I maintain that Hey There Delilah by Plain White Tees is a 450% better song if itās about a guy whoās lost custody of his daughter
Literally every lyric has so much more Energies if itās sung to a child Iām gonna die on this hill.Ā āHey there, Delilah /Donāt you worry about the distance /Iām right there if you get lonely /Give this song another listenā andĀ āHey there, Delilah/ I know times are gettinā hard /But just believe me, girl / Someday Iāll pay the bills with this guitar / Weāll have it good /Weāll have the life we knew we would / My word is goodā like? Heās trying to get his daughter back? Idk if sheās with the other parent or in foster care or what but itās So Much I have a lot of feelings about this. The repeated promises,Ā āIād walk to you if I had no other wayā and āIām right there when you get lonelyā when, like, obviously, heās not, and heās just sort of desperately hoping that she still understands that he loves her, and that she doesnāt feel abandoned. And then, āDelilah, I can promise you /That by the time that we get through / The world will never ever be the same /And youāre to blameā thatās so fucking sweet? Thatās such a sweet thing to say to your daughter. Romance is over. Noncustodial parental love songs are where itās at.Ā
This is what ādeath of the authorā means. We know thatās not what the song was written about, but what if it was? What if we explored the lyrics as though the speaker was a heartbroken father missing his daughter? It changes EVERYTHING. And itās so good.
Anyway, OP you are wonderful and I love you.
Listening to it thinking of this made it so good. Thanks op



















