fxxk it

sw: 102 lbs cw: 97 lbs gw:89 lbs

[yousaveeveryonebutwhosavesyou]

[missinyouiskillingme]

„You'll get over it...“ It's the cliches that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don't get over it because 'it' is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to greive over is not made anodyne by death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no-one else can fit it. Why would I want them to?

— Jeanette Winterson, Written on the Body

[mochiluvpjm]

If this evee happen with my s/o i'll just shoot myself. Jk but not at all?)

[oldhabbits]

[missinyouiskillingme]

The only thing scarier than telling someone you love them is telling them that you still love them.

— Ella Dawson, Romantic Gesturing

[quotefeeling]

“I guess that’s just part of loving people: You have to give things up. Sometimes you even have to give them up.”

— Lauren Oliver

[quotemadness]

“But every time I think about not having you in my life I literally break into a million pieces.”

— Unknown

[kefinibardh]

if you both want it, it will work.

[quotemadness]

“Then he left, and with him he took the sun, the moon, the stars, and anything inside of me that might have been good.”

— Julie Murphy

[quotemadness]

“You know I don’t agree with what you did. But I understand why you did it.”

— Hanya Yanagihara

[i-will-recover-tomorrow]

[sa-dnesss]

“I feel like I am so far behind in life that I will never catch up. Everybody is doing so many things with their lives and I am just here.. achieving nothing. I wonder if that’s all I will ever be, nothing.”

—

[sa-dnesss]

“This is the loneliest I have ever felt”

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[quotefeeling]

“I think people would be happier if they admitted things more often. In a sense we are all prisoners of some memory, or fear, or disappointment—we are all defined by something we can’t change.”

— Simon Van Booy

[aothexie-van-eltia]

Thinspo Tips (Long Post)

Before You Read:

Everything I post Now has to have a Disclaimer like this to inform that I do not condone any of this tips I only post them to help everyone that asks me to and I advise not doing some of this unhealthy ones (Check out my safe ones instead)! Also, this doesn’t mean I use all the tips I do them all, but I do have experience and research on all of them.

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Enjoy the Post!

1. Workout smarter

Did you know you can actually lose more weight & keep your metabolism fired up longer by doing 3-to-4 shorter 10-minute workouts instead of 1 big 30-to-40-minute cardio workout?

A research study at the university of Pittsburgh found that women who split up their 40 minute cardio workouts into 4 separate 10 minute cardio workout sessions during the day LOST 20 pounds while… the group of women who did one big 40 minute cardio workout only lost 14 pounds and…

The reason why more shorter workouts are better is because you never give your fat burning metabolism a chance to slow down.

Drink Water

Water Lowers the Amount of Fat Stored in your body Your kidneys get very lazy on the job when you don’t drink enough water and as a result of you not drinking water, your kidneys give most of its unfinished work to your liver.

One of your liver’s functions is to help your body burn stored fat for energy and it can’t perform that job fully if it has to do the kidney’s job also.

By not drinking water you put your liver on double duty, decreasing its fat burning potential and causing you to store more fat. If you drink enough water your kidneys will stop being lazy, do its job of excreting waste products from your body, and…Keep reading

Fast weight loss = YOU eating more RAW fruits & veggies

Your body has to burn a lot of calories to break down the RAW fruits & veggies you eat so basically…

You’re losing weight fast every time you eat fruits & veggies and people whose diets are dominant in fruits & veggies tend to lose weight faster and maintain their weights much longer plus…

Fruits & Veggies give you longer lasting energy while fighting off hunger cravings which means you’ll never get fat and researchers at Tufts university found that the more vegetables people eat = the thinner they are.

Eat more fiber

Adding more fiber to your diet is the best way to quickly & easily lose lots of excess weight without diet & exercise - see how to lose 20 lbs. in 30 days for more info but… click here.

Eating fiber prevents you from overeating because it makes you feel full and… You’ll have an even greater feeling of fullness and higher energy levels throughout the day if you eat meals that are mostly made up of fiber, protein, and water and…

Fiber also slows down the digestion of foods you eat keeping your blood sugar/energy levels in check preventing you from getting hungry.

Eat more protein You’ll eat up to 500 calories less per day when at least 30 % of the calories you eat is from protein and… You increase your body’s fat burning metabolism every time you eat fiber & protein because your body has to burn a lot of calories just to digest the protein & fiber you eat plus… Protein speeds up your weight loss by helping you build and/or maintain lean muscle that also raises your fat-burning metabolism and… The main reason why people lose weight fast on high protein diets is because Protein suppresses appetite by keeping you fuller longer.

Limit your salt Consuming more than the recommend 2500mg (1 tablespoon) of sodium each day will cause you to retain water and gain false fat (bloating) click here.

Get more active Adding a little physical activity to your daily routine will help you start losing weight quicker than you can imagine. Don’t Worry, getting more active doesn’t mean you have to sign up at a gym and take tae-bo or start participating in marathons regularly!

Wake up & Workout! As soon as you wake up in the morning workout for at least 30min to an hour. Studies show that working out in the morning has been shown to burn up to 3 times as more fat as opposed to working out at any other time during the day.

Do cardio last to blast fat fast Before you hop on the bike or treadmill for an hour it’s best that you spend 45 minutes doing a muscle building or body sculpting workout to use up most of your body’s stored carbs or glycogen for energy so when you do get ready to do your cardio workout… Your body will began to burn more fat for energy during your cardio workout rather than a combination of fat and carbs because you already used up most of your body’s stored carbs for energy during your 45 minute muscle building or body sculpting workout and… This tip is almost like fast weight loss tip #11 where you workout with most of your stored carbs GONE so you can burn more fat but get this… You can blast away twice as much fat if you do a higher intensity workout after your body sculpting workout like intervals or Tae-bo and a perfect example of a ready-made weight training workout followed by intense intervals is fast weight loss workout #1

Walk 10,000 steps a day & lose an extra 10 pounds a year If you don’t have time to go on an exercise program - Buy a pedometer , wear it, and try to get in 10,000 steps a day to burn an extra 100 calories or more everyday which adds up to you losing over 10 pounds a year with minimal effort on your part.

Use music to lose weight fast Use your favorite music to keep you motivated and energized longer during your weight loss workouts to reach your weight loss goals faster. A recent study shows that overweight people who did their weight loss workouts to music lost an average of 16 pounds - twice as much as the people who didn’t workout with music. Go here to see other ways to get motivated to lose weight fast.

Have water or vegetable juice before meals Drinking a glass of water or vegetable juice before your meals will suppress your appetite so you will not eat that much so you can lose weight fast. See more things you can drink to lose weight fast.

Remember to take your multivitamins every day! Research shows that taking your vitamins daily helps you maintain your weight and it also helps reduce your appetite while you’re on a weight loss diet plan and get this… When researchers asked over 500 men & women if they took multivitamins daily - the men & women that did take multivitamins daily had lower bodyweights & less body fat and in another research study… 45 overweight people who didn’t use multivitamins were put on a weight loss diet and given multivitamins and at the end of the 15-week study - everybody in the study lost weight mainly because they were on a weight loss diet but the multivitamins probably helped them stay on the diet longer by reducing their appetites and… If you don’t get the right amount of nutrients - your body will MAKE YOU HUNGRY by increasing your appetite so you’ll eat more (and probably gain weight) to get the nutrients you need and taking multivitamins prevents this so…

   * Ladies may want to use One-A-Day Women’s Multivitamin and…    * Men may want to use One-A-Day Men’s Multivitamin

CHEW your food longer and lose weight faster You should chew everything you eat at least 8-12 times. Eat slowly. Your body doesn’t realize that you’ve had enough to eat until several minutes after you’ve had it.

How to eat a lot more & Lose more weight than people who diet If you exercise for 45+ minutes at a moderate-to-high intensity at least 5 times a week… You’ll be able to eat up to 500 more calories a day than the actually calories you need to lose weight simply because… You burn the most calories when exercising for long periods of time at higher intensities meaning you can get away with eating an extra snack everyday and still lose 1-to-2 pounds a week and in a University of Pittsburgh study… Women who ate 2,000 calories a day and exercised for 60 minutes at moderate-to-high intensities lost the most weight out of 4 different test groups.

Use baby utensils to prevent overeating Use smaller plates instead of big ones to limit your meal or portion sizes and also use baby forks or spoons so that’ll force you to take smaller bites which will make your meal last longer plus you FEEL full quicker on less calories.

High Carb or High Protein for fast weight loss? IF you workout at least 3-to-4 times a week… You want to eat more complex carbs by making sure only 30-to-40% of your calories come from lean proteins & healthy fats so you can have the extra energy to workout longer, burn more calories and lose more weight but on the other hand… If you want to lose weight without exercising - then a higher protein diet (where only 30-to-40% of your calories are from carbs) will help you lose weight fast (see fast weight loss tip #7 to see why) but the smartest way to lose weight fast is to probably… Eat High carbs on your workout days and High protein on your Non-workout days.

Eat and run walk Take a 5-10 minute walk after each meal. It doesn’t have to be a walk, but any activity will do.

Please Avoid sodas - Even Diet sodas Since regular soda is basically a weight gainer drink and since water is a 0 calorie weight loss drink - You would lose 1 pound every week if you replaced 2 bottles of soda with 2 bottles of water so go here to see how to stop drinking soda and… Some studies now link high consumption of diet soda with weight gain because even though diet sodas have 0 calories… The artificial sweeteners increase your cravings for sugars and other foods that make you gain weight.

And Don’t Drink Juice ! It’s better to eat raw fruit instead of fruit juice because fruits contain more fiber and the juice will always contain more sugar than the actual fruit and just like soda… You can also lose up to an extra pound a week by replacing juice with water since most juice drinks are mainly just water & sugar.

Don’t sit down for more than 4 hours According to researchers at Missouri University - sitting down or being virtually inactive for longer than 4 hours slows down your metabolism making it easier for you to store fat so to prevent this from happening try standing up for at least 10 minutes within every 4 hours and you don’t have to worry about doing this while sleeping

Say “So that” Everyday Ask yourself Why you want to lose weight and after you come up with a reason why… Just keep on saying SO THAT. For example - Why Do you want to lose weight…

   * I want to lose weight to look better SO THAT…    * I can feel more confident about myself SO THAT…    * I can be the best looking person at my high school reunion SO THAT…    * I can see the surprised looks on the faces of my classmates SO THAT…    * I may be able to go on a date with the person I had a crush on in high school

Can you see what’s happening here? The more times you say SO THAT the more and more motivated you’ll become to lose weight. I don’t know about you but… If you can come up with at least three SO THAT’S  - nothing will stop you from losing weight.

Don’t ask yourself “What’s the best workout I can do” and…    * Ask yourself “What’s the best workout I can do that will kick my ass in only 20-to-40 minutes” (hint: High intensity intervals) and…    * Ask yourself “What workout can I do where I almost feel like quitting but I push myself to finish because I’m 100% focused on looking good naked” and…    * Once you answer that… Do that workout 1-to-2 times a day 3-to-4 days a week and I guarantee you’ll always lose at least 2 pounds of FAT each week even if you only have 10 pounds of stubborn fat to lose.

Add 15%

Walking at a 15% incline on your treadmill can burn 3 times as many calories as you would walking without an incline so imagine how much more fat you would burn if you run on a treadmill at a 15% incline.

. Keep Records

Researchers at the University of Arkansas found out during a 13 week study that people who kept detailed records of what they ate lost 3.5 pounds more than those who didn’t because it helped them accurately estimate their protion sizes so they could eat just enough to make them lose more weight.

   * Get your free food journal here and…    * See how keeping a food journal helps you lose weight faster.

Don’t let plastic make you fat Plastics contain synthetic chemicals (called BPA & phthalates) that act like estrogen in your body and estrogen is basically a fat-gaining hormone you’d want to limit when trying to lose weight so to prevent these estrogen-like chemicals from getting into your body…

   * Avoid drinking out of plastic containers & Styrofoam cups and…    * Avoid heating plastic containers in microwaves & ovens which can leach the estrogen like chemicals into your foods and…    * Avoid plastic wrapped meats and…    * Avoid canned foods which contain traces of BPA.

Hope these tips help keep you focused.

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[bonyelbowbitch-deactivated20191]

When Ana accounts say “stay safe!” they don’t mean “just eat”, we know better than anyone that that doesn’t work

They mean drink water, take your vitamins, don’t overwork yourself on a fast day, don’t push your body farther than it can go

They know you won’t magically get better, but they do know there are things you can do to make this horrible illness a little better

[1-want-2-3e-sk1nny]

THIS.

[getsmallforsummer]

HARD PILLS TO SWALLOW

“I need to lose weight so bad. My rolls are all over the place. Maybe I’ll skip dinner!” -my mom looking in the mirror, age 8

“These people are disgusting, I can’t even watch this show without wanting to throw up” -my mom watching weight loss shows, age 11

“That dress is perfect! Now we just have to make sure you don’t gain any weight before July because it’s already pretty tight” -my mom and aunt as I was trying on bridesmaid dresses, age 13

“Don’t worry, she was a bigger girl. Not really my type, know what I mean?” -my ex talking about his ex girlfriend, age 16

“Has she gained weight? Man, she’s really letting herself go. I mean, she used to be so pretty” -my friend talking about his ex, age 20

“Babe you gotta take it easy on the sugar! That’s how you get a big belly like (coworker), *laughs*” -my boyfriend on an ice cream date, age 21

Every time you made a fat-shaming comment, no matter who the target was, you taught me my ED mindset. You taught me that the world will love me less if I’m fat. You taught me that pretty equals skinny. You praised me when I was low weights and cautioned me when I was gaining. So don’t turn it around on me asking me how this could have happened:

what did you expect?

[prettynskinnipls]

It turns out

You will lose weight if you eat at a caloric deficit. Period.

Basic laws of thermodynamics and the universe say in a closed system,

Energy in = energy out

Your body spends energy by existing -- breathing, walking, talking, getting up to go to the bathroom, chewing on your food, pumping blood to your organs. Every single action requires energy (calories)!

There's something called TDEE, or total daily energy expenditure. It's a calculation of how much energy it requires for you to function and stay at the same weight. Obviously, it matters what heigh and weight you are -- the taller and heavier you are, the more calories you require to simply exist. You can find TDEE calculators all over the internet simply by googling.

So for example:

5'4" female @140lb: 1668 calories

5'0" female @110lb: 1429 calories

What does this mean?

In order for you to lose weight, you just need to eat less than your TDEE.

This is basic physics. The laws of the universe do not change. If you eat less than TDEE, you will lose weight, no buts or ifs. If you "binge" eat 1600 calories, but your TDEE is 1660, you will not gain weight (permanently). It's just not possible (see my notes on water weight below if you have doubts).

1lb of fat is approximately 3500 calories of deficit. In other words, that's a 500 cal deficit per day, for one week, to lose one pound.

So if your TDEE is 1600, if you eat 1100 calories everyday, you lose one pound in a week.

"But I ate at 1000cal/day and I gained .5lb this morning!!!!"

Weight is so dependent on your sodium intake, hormonal levels, what food you've eaten that day that one single scale reading means NOTHING.

Here's a picture of the scale readings over the past two months for me.

See how it fluctuates like crazy? What's important is the general trend-- although one day I may "gain" 2lbs, one week later I'll be 3lbs below that "heavy" weight. I actually recommend stepping on the scale every day, at the same time. It helps move away from "omg I gained 3lbs!!!!" and let's you accurately identify if you are actually losing weight.

So for all you people who are stressed out about eating too much, just do some basic math. Chances are, you can eat a reasonable amount and LOSE WEIGHT. For me, if I try to eat 500cal a day, I do it for one day, then binge eat the next day and ruin my progress. One pound per week may seem slow, but consider how long you e hated your weight, compared to how quickly it'll drop off.

I've hated my weight for almost 8 years now, and in just two months I've dropped 1/3 of the weight I wanted to, while eating at 1200calories a day. In that context, 6 more months of this? Easy!

1200 calories: That's a lot of food! You can eat properly with that! For example one day:

Breakfast

Coffee with condensed milk (60)

Oatmeal (150)

2boiled eggs (140)

Lunch

1cup chicken teriyaki (150)

Broccoli (50)

4 lychees (100)

Dinner

One whole avocado (220)

2 slices of bread (180)

1/2 carton halo top (140)

In conclusion: you can eat a reasonable amount of food and still lose weight (faster than restricting, bc there's wayyy less binges). Your caloric intake will depend on your height and weight-- a 5'0 woman and a 5'6" woman should not be eating the same amount.

Good luck losing weight lovelies ❄️

[scalesandstrawberries-deactivat]

i don’t think the universe understands how helpful this was