My Mistress Things...

Female.  39 yo.  Married to a chastity sissy who should only ever wear a strapon to fuck me.  This is just a collection of things I find that I enjoy or somehow apply to my relationship.  These are mostly reblogged or found from the internets and I have no claims to them unless stated.

[clearpixels-deactivated20200623]

[1ovinghermyway]

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[mistressedu]

You will forever want to make things up to Mistress Frankie but she's fine. It's you that you should worry about. Mistress Frankie's eyes are open and she's taking advantage of all this world has to offer. You're still wondering what her panties smell like.

[yungkiitten]

⚠️Please read if you are a content creator or sex worker!! Adult content will no longer be allowed on tumblr starting December 17th⚠️

I do not give a fuck if this doesn’t suit your blog. Boost this so everyone can prepare and have a backup plan. This is absolute bullshit but they were never supporting us anyway.

And don’t give me “we don’t pay our taxes” because we do. Bye. Thanks for turning into shit Instagram.

[1ovinghermyway]

So, this is a thing I guess.

Anyone have alternatives?

[mistressedu]

So, I guess this is happening. Happy holidays.

[mistressedu]

Come on in, sissy. Let's get you measured for a steel cage.

[mistressedu]

Let sissy out for a teasing.

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[mistressedu]

Cuck.

[shyexhibitionists]

I love your videos and all your chastity content. Looking to have a sub in the future. My question is, have you (her) think about letting a guy fuck him?

Do I ever? OMG yes! Pretty much every time he’s going down on me I’m thinking about some other guy plowing his ass while he licks my pussy. MMF Bisexual porn is my absolute favorite and what I prefer to watch when he’s eating me out. We’ve never found the right opportunity though to make it happen. 

We did, however, just get a fucking machine so that I can get his ass fucked while he goes down on me. I can’t wait to feel the rhythm of his face getting pushed into my pussy with each thrust, and of course, I’ll have the controls so I can adjust the rate of thrusting to suit me. 

Stay tuned for those videos!

[mistressedu]

Fantasy. Mine. Wantz.

[pantiesdownprettygirl]

[1ovinghermyway]

Yes @mistressedu, I’m quite interested in you pursuing a woman.

Imagine sitting across the table from her…

[mistressedu]

Swoon!

[goddessalexism]

Cutest cage ever. So bridal.

This is the cage I’m going to slip on my future sub-husband on our wedding night.

Showing him that he’ll forever belong to Me. He’ll forever be My property.

[1ovinghermyway]

Oh I like her style

[mistressedu]

And then fuck him wearing your wedding dress! It all makes perfect sense.

[addicted2shemale]

[mistressedu]

What if I've put something in someone else's butt this week? @1ovinghermyway

[dama-lara]

[mistressedu]

The. Leaking.

Yes.

[mediumbadvoodoodaddy-deactivate]

[vanessalanyl]

Gwen Stefani

[1ovinghermyway]

Why did this look like a sissy assignment to me?

[mistressedu]

Because it IS a sissy assignment!

[femalemask]

Elegant Mask Lady

[1ovinghermyway]

I like this one!

[mistressedu]

This is amazing.

[kfan]

My current favorite thing on the planet is Kate Beckinsale’s comments on her daughter’s Instagram 💜

[1ovinghermyway]

If you loved her before… This is definitely NOT going to help your obsession @mistressedu

[mistressedu]

I'm really good at picking people to obsess over.

[accidental-muse]

Doms and subs in their 30s, 40s & beyond, call to represent!

Recently I reblogged and commented on an Ask that @theruleset answered in which an Anon worried that she ‘missed her chance’ to explore the kink scene because she might have grown too old.

She’s 25.

The reblogs continued, and those in the community who aren’t right out of their teens (nor looking for a partner who is) weighed in with such great feedback! It felt awesome to go through the replies, and to follow their blogs, and to feel something akin to actual representation and visibility on a website and its kink subculture that is overwhelmingly tilted toward the (sometimes uncomfortably, depending on what’s depicted) very young.  Especially when it comes to the women in it.

Got nothing but love for those younger (but legal, of course) in kink, too, and you all deserve an amazing journey as much as any of us, but this particular post is for 30 and up, soooooo:

Please like and reblog this if you’re a Dominant, submissive, or kinkster in your 30s, 40s or older so we can find and support each other, and most of all, increase our visibility on tumblr. :)

(And if you just want to support this post, please feel free to like and reblog, too!)

[lovemysub-deactivated20250527]

Level 36 and still awesome here :)

-LMS

[itsallprimal]

I agree with @lovemysub I have leveled up for now 40+ games.. (What you thought I would give you all the full picture?) 😎 ~Primal

[deliciousanddecadence]

Seriously….the community has evolved since the Internet. As long as no one mentions 50 shades of laughter… There will always be a dark side of the rainbow. No matter what the age. As adults age isn’t the issue. It is that you are open to change. The Internet has opened access to ppl around the globe. The only boundaries I see are the limitations within oneself. Good luck on your journey… Be well in all you seek…

[1ovinghermyway]

I’m actually just coming in to my kink prime. Teens and twenties were a blur of selfishness. It took another decade plus to even get to know what my hangups were about!

[mistressedu]

Happily in my kinky late 30's.

[submissive-seeking]

My parents….

Yes, submissives have parents. We’re not hatched. I have this photograph of them framed on a wall. She was his princess. He was always looking at her like this, even on her death bed. They wouldn’t have even known what D/s was, but they lived it.

She openly and utterly adored him. She knew his every need and saw to it without needing to be asked. She relied on his calm. He was her rock.

He created a world of order and predictability. He never raised his voice or his hand. He always made the decisions after they talked through things. But he decided.

They had rituals and protocols, although they never called them that. And when Alzheimer’s came to slowly steal her mind, their decades of these were the only thing that soothed and calmed her. Even when she didn’t know his name, she responded to “Who’s my best girl?” with “I’m always my best for you.”

And when it was time for her to go, he looked down at her, placed his hands over her eyes, closing them “Shhhh… it’s time for you to rest. Go on now. Go and get things ready for me. I’ll be along shortly.”

Hand to God, her last words were “Yes Sir….”

She died quietly about 36 hours later.

My parents had no idea what D/s is. But they lived the principles of the Power Exchange. And I am certain everything was ready for him when he joined her.

Holidays always get me thinking about them….

[1ovinghermyway]

I wasn’t really ready for this tonight.

I’ve only ever adored my top. Our relationship began with my pursuit of her being amended to a careful progression of intimacy beginning with holding her little finger. Now we have worked up to a powerful exchange, that will be with us until the end.

But oh how I fear only the separation of that end.

[mistressedu]

When power exchange is more than a way to get off it becomes a powerful force.

[mistressedu]

~haha He still thinks I'm coming to let him up off the bed and out of his button cage. Mmhmmm No, of course, I never intended to. He can listen to us from the other room. It's more than he deserves. ~ @1ovinghermyway

[sexysassycolor]

[mistressedu]

Makes my strap-on extra hard.