Requests temporarily closed while I catch up with the current requests
hello!
This blog is exclusively run by Alice of @system-in-wonderland! Other alters may occasionally help out, but I am always the one posting 🩷
I am running a mini bah, with the intention of allowing me to fulfill a lot of requests fast, because of this I have no request limit! Send in as many as you'd like.
Our template is quite short, but we are willing to fulfil requests for any type of alter, from any source, so long as it follows the rules!
I try not to deny requests unless I have a reason to, but I still might deny your request if it's something I'm not comfortable doing.
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Rules
SFW only! I'm an age regressor, I will only allow 100% SFW interactions and requests on this blog. If you're interested in NSFW requests, I encourage you to check out our system page, as we have a bah blog that allows this.
Anti-harrassment, of all kinds! I won't make packs based on blogs that have not consented to such.
Anti-discourse - of all kinds. This is a safe space for everybody, no matter their opinions on anything 🩷
Template
Names . Pronouns . Age . Species
Source . Role . Faceclaims
+ I allow you to request any add-ons that you'd like
This add-on can be absolutely anything, so long as it's 100% SFW!
If I have a lot of motivation for a request, I might occasionally throw in additional add-ons as well 🩷
I don't currently have an add-on limit, but please don't be excessive with it. I might only do some of the requested add-ons.
Hewo!! We were wondering if we could get a sheep-themed little? Our little one loves sheep and the color blue though they have yet to form a name (get to this whenever ya can no rush you can also decline we don't mind!!) -TwoTime
May be an odd one, but may we request a pack of Sister Lidwin from Baldur's Gate 3? She's undead, and is cursed, which alters her mind to make her think she's helping people instead of hurting them. Essentially, she doesn't know what she's doing is wrong(source stuff.) She also likes the name Saccharine
Take or leave anything that doesn't fit 🩷
Names Saccharine, Sister Lidwin, Anna Lidwin, Anneliese
Names; Hastur, The king, King, Kingsley, +anymore you think suit it. Pronouns; It/They/That/Being+ Any others you think suit it . Age; Immortal non-aging being.
Source; The king in yellow . Role; ??? . Faceclaims
it will be easier to just send the image off of anon than risking the ask getting eaten again we think lol, a belated req for our birthday then!
we were wondering if we could get a pack based on this clown doll we own (image below). we aren't sure on roles and such, but we have been calling the doll Bartholomew since we got it
-🖥️📁
Take or leave anything that doesn't fit 🩷
Happy belated birthday !! Sorry for the wait with this one 🩷
Could I request a pack for a creators choice brainmade? Do whatever you want have fun !!
Take or leave anything that doesn't fit 🩷
I did a bear inspired brainmade, I hope you like her !!
Ended up pushing this request to the top since I was lacking motivation and figured something like this would help, other requests should be done later today 🩷
Hi, let's talk about an issue we've seen in the BAH community
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I know it’s been a hot minute since we have been active, but I see this happen often enough that it’s worth making a post on.
This post is about exactly what the title says: it's about an issue that we've seen in the BAH community as a whole, not just one section of it, and one that we would like to help correct. While I understand that this post is lengthy, I would advise reading the entire thing, as it is an important message, and should be spread. In fact, if you can, I would like to ask that you please reblog this post, so that more people see it. Thank you. [Plain text: While I understand that this post is lengthy, I would advise reading the entire thing, as it is an important message, and should be spread. In fact, if you can, I would like to ask that you please reblog this post, so that more people see it. Thank you. End plain text.]
This issue is intersexism. You might think "but I'm not being malicious towards intersex people, so how can I be intersexist/do intersexist things?," but the thing is, intersexism doesn't rely on you wanting to be bigoted against intersex people. You can be unknowingly bigoted. (I will say, however, that if you double down claiming that anything said here is actually totally fine, you are intersexist, period. There are no ifs or buts about it.)
Here on out, we should warn: there is discussion of intersexism (obviously) and fetishization of intersex people. We also discuss intersexist slurs, although any usage of them will be censored, and will be discussed in a more informative context. If you cannot read the whole post because of this, that's fine. I should also note here that we are (bodily, even) intersex, so we know how to recognize intersexism, and are very intimate with this kind of bigotry. We are not just making this stuff up.
Now that the warnings are out of the way, I realize that we never named the issue directly. Simply put, the issue here is that people are offering shi/hir as pronouns for packs without regard that they are intersex exclusive, and the person requesting the pack that has them could very well be perisex (not intersex), and also offering intersex as a "gender" in packs. Both of these things are intersexist.
I will start with the most obvious thing first: intersex being offered as a "gender" in BAH packs. Intersexuality is, simply put, naturally developing a body that varies from what is typical from a "male" or "female" in chromosomes, gentilia, hormones, and/or so on. This can be from something like vulvar hypospadias (when the urethra is close or even inside the vagina), or even something such as mixed gentilia (I believe this speaks for itself). This is not a gender, and to claim so is intersexist. [Plain text: This is not a gender, and to claim so is intersexist. End plain text.]
"Intersex" is (provided you meet the definition) an opt-in label that describes something about your body. A description of your body can never be a gender, and especially not something like intersexuality. The closest there is to this is integender, which is when your gender is influenced by your being intersex, but even then, this is exclusive to bodily intersex individuals. [Plain text: exclusive to bodily intersex individuals. End plain text.] You cannot identify with this label if you are bodily perisex, even if you have "intersex alters/headmates/parts/your term here" (the definition of intersex refers to your physically body anyway), nor [plain text: nor /end plain text] if you are "transintersex", as in "transitioning to being intersex". If you are a radqueer reading this, let me elaborate: you cannot "transition" into being intersex, and to claim so is intersexist. I am anti-radqueer, and do not care if you call yourself "transintersex", as you still cannot use this term.
As a side tangent, "transintersex" in itself is an intersexist term, so if you identify with it, I would recommend unpacking your bigotry before you interact with literally anything about/with intersex people. I do not care if you feel bad about not being intersex. There are plenty of other terms out there for you that do not involve the intersexist connotations.
Someone may be wondering how "transintersex" is an intersexist term, and that's a valid question! It's ok to be confused! However, essentially, "transintersex" is intersexist because you cannot "transition" into being intersex. This is something that the definition of intersex states: you must naturally develop whatever causes you to vary from the typical "male" and/or "female". Even ignoring that, though, there lies an inherently problematic implication with the term "transintersex": if you can "transition" into being intersex, you can "transition" into being perisex. I don't believe that I have to explain why this implication is problematic and harmful, but to put it simply: the idea that one can "transition" out of intersexuality and into perisexuality (or "normality") is something used to justify medical abuse against intersex people. I will not go into detail here, but just know that it is gruesome and should not be condoned.
Now, the second issue is the one I mentioned earlier: offering shi/hir pronouns in BAH packs with no regard to the fact that they are intersex exclusive. Now, I understand that quite a bit of perisex people do not know of this, and that is fine, but you have to be ok with learning about this if you want to be a good ally to intersex people.
Now, this section can be triggering for people, as it will contain discussions of the fetishization of intersex people, specifically their bodies, intersexism, and will use the h slur fully spelled out without censoring. It is worth noting that I am using it here to be educational; some people do not know what this slur is, and so I feel as if spelling it out is the only way to truly drill my point home. I will note here that I personally do not reclaim this slur for myself, so while it should go without saying, do not call me it anywhere, including on this post or elsewhere. You will be blocked and reported. [Plain text: I will note here that I personally do not reclaim this slur for myself, so while it should go without saying, do not call me it anywhere, including on this post or elsewhere. You will be blocked and reported. End plain text.]
(Before I actually begin explaining, it is worth mentioning that pronouns such as ze/hir are ok. It is shi/hir specifically that are intersex exclusive. Also, as a summary for those who cannot read it due to the warnings, which is fine, essentially, shi/hir pronouns were originally made in the context of furry porn for the sake of fetishizing intersex bodies. As such, they are not for perisex people to use, and if you intend to put them in a pack, that is fine, but at the very least, it should come with a note that those pronouns are exclusive to intersex people.)
Now, I will try to be as simple as I can in this explanation, so here we go. For the sake of not triggering people, it is beneath the cut.
For starters, I am going to assume that most people are familiar with what furries are. Now, within the furry porn community, there are these bigential (meaning that they have both reproductive systems, presumably with them both functional (this is a classic stereotype of intersex people— that we have both reproductive systems simultaneously, and both are functional. This is a fetishistic fantasy, however, and not accurate to reality. As far as science is concerned, no human can be born with both reproductive systems and with both of them fully functioning. It is possible for someone to be born with both, yes, but at least one of reproductive systems does not work in these cases)) creatures that are caricatures of intersex people. These are known as "hermaphrodites", which is an intersexist slur, for the record.
Shi/hir pronouns were coined with this context in mind. As far as people are concerned, the very first usage of shi/hir was within this context, and for a hermaphroditic character. These pronouns, then, are drenched in fetishization in history. Inherently, they are tied to the fetishization of us intersex people, and are based on uninformed, intersexist ideas of who we are. Shi/hir pronouns were made in an intersexist context. [Plain text: Shi/hir pronouns were made in an intersexist context. End plain text]
Due to their history, it is insensitive for perisex people to use them. They are not for perisex people to use, and are exclusive to intersex people. And yes, just like earlier, this is exclusively for bodily intersex people, and neither "intersex headmates/alters/parts/term here" nor "transintersex" people are included in this.
This is not to say that you cannot at any point put these pronouns in packs. This is to say that if you do, it should at the very least come with the disclaimer that this is for bodily intersex people only. And honestly? While it is your call, and you're not really intersexist either way, I would personally hold off on including them in packs meant for perisex people.
To finish this post, I just want to say that I have hope for the BAH community. I believe that we can grow past this. However, if we truly want this community to be safe for everyone (and I mean everyone), we have to learn when to stop things that are harming people, like this, and I hope that one day, we can all grow past our intersexism.
Thank you all so much for 23 followers and 23 completed packs all in the past four days !!
I really enjoy creating packs for you guys 🩷
I was thinking about potentially starting a BAH gimmick blog inspired by MOGAI coining event blogs such as wishqai and coinfight. Is this something that people would be interested in participating in and/or potentially helping run?
hey, sorry if this is annoying, we just wanted to check we actually sent in a request earlier today. it had a link to a post we made with a photo for reference of what we wanted a headmate/pack based on (a very brightly colored clown doll, we don't know what brand it is to find a link to that)
if it didn't send we can send a new one, and if the link made you or would make you not want to click it we can send a new ask off of anon with the image just in the ask
if you just didn't want to do a pack on that, thats chill and we respect that, we just want to know if we should be more patient or if its a no-go, y'know?
sorry if we are being annoying, and thank you for your time!!
-🖥️📁
I did not get the ask, tumblr might have eaten it that can happen with links sometimes :(
If you resend it I'll be happy to do it !!
You can try breaking up the link / adding spaces to it that way tumblr doesn't realize it's a link
Are you able to do urgent requests? If you are, we may have a more masc presenting bigender little fella in our system that started forming recently, and need a ton of help with him. *May* like the name Murphy, but we are unsure. Any help would be appreciated
Faceclaims by o1akipop on pinterest . by glittermoon
I did this request as soon as I noticed it. I didn't really have much to go on here so I wasn't sure what to do for roles or pronouns? I gave you a bunch of name ideas tho, hopefully it was able to help a bit at least. If you have more information or vibes and want more pronoun or role ideas I can do that!
