i’d like to start by saying it’s not duckies place to post screenshots where i confide in him that i’m anorexic when i’ve never mentioned it on here. it’s a very severe and constant part of my life that ruins my physical and mental and social health. not theirs to share. they’ve also taken things out of context and used hyperbole.
cool cool tw eating disorders mentions of suicide threats general discourse
so 2 address this:
1. so i do have a very blunt, out there and rude personality. i’ve made that really clear, i’ve put it in my byf, i’m very upfront about it. i also very much stand up for what i believe in. if i believe something is morally wrong, i will comment on it. duckie and i were mutuals, so i wanted to ask them privately what it was about and express how i felt. he met it with caps and didn’t seem like he was taking me seriously, so i said ‘ok’. then i genuinely tried to word it politely. then they said ‘i have an ed’ which doesn’t make it an okay thing to post with triggers like that. i say a lot of shit but i trigger heavy topics. it was such an out of the blue post that could be so damaging and triggering to people. i was literally just asking about it. to block me and then post this private shit is weird and i still stand by what i was saying.
2. duckie said i send graphic death threats. i do say ‘i’ll kill u’ just in conversation all the time but i feel like that’s really common talk now? a lot of people that shit like that all the time and that’s meant as banner and not a serious like threat? if i was missing the tone on how people were saying it in casual conversation my bad for that. but i don’t send actual enraged oh i’m gonna fucking murder you stuff to people that’s such a weird accusation LOL
3. that reblog. here’s me after addressing this and also heres me asking if it came off wrong
the second screenshot was after someone reblogged and said what’s wrong with you and i dmed them saying don’t talk about the way i joke with my mutuals
i know i have a rude and brash personality. and that i gatekeep. and that i say kys and stuff. i’ve put it all in my navigation and before you follow. i’ve also said if you have an issue with me lmk. if you do i won’t beg someone to stick around and i’ve told and checked in with my mutuals multiple times saying that if my blog was too much or if they didn’t like me anymore they could definitely block me or unmutual. no one is obligated to like my account and not everyone liked the way that i come across and speak and i’m perfectly aware of that. some people have different ways of interaction and it’s not necessary for me to share why i show affection the way i do or whatever. i think this post was daftly unnecessary and it was so out of context and i’m still real grossed out at him for sharing that i’m anorexic when i’ve never mentioned that.
also, i’m very upfront when i have an issue with someone or something someone says, so if i have one i’ll be honest about it same way i dmed duckie. so idk who i’m indirecting. i also very literally cant pick up some social cues, so if i ask someone if we’re okay or if they’re okay with something and they tell me i will not know. it’s not my responsibility to know when someone is being passive aggressive or anxious, and i would never actually be cruel to someone for not liking me. you’re entitled to that, i don’t give a fuck if you do or don’t. it is not my fault if someone finds me intimidating especially when i try my best to make it clear that if someone has an issue it’s fine if they leave.
the issue that's being had here is openly posting about an ed which can literally trigger other people, im not sure whats misunderstood in what's wrong with that.
when blair came (frankly politely for who they are), they were received with airheaded responses when it was very clear what was wrong with the post.
not only has he tried to expose blair for simply expressing their discomfort with a post that he made, but in the process made light of blair's own person struggle without their consent.
this was a matter discussed privately and to bring it onto the dash in a way to make blair look bad is inappropriate and childish. do better.
as found in blair's BYF: "... if you have an issue with me tell me. if i have an issue with you, i will tell you. it doesn’t have to be the end of the world, unless it does. depends on the circumstance but there’s no need to talk shit or pretend to like me over tumblr dot com. just be upfront and stand up for yourself "
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i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
i have ultimately made the decision to move blogs. it was a slight impulsive decision but for rather personal reasons i decided to move blogs. i will not be publicizing my url so if you wish to follow my new tumblr please shoot me an ask / message. this will be reblogged a few times ^_^ thank you so much for the memories i created on this blog in the short time ive spent on it <3
AGAIN MESSAGE ME OR SHOOT ME AN ASK FOR MY NEW BLOG
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