Female Led Relationships

Mistress Renee Lane, author of Finding Love Through Femle Domination

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Swear it below. Pledge your devotion to the cause. Offer yourself. Give your effort, money, and loyalty. It's time you did this.

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Most of you need the cage. You need it because you need time to reflect. You keep doing the same kind of thing and expecting different results. The good Goddess knows that I have tried to help you. Stubbornly, you can't seem to hear my message or change. You need the cage. You need it desperately. When I cage you I will feel the same thing I always felt when I caged Butler. Suddenly, I felt a sense of relief and calmness. I knew exactly where he was. I knew that although he was not in much pain, I was still pressing on his manhood. I was grinding slowly but I was grinding exceedingly fine. I would sit in the dining room and eat a meal and everything would taste a little bit better. Friends would come over and I would enjoy their visit more than usual. I would go on a walk and have a wonderful sense of freedom and movement. When it was time, I knew he would truly listen to me with new ears. He would be able to hear me. I give you a chance to be part of a revolution but you can't hear me yet.

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I suppose that I have found a dozen or so men a dominatrix to serve over the past few years. First they served me on line. I had to learn if they were men of their word and if they had a service component in their kinky desires before I could recommend them to another domme. . The first thing I made these men do was to read my book. It sometimes has a startling effect on men. It can dynamite them out of a mindset that is unproductive..................... Men ask all the time, "May I serve you?" How can I respond when I KNOW that they don't have any idea what that means. If, however, they have read my book, then I think they might have an inkling of what true service means. Don't approach me in ignorance. .................My book costs less than a fancy coffee at Starbucks if you read it on the free kindle app. You say you are serious? Prove it. Read my book. Go to- http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/

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I try to keep it real on these posts. This is not fantasy porn. I've been living with two mostly lesbian women who don't much like men except as doormats. They have learned to respect Butler's determined efforts to serve but they both could live without men entirely. I admit that's it's starting to change me. I miss Butler but I'm afraid I might return to him more convinced than ever that our relationship is between a mistress and her slave than it is between two loving people. The women I'm with both think of men as dirt beneath their feet. It's hard not to pick up that attitude. He might be in trouble in the coming months. Women sometimes become gangsters when they get together. This is something you should remember.

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There is trouble brewing in my coven. One of our members is getting a divorce. This is the first divorce in our group of 7 women. (And a few on the margins.) I don't know if anyone has studied this but i'm willing to bet that the divorce rate is lower in FLRs than in vanilla relationships. I don't have any data, just observation. Our group has been together for years and no one has ever had to resort to separation. One of us had a divorce but kept her husband as a slave. ( I don't know what kind of evil bitch would do that but she seems truly bad! If you are a friend, don't mention her in comments! ) When one of us is down we try to rally to our sister. Legally, I'm certain she'll be fine. We have all taken certain steps to insure a good outcome. I will encourage her to be fair. We are not gold diggers. Luckily there are no children. All women need a support group. If you are a woman and you are reading this I have a few questions. Do you have a best friend you've known a long time? Do you trust her with your life? Is she smarter than you? If the answers are yes then she is who you should tell what you are trying to accomplish with your husband. Women do much better together. Your friend can be a powerful ally. She'll care about you and all that this life can bring.

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There are myriad manifestations of the Goddess. If I could only remove the scales from your eyes you would see the dozens of women all around you that need your service.

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There are probably deep evolutionary reasons for this but women tend to never go backwards. I remember in high school dating the first boy who could drive. After that convenience, I only dated boys who drove. Then only boys who had their own car. Later I dated a boy who had his own apartment. That was it for me. I never dated boys who still lived at home again. And, so it went. I was not alone. Other women have told me similar stories. Now, here you are making yourself useful. After you started keeping your home spotless, she isn't going back. Keep pushing forward until you are indispensable. Push forward until it is natural for her to dump things on you and expect you to obey. This is a one way street. You'll learn this if you can get a woman to go far enough down it with you. You will keep becoming more and more the slave you know you are deep in your soul.

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I listen to critics but if they only knew the life I've lived they would know their snarky comments on the internet barely reach the level of slightly amusing. I can't talk about my past or it would reveal too much but I've seen a lot of death and suffering. Speaking of dark things, being a notorious dominatrix has put me in touch with a lot of the fringe of society. For example, I know a lot of satanists. It would interests me but I don't believe in a personal God, consequently, it would be illogical for me to believe in a personal Satan. However, some of his followers are interesting, especially the women. Some of them are extremists. For example one of them has been posting on Christian Right webpages that true Christians should continue to have service because Christ would protect them. It's clear to me that she wants them to die! That's what I call hard a core satanist! .................... I also know a lot of women who might be accurately described as lesbian terrorists. The are disappointed in this virus. One told me last night that she wanted a virus that would leave men impotent and reduce their testosterone. She wants their testicles to still produce a tiny amount of semen but wants male masturbation to be impossible because of lower hormones. A virus that withers the penis but leaves the testicle intact? I guess anything is possible. If she had her way, she would harvest the sperm surgically and impregnate women with only female children. She admitted that some tiny population of men would have to be born to continue the species until better solutions can be created. Actually as unworkable and fanatic as it is, I think the world would be a better place. Imagine being one of those few men and under the control of women who think like this. ................... Occasionally, in the past, I have invited the female satanists and the lesbian terrorists to small parties in my home. I'd supply a little wine and a bit of the green fairy and I would let the ideas flow. Be careful out there. These women sometimes look perfectly normal. You know, like me.

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My next step was to prepare Butler. I gave him several reasons to skip his release yesterday. I know what it does to him. He'll be ready.............. Most of you don't know anything about our relationship because you have never bothered to read my book. Scared? Maybe you should be. I've been told it can change a man. It can possibly derail him for being a mere kinkster to seeking true submission. Find it at this website for about the cost of a fancy coffee. Let me know what you think of it. http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/

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When we didn't make progress it wasn't always his fault. I had to train myself to look at him differently. We invented all kind of rules to remind me of his status. I taught him to stand in a neutral stance with his legs slightly spread and his eyes downcast whenever I was speaking to another woman. Seeing him take this position reminded me that I could ignore him in conversation. It's why I make him wear a "uniform." It reminds both of us to behave appropriately for our different places. ............. i have a couple of men who want me to take charge of their lives on line for the next four weeks. I've done this before but I was way way way too easy. I'm learning.

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A very special occasion indeed, but only for the most deserving.

You've been asking yourself who among the women you see everyday might have a dominant bent? Do you remember them ever wearing black leather? Were they pushy and demanding? Foolish boy. Dominant women look exactly like everyone else. We don't tend to have a different fashion sense. I operate daily in as loving and as polite a manner as I was instructed by a saintly grandmother. You'd have more luck guessing my blood type as guessing my sexuality. You don't need to guess a woman's secrets and much as be faithful and honest to your own self. Pursue the women you respect and admire.

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I came to BDSM when I learned as a young teen in a scuffle with a spoiled cousin that hurting a boy turned me on. I punched and kicked him a few times for bad behavior and it aroused me. I didn't think I was a monster because I didn't feel out of control. After that experience, I continued to fantasize about hurting a man to achieve orgasm................. As I matured I was introduced to spanking then cropping men. I loved it. I was oriented to cause physical pain. However, when I met Butler, he introduced me into the more psychological aspects of domination. I had to jump a mental hurdle before I could emotionally hurt him. He created a safe space for me to explore my internal world of sadism................ I had to look for of it but eventually I found a deep well of bitchy evilness just waiting to bubble up. When I found that he responded to my experiments with increased passion for me it became much easier. Now, I find it cathartic to release all manner of terror on him................... However, it started because he created the safe space in a relationship of deep connection. Men want a pour and stir relationship. You want your domme to jump fully formed, wrapped in leather, from the forehead of Zeus. It takes work and time............. You have a lot to learn............... Start here: http://artvamp.com/femdomfilm/

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I intend to found a religion devoted to the Dark Goddess. .......... Discipline for slaves will be under the mantle of religious practice. Ecstasy and agony are different sides of the same coin. With religion as a shield, we can push the envelope of physical endurance. .......... Here is how it will work..... After several visits and serious consultation, a man who desires to serve will be required to liquidate his wealth no matter how big or small and put it into a an irrevocable trust. He can at this time make provision for any inheritance he wishes to pass on. The remaining funds will go into his trust. Imagine what it would feel like to get rid of everything but a few family photos. I'll allow a man a small box to keep a few memories. You'd put your box in storage and walk into the Queendom with nothing but one set of clothes and your tooth brush. Think how freeing it would be! It would be like entering a monastery as an initiate. ............ Let's say that after selling everything he owns, a man is worth 300 thousand dollars.. From that, he would receive about about 4% a year in income for as long as he lived plus Social Security. He's not rich but he has paid for himself. At his death, the principle would be turned over to the North American Queendom. He would also receive a great tax break for giving his wealth to charity. ...... When he moves into the Queendom, he will turn over his monthly income to our female money manager. This manager would fulfill his family obligations and allow him a short holiday once a year to visit family. Let's say he changes his mind. He can leave the Queendom and his monthly stipend would instantly return to him. We could not stop that. However, at his death, the Queendom would receive the principle. He could not stop that. ............ However, I believe most men would stay. Freed from all of the responsibilities of life, he could serve with his whole heart and mind. Picture yourself there. I have openings for stable boy, gardener, maid, cook, seamstress, and chauffeur. Where do you fit in? .................. Men will be able to visit for short stays for a price. Owners may drop off men for refresher courses in submission. .......... I'm planning on using whatever proceeds from my movie I receive to building the Mother House. Shown here is a decaying mansion we could get for a song. Picture yourself working to restore it to its former glory. See yourself free to serve.