The First Step is Starting Over

Together we can do hard things. Clementine, 1995. Inconveniently Jewish.

[punksalmon]

whenever you take too much time to write something know it is because stephen king has been stealing your life force

[kingfucko]

#no it can't be that i'm just not doing enough cocaine

whenever you take too much time to write something know it is because stephen king has been stealing your cocaine

[shovelwareyaoi]

the way the internet has eroded the barrier between creator and fanbase sucks beyond words and while most discussion of this puts the focus on the parasociality aspect i do think its equally if not more important to point out that most if not all creators would benefit greatly from logging the fuck off

[shovelwareyaoi]

if people read your work in a way you don't want them to or god forbid critique aspects of it that is not something you can stop nor should you try to sometimes people will discuss your work in a way that isn't 100% validating at all times and if you do not want that to happen you don't have to put it out into the world at all

[shovelwareyaoi]

like i don't know how but it feels like online at large has forgotten than criticism is a normal part of releasing a piece of media into the world it is perfectly normal for people to criticize or dislike something and yet every time something new and popular gets criticism you get thousands of bad thinkpieces that all look like this

[marian-devotee]

I took my little brother (autistic, mostly non verbal) out and he was using his voice keyboard to tell me something, and this little boy (maybe 4 or 5?) heard him and asked me "Is he a robot??" I tried to explain to him that no, he isn't a robot, he just communicates differently, but my darling brother was in the background max volume "I am robot I am robot I am robot I am robot"

[marian-devotee]

My little brother insisted if I was going to post about him, he wanted a cut of the "profits". When I explained to him that Tumblr isn't monetized, and is pretty pointless, he and my older brother pointed out that he'd still be bringing me "fame and notoriety" if the post got "big". So we agreed, if the post hit 10k notes, which seemed extremely farfetched and silly at the time, I'd take my little brother out for sushi (his favorite food) and let him eat as much as he wants.

I guess God wanted the little robot to enjoy some sushi 🍣 🥲

[thetruerarkher]

[baladevii]

See how fast this year passed? You better stop playing with your life.

[80sdracula-deactivated20260101]

[disc80s]

hot girl summer but only in air conditioned spaces

[distinguishedenthusiastcatt]

In Pride month, I think it's important to remind you of this iconic dialogue. You don't have to talk about who you are if you don't want to❤️

[mockiatoh]

She was very concerned that I might take away her sweet potato

[camerahoax]

men got a taste of women's beauty standards and immediately started bashing their facial bones with hammers

[mariacallous]

Why a South Korean Starbucks Ad Mocked Murdered Protesters

Far-right meme politics shows how strong anti-democratic forces remain.

There is no date more solemn in South Korea’s political calendar than May 18. On that day in 1980, Chun Doo-hwan, who had just seized power, ordered the massacre of hundreds of unarmed protesters in the southwestern city of Gwangju. For most, it is remembered as one of the worst tragedies in modern South Korean history.

For Starbucks Korea, however, the occasion was a joke. On the 46th anniversary of what is now known as the Gwangju Uprising, Starbucks Korea released a new branded tumbler while celebrating “Tank Day” and said that the tumbler can just be “slapped on the table”—both of which are unsubtle references to far-right memes that mock the victims of the massacre.

The advertisement sparked immediate outrage and a “very significant drop in sales,” according to one employee of Shinsegae, the group that owns Starbucks Korea. South Korean President Lee Jae-myung sharply rebuked the campaign, calling it “completely out of line.” Although Starbucks Korea pulled the advertisement and issued an apology, the incident highlights the troubling degree to which anti-democratic sentiments have become normalized in South Korea’s right wing.

On its own, the advert might be read as just an unfortunate coincidence. But the South Korean far right has a track record of using specific distasteful memes like this. Among them, “Tank Day” is a celebratory reference to the Gwangju Uprising, cheering for the tanks that massacred the protesters. “Slap the table” is a reference to student activist Park Jong-chul, who was killed at a black site after having been waterboarded for hours in 1987. To explain Park’s death, the Chun dictatorship infamously claimed that Park had “just dropped dead when the police slapped the table.” The slapdash lie incensed the South Korean public, sparking a massive nationwide protest movement now known as the June Struggle, which ended the military dictatorship and helped South Korea transition to a liberal democracy.

Sneaking in anti-democratic memes has been a hobby of South Korea’s far right for more than a decade. The fountainhead of this trend is a website called “Ilbe,” a contraction of ilgan best jeojangso, which means “depository of the daily bests.” Established in 2010, Ilbe was the online watering hole of South Korea’s emerging young right wing, who entertained themselves by exchanging photoshopped images and GIFs, and voting to choose the “best” material of the day.

In a trend that presaged the alt-right and incel politics in democracies around the world, Ilbe users—typically, young men—trafficked in self-loathing nihilism and hate directed at women and democracy activists. To them, Chun, nicknamed “Chun Tank” on Ilbe, was a hero to be celebrated. Their greatest enemy was Roh Moo-hyun, a famous human rights lawyer and democracy activist who became president in 2003. By late 2012, Ilbe was one of the largest websites in South Korea and an emergent force in the country’s conservative politics, which increasingly came to see women, liberals, and democracy itself as the enemy.

Ilbe users made a sport out of creating high-quality images that subtly included far-right memes and pushing them onto mainstream outlets. A typical pattern is to take the logo of a prestigious university, insert the word “ILBE” into it, and bait television shows into using the doctored logo. Celebrations would break out on the website when such images were spotted on television, as the Ilbe users basked in the juvenile glee of making a respectable outlet unwittingly carry its message.

By the late 2010s, emboldened Ilbe users began taking their antics outside, which caused a backlash. A major turning point was the 2017 “gluttony strike,” during which Ilbe users gorged on fried chicken and pizzas in front of hunger-striking parents who lost their children in the Sewol ferry disaster, which killed 250 school children. Following public outrage to the most offensive political theater that South Korea had ever seen, the Ilbe website faded in popularity in the following years.

But the ethos of Ilbe did not disappear. As author Kim Hak-joon noted in The Age of Everyday Ilbe, the nihilism and misogyny of Ilbe were not limited to the social misfits who disappeared together with the website. Rather, they simply became a part of mainstream right-wing culture. Ilbe-style toxic misogyny catapulted the young conservative pundit Lee Jun-seok to leader of the People Power Party (PPP), South Korea’s main right-wing party, in 2021.

In an odd projection, Lee led an online witch hunt against advertisers that showed a finger-pinching gesture, convinced—without any basis in reality—that the gesture was a secret code among women who were mocking the small genitals of right-wing men. Fueled by gender-based grievances, young men in South Korea vote overwhelmingly in favor of conservatives while young women vote overwhelmingly in favor of liberals—a split that does not appear with any other age group.

Starbucks Korea is hardly the first major brand to traffic in far-right memes. In 2019, Musinsa, a fast fashion company, issued a public apology after posting on Instagram that its socks “drop dry if you slapped them on the desk.” But in this case, the public’s outrage was compounded by the fact that Starbucks Korea is operated by the Shinsegae Group, a retail-focused chaebol group led by Chung Yong-jin.

Chung, 57, is notorious for posting far-right memes on his Instagram. In 2021, Chung repeatedly posted a message that read “I’m sorry, and thank you,” accompanied with photos of seafood, apparently mocking the message that former President Moon Jae-in offered to the drowning victims of the Sewol disaster. Leading up to South Korea’s presidential election in 2022, he repeatedly posted the hashtag myeolgong (“destroy communists”), to which the presidential candidate (and eventual winner) Yoon Suk-yeol responded by publicly shopping for groceries at Shinsegae’s Emart.

This time, however, Chung was quick to offer a public apology, saying that Starbucks Korea “engaged in inappropriate marketing that caused deep pain and anger among many.” Chung pledged that the Shinsegae will “remember the history and sacrifice of our society,” and Strengthen internal controls and risk management.”

Regardless of Chung’s apology, South Korea’s right wing cheered on Starbucks. The PPP defended the company, as the party’s leader, Jang Dong-hyeok, argued on the campaign trail for the recent local elections that “the president is trying to control the brand of coffee people drink.” Far-right websites and message boards filled with calls for supporting Starbucks, which is ironic considering that, back in Ilbe’s heyday, the young far-right considered Starbucks to be the fancy and overpriced coffee that women demanded men buy them on dates.

Chung’s apology shows that there still is a line of decency and democratic norm that South Korean society will enforce. But the implications from this controversy are nevertheless troubling. It was only a year and a half ago that the country’s democracy had a near-death experience, as Yoon declared martial law and sent paratroopers to the legislature to arrest his political adversaries. Although the public overall fiercely resisted the attempt and eventually put Yoon in prison, a significant portion sincerely desires the end of liberal democracy and to turn the power of the state against liberals and women.

In the recent elections, the liberal Democratic Party made a strong showing, capturing the mayoral and gubernatorial offices of 12 out of 16 large cities and provinces as the PPP struggled to distance itself from Yoon’s insurrection. But in a stunning upset, the PPP managed to hold Seoul by a razor-thin margin, in part because more than 75 percent of the men in their 20s voted for the conservative incumbent, Oh Se-hoon. Most of South Korea believes that attempting to end democracy is disqualifying. But for South Korea’s right wing, it is a cause for support.

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[godlessondheimite]

an additional layer of this is, if a sixteen year old fan tweeted this same thing to richard siken, he would tell them to put their face through a computer screen

[peachfromcmbyn]

People on Tumblr love sharing information about themselves no matter how asinine it is. And I'm the same way. Everybody tell me what the last thing you drank was.

[mockiatoh]

Today in put up or shut up:

If I open two doors in the house, the hallways form a rough circle. I’ve downloaded Zombies, Run and am working on it. My cardio is garbage. I can only half blame it on my asthma—and ofc, improving my cardio will improve my asthma.

I’m uh definitely starting small. I did 3 min 40 seconds, took a break, and then did 2 min 40 seconds. Literally couldn’t make it to four minutes without needing to stop, and I don’t care. It’s six minutes (cumulative) more than I’ve done in I don’t know how long. And it’s six minutes more than nothing.

Speed and stamina will come with time. I’m focusing on form so I don’t hurt myself and just Doing Something.

[vexheart]

This

[novella-november]

[ID: blue text on a black background, stylized to look like glowing letters projected onto a wall. The text reads: "You will survive, but you will become someone else." In the corner, is the poet's name, Omar Hussain. End ID]

[botanyshitposts]

scientists in the 1990s, putting a Get More Purple gene attached to a harmless plant virus into an already purple petunia: please get more purple

the petunia, sensing an apparent honest to god Get More Purple Disease, using the previously undiscovered RNAi antiviral ability to shut down all other purple genes along with it just in case: you put VIRUS in petunia? you infect her with the More Purple?? oh! oh! her children shall bloom white! jail for mother, jail for mother for One Thousand Years!!!!

[flipocrite]

[clickityweasel]

[catboybiologist]

Btw the thing this discovered is like. A foundational lab technique now and has revolutionized genetics

[woman-respecter]

it’s so hard for me to listen to heartbroken/angry breakup songs by straight men bc no matter how good the song is i’ll be like i’m not sure if i fully believe you. let’s hear her side of the story.

[acronymking4tdp]

lol, not five minutes ago I was talking with my daughter about how if you are a straight white male, you have to be willing to put up with a certain amount of abuse if you want to follow fanfiction and / or be on Tumblr

[woman-respecter]

i hope you lose custody of her

[skinilivein]

[iamoutofideas]

[mousegirlheart]

um actually there's nothing wrong with letting cats be outdoor pets. your cat is depressed locked inside forever. it's animal abuse. let it outside. more cats should be let outside more often. especially overnight.