my body literally looks so good right now. im snatched, i have a thigh gap, i dont look too skinny or too fat. god i really hope it stays this way for a while.
The fundamental problem with this kind of "gender abolitionism" is that it does not understand the material nature of gender. If you really wanted to abolish gender, you need to actually stop doctors and parents from assigning sex at birth, desegregate public spaces and institutions, and then change plus enforce the laws around misogynistic violence like rape (this list is not exhaustive).
Wearing a dress while having a beard and using neopronouns can be fun, but it isn't an act of revolution.
sexism in medicine kills people. racism in medicine kills people. fatphobia in medicine kills people. queerphobia in medicine kills people. classism in medicine kills people. ableism in medicine kills people.
do not downplay people’s fears about being mistreated because they are a part of a marginalised group. it is a matter of life and death and you should be angry about it.
I’m reading this book about the changing arctic and the author stayed with the Nunamiut people of inland alaska for a while and talked to this high school kid who was like “ugh I hate going to school in the spring I wish I was hunting caribou” and I thought that was charming. you often hear about people who are devoted to preserving their traditional culture and knowledge but it’s rare to hear about someone who’s invested in the old ways out of pure teenage selfishness. school is lame and hunting caribou is awesome
Receiving social assistance money needs to be way less fucking stigmatized. Relying on a disability pension, or another income program is not a moral failing.
“But they’re not contributing to society!”
Maybe not by the twisted capitalistic standards of the world we live in, but all human life has inherent value, no matter how they contribute to others.
i think maybe everyone needs to get way more normal about irish art & media and irish people creating or even just existing in art/media cause i don't know how much longer i can see "hozier is a bog dwelling elven fae king and i don't listen to his political lyrics because i can't understand his mysterious forest king accent teehee" before i snap indefinitely. your fetishistic approach to irish art while simultaneously devaluing its messages and themes because you'd rather see it as your romanticised ideal of our culture is BORING. it happened to the banshees of inisherin on the "mental illness site" and maybe if they'd had southern england accents you'd have taken it seriously. it happened to DERRY GIRLS. derry girls. a show explicitly about irish catholicism, the troubles, life in derry in the 90s and female solidarity and you people dressed it up as some twee little mockery of itself. talk and talk about how strange the writing of finnegan's wake is and don't think critically about why james joyce, an irish man in 1939, would write a book in a confusing, dense style, with made up words with strange spellings. could this possibly be a commentary on the way the irish language has become jumbled and obscure? how it's become almost foreign to us? how for a long time it was an oral language and that didn't always translate to paper well? our art is "irish art" but simultaneously not allowed to be important art. it has to exist in that niche to marvel at but not take seriously. irish dance, trad music, celtic knots, claddagh rings, our poetry and literature and murals and paintings and our culture packed away into a neat stereotype. i see it and it irritates me endlessly.
i love you scared trans girls. i love you angry trans girls. i love you trans girls who had to fight to survive and don’t know how to stop when you’re safe. i love you trans girls who had to become small and unobtrusive and now struggle with expressing your needs, even to people you know will listen. i love you trans girls who don’t know the right thing to say. i love you trans girls who are blunt. i love you trans girls who are awkward. i love you trans girls who struggle with social cues. i love you trans girls whose trauma shows itself in ways deemed “unacceptable.” i love you trans girls who keep going and stay alive. i love you i love you i love you
*guy who doesn't know anything about sports and has never cared about sports in his life* hey did you know womens professional baseball is returning after 70 years and the games are going to be streamed for free on youtube and the season starts august 1st
Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.
One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".
The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."
I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.
If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.
nostalgia bait is much less effective when you have memory problems. "hey its that thing from your childhood, don't you love thing from your childhood?" i wouldnt know </3 i forgor.
