I went to college in what became an election year (1984). I decided to do something with my interest in politics, and joined my campus Students for Gary Hart, where I met the man who became my husband.Â
That summer, a play by Gary Trudeau about Ronald Regain came to San Francisco, and we splurged to go out and see it.
It was full of biting satire, that was sorely needed at the time. Towards the end of the show, BINGO cards were passed out, and numbers were called to a tune that went, “We all want something for nothing, everyone is in it for free”. The punchline? We all got BINGO at the same time.Â
As I was leaving, I stopped at the ladies room, and overheard groups of out of town types. Two women were talking about how they “almost won,” but were too slow to yell BINGO. They didn’t get it.
Was it a waste? I got it, and probably some others, so it was a worthwhile holding up the mirror moment. This discussion is pertinent to the reaction to a recent sketch by Tina Fey which had some similar mirror holding moment (see here for more). On the one hand, a good joke should not need explication, and having a male writer at Playboy explain the feminism only makes that more so, but I think there is a good point to make for the writer’s point.
The sketch has many awkward moments. For the first few minutes, I didn’t think it had a very good point, but then with mouthfuls of cake, she makes some crucial points, this is not “our” country it was stolen from Native Americans, the growth of armed militias, calls out Paul Ryan. The final dig at UVA founder Thomas Jefferson reminds us once again of what the Confederacy (and the slave system) were really all about.
I notice that some of my friends “embraced” the sheet cake message and bought sheet cakes to devour, and avoided protests, but that may not have been the key message of the skit (see the Playboy article). Certainly, diabetes and my willingness to participate in protest won’t led to me sitting home and binge eating. The large turnout of counter protesters in Boston (and smaller turnout of NAZIs, et.al.) shows the power of participation. I hope that friends who are sheet caking will take the lesson to be to pay attention, participate, and not just wallow and shut down because that, that’s white privilege.