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name's Jake. 24, he/him. white TME american, west coast. this is my reblogs acct. sometimes i post my art on @drawyourheart, but for the most part i just rb posts here.

common tags:

☀️#pew pew queue. items that are run in the queue, which runs daily.

☀️#crow voted. poll posts that i voted in, that have not finished their run.

☀️#check the polls. reblogs of #crow voted posts after the poll has finished.

(8/22) queue currently paused. will add links later

#pew pew queue #crow voted #check the polls

lindriart

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pocket-deer-belly

it's like, definitely still mansplaining if the man is dominating the conversation unintentionally and he would totally stop if you asked him to, actually. like, the term exists to describe a phenomenon that arises from the implicit bias that women are expected to simply be less knowledgeable about things. it doesn't matter if he's doing it on purpose or not. he does it cause he expects women to not know things or to not have any input. maybe don't fucking expect women to stand up for themselves every single time they have to have a conversation with a man because that shit happens like daily for a lot of women

pocket-deer-belly

genuinely, sincerely, if you are a man you need to learn to shut up when you're talking to women

pocket-deer-belly

you need to catch yourself explaining something to a woman and go "oh wait, you probably know about this right?"

dykieran

actually i do want more female characters who've experienced rape i just don't want men to ever write them ever again and i want all fandoms to stfu about it forever. not by ignoring it i mean stop acting like a female character experiencing something incredibly common for women to go through is inherently bad writing i hate you all so muchhhhh

dykieran

idk i make this post every few months worded differently but I'm just so so sick of the popular opinion seeming to be that a character i like experiencing trauma i relate to is taboo and gross and fetishising. idk maybe some people just want to tell a story about a thing that happens to people. a lot. im going to start whining that any character with a dead parent is romanticising grief and wank off material for grief fetishists

dykieran

also interesting that male characters with sexual trauma are almost always lauded as Progressive examples of Good Writing but you can't even point out the obvious signs that a female character in the exact same media has gone through the same thing without people crawling over each other to explain to you that actually that's shallow shock value writing so we should ignore it. because obviously a woman's trauma is only there for men to jerk off to and men's trauma is Real and worth exploring

toshakavun

Yusuke has it hard enough but what if he also was a girl

Also my art requests are open please art request me !!!

sara-sel

sawed-on-shotgun

I have been in multiple situations where a friend group I'm not so familiar with starts making jokes about being into weirdo pervert stuff and there is a slight edge of competition to who is The Most Freakish I know for a goddamn fact that I have everyone beat in the pervert department but I can't say anything because they're probably just talking about light BDSM at most and I like things that are complete social suicide in 90% of spaces

sawed-on-shotgun

like oh when you like puppyplay and choking its subversive and edgy but when I talk about getting my sexual awakening at 8 years old from the really fucking weird plant vore sequence in the third ice age movie it's WEIRD and EMBARRASSING i see how it is,

sawed-on-shotgun

oh so this post stops getting notes when I make that addition, i see how it is,

high-quality-tiktoks

it’s been a few days and he loves it

claptrap14

eecilaaaa

OH MY GOD IM SO HAPPY HOW IT TURNED OUT

I'll have to make an outfit very very soon

cipheramnesia

Actually the real reason I transitioned was because my parents joked so many times about returning me to the child store I decided to void the warranty.

cipheramnesia

Actually the real reason I transitioned was my dad complained about women in golf so much I knew it was a sure fire way to make him stop trying to teach me golf.

cipheramnesia

Actually the real reason I transitioned was because I'm really supportive of my wife but I wanted to make shopping for their tampons feel less awkward.

cipheramnesia

Actually the real reason I transitioned was to prove to a point about the ending of the Scottish play to my 8th grade English teacher.

cipheramnesia

Actually the real reason I transitioned was because slutty shorts for men went out of style and I couldn't give them up.