Mommy Says Fuck You

When Mommy says what she really thinks.

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I miss blogging.  That’s all.

Mommy says fuck you.

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Beach body bitches. Mommy says fuck you.

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I find the tula fad fucking nauseating. Actually, any mommy related name brand fad is pretty nauseating too.

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Kicked MIL out of my house today. Boy, that was long overdue.

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I have a stalker/frienemy. Help.

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How old were you when you lost your virginity???

It was the winter of 1932 on the wintery tundra of Saskatchewan. I had put my virginity down for only a second, but when I turned to retrieve it, it was gone. It’s been 82 years, and not a day goes by when I don’t wonder where my virginity ran off to, and how much differently my life would be if I had never lost it. Godspeed to you, virginity. Godspeed.

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i stopped caring when i was like 3

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Send me topics to rail on. I need to get some aggressions out.

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Mentally Ill parents in general can definitely be awesome parents but mentally Ill parents who think about/try to kill themselves ARE shitty parents and no one deserves to grow up with a parent who would rather commit suicide and traumatize their kids than get help and be a stable parent.

I’m going to go ahead and say you have not truly struggled with suicidal thoughts. First of all you need to know that they arent voluntary. Even while getting some sort of help the thoughts can and will come. They’re called automatic thoughts and are out of our control. What is in our control is how we react to them. Whether we decide to act on them and whether we dwell on them or not. Simply having the thoughts doesn’t make you a shitty parent. Furthermore even if she attempted suicide I will promise you it wouldn’t be because she didn’t WANT help. She probably just didn’t think she deserved it or didn’t think it would hurt anyone and figured she was doing everyone a favor. Including her kids. And messages like this telling her that her kids deserve better and she shouldn’t be around are only going to play into that mindset. If you think her kids deserve better and she shouldn’t be around them why wouldn’t she? It’s not easy to just get treatment and get better, you have to believe it’s possible and your worth the help. Stop being an ignorant dick.

-L

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Also I CHECKED INTO A HOSPITAL WITHOUT ATTEMPTING. I checked in because I knew I needed help, but yes anon ima shitty person for struggling.

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Dear Anon asshat,

Unless you’re a mentally ill parent or have been parented by someone who is mentally ill you don’t have a judgemental leg to stand on.

Being sick and being a mother is more common than you think especially given the fact that some of us had previous disorders before taking on parenthood.

Someone like mindi is a gift as a parent and let me splain to you why:

When you’re a mentally ill parent who understands that you have a problem you are more likely to notice behavior patterns in your children and get them help and not make them feel less for it.

I’d bet you cold hard cocaine cash that if one of Mindis children were diagnosed with depression, bi polar disorder, etc. she would step up to fight for her children. She could say, “you’re not fighting alone. I have fought this war and I’m still standing.”

This goes for all parents who are mentally ill and sought help and understanding. Even the ones who didn’t seek refuge from the storm and still battle it every day on their own.

I’m able to say this because Mindi is everything and more that my mother wasn’t. My mother is sick and when her children started developing the same problems she attacked them. She made them feel like it was their fault and that they were better off alone.

Don’t ever give mindi any less credit than she deserves because hating yourself more than you could ever fathom and being able to supress that long enough to love one human being (let alone 6, cause jeff) is a feat to surpass all.

If you don’t like her, fine. But don’t try and use her brain as an excuse because her heart is far larger and stronger than her brain could ever be.

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I'm just going to leave this here.

I'll happily comment at a later date, like when I'm not struggling with suicidal thoughts, PPD, PTSD, and BPD all while caring for my impeccably dressed and brilliant kids 10 hours a day.

Mommy says fuck you.

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A porn gifs blog is following me. Fabs.

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Shit just got real in Buffalo.

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I was under that.

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One of the biggest landmines in the parenting journey — and one of the least recognized — is how our own childhood stuff gets stirred up and activated in the process. - See more at: http://www.mothering.com/articles/mothers-mommy-problem/#sthash.2tF9PDWj.dpuf

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1. Paraguard is awesome. 2. I cannot wait to write a follow up piece to my viral (and totally wrong) rant/blog on WIC moms from 2 years ago. 3. We're not poor anymore. 4. Life is good. Fuck you.

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Boring.

Smart girls at parties make fun of the other people...

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We've had sex once since Baby Boo #2 arrived. I'm. Just. Too. Scared.

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Not thrilled with his pink swaddleme.