[lawlliets]

in other news…. i feel bad for red velvet lmao like they performed their new title song at smtown and people soon forgot about it because exo literally dropped everything and broke twitter basically…. like it was in the worldwide trending topics and everything and it wasn’t even a MV or anything….. i feel bad for rv like. SM organized this so messy that they couldn’t wait for RV to have a good summer comeback without releasing EXO on top of them…… and tomorrow sm will release whatever the hell they’re thinking of doing 12 hours after rv’s mv… girlies deserve better..

[kjd-l-deactivated20230214]

Yeah I have no idea why they didn’t just release the mv yday before the performances and while I’m not surprised they launched Exo’s teaser at smtown but should have released rv before

Sucks :(

[blackgirloutrage-deactivated201]

Everyone appreciates a loud black woman when we are fighting for their causes

But when it’s time to fight for ourselves, all of a sudden that loud, aggressive outrage that everyone exploited for their own selfish causes, becomes too overbearing and we go back to being the bitter black “wimminz” that always have an attitude and don’t know when to shut up.

[hotwinger-deactivated20160517]

Everybody went through that stage when they first joined Tumblr where they were embarrassingly comfortable with adding shitty comments to everything they reblogged.

[getrichwithacompactdisk-deactiv]

OMG TOTALLY HAHA!!! XD

[hotwinger-deactivated20160517]

[pettycentral]

[neotechs]

#1YearWithNCT127 // Title Tracks ♡ happy first anniversary! you’ve achieved so much in just one year and we are all very proud of you~ let’s live this dream for many more years~ NCTzens will always be by your side ♡

[nankingdecade]

What I mean when I say "toxic monogamy culture"

the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love

the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities

the idea that you should meet your partner’s every need, and if you don’t, either you’re inadequate or they’re too needy

the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else

the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity

the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship

the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on

the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life

the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself

[radiantsuns-deactivated20170429]

literally all of this has to do with misogyny, not with some phantom conceptualization of a “toxic monogamy” culture you pathetic idiotic man. the notion that polyamorous relationships are somehow free of toxic/abusive behavior simply because they’re polyamorous is idiotic at best and dangerous at worst. fuck you. 

[xedoc]

i agree this is all rooted in misogyny but i think its rly hard to counteract/confront ((esp the jealousy) unless yr involved in a poly situation

[sexysnakegirl-deactivated202105]

Not really tbh. Like you said yourself, the root it misogyny so wouldnt the way to solve this issue be to confront misogyny? Also jealousy is more or less a confidence issue, not really a monogamy one

[dovounq]

this is why you’re ex roommates

[apris1992]

Ben Baller had the nerve to disrespect black Kpop fans after Jackson dismissed their concerns about him wearing dreads by saying they have low IQ scores

Then made it worst (or is it worse? idk) by insulting all black people saying he contributed to hip hop. In what world?!!! By doing what? Making chains? Sit yo ass down. 

[taylahduhh]

By the way, I don’t care what Ben Baller says. Other than Kanye Kardashian no black people buy his jewelry. His shit make your neck turn green.

[jiminsbbybub]

Ben baller defending Jackson wang

Ben baller is an embarrassment. He’s really out here trying to claim that he was around during the origins of hip hop and that because he “studied” black culture he’s apart of it. My mans, who are you tho?? Studying and being are two different things. I can study a turtle all day long I will never be one. He will never be apart of black culture because, get this, he not black.

[flawlessbeautyqueens]

I have four projects coming up, all gay roles. People ask if I’m concerned about getting pigeonholed. No one asks, ‘Ellen, you’ve done seven straight roles in a row, shouldn’t you shake it up, do something queer?’ There’s still that double standard. I look at all the things I’ve done in movies, I’ve drugged a guy, tortured someone, become a roller-derby star overnight. But now I’m gay, I can’t play a straight person? OK, cool.

[s-tttop]

Untitled, 2014

[tbd-redesigningblogshortly]

G-Dragon released a new video! And the song and his voice are SO beautiful, I have no words. Heartbreaking lyrics though (from a fan’s translation in the comments). But it’s still absolutely beautiful! G-DRAGON- 무제 (Untitled, 2014) MV

[pitapateu]

[gfriend-intl]

cr

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[chipsprites]

Pokémon Mysteries - Is Gengar Clefable’s shadow? [x] ۞ ~