"The most 'misandry' i've seen-"
That just means you arent paying attention.
You mentioned rape. Have you seen the rape definitions in your area or around the world? If you forced a man into sex, it isnt legally rape. There are places like in India where the government tried to make rape gender neutral (where female rapists could be charged and male rapists could be legally recognized and receive the same services as female victims). Womens rights activists and especially feminists protested and successfully opposed it to get it reversed. They thought it unfair to include women as potential rapists and men as victims. Domestic violence is also legally gendered in India.
Have you seen a woman charged with the same crime as a man? Statistically, men receive 63% longer sentencing than women for the same crime and similar criminal history. This is 6 times wider than the racial disparity between black and white americans. This isnt even going into detail about the false arrest disparity, the conviction disparity, the incarceration disparity, the death penalty disparity, the parole disparity, the police brutality disparity, etc. Men are much more likely to face these inequalities than women. Heck, they face them more than black americans. No one cares because these inequalities target men.
Have you seen an abused man try to seek help? Men who call the police against an attacking woman are more likely to arrested than their female abuser. We have entire domestic abuse programs (based on feminist patriarchal theory) that says men CANT be abused by women, and that men are always the abusers. Because of this, there are no male abuse shelters for men, and the only common government funded places for victims are for women. Feminism is actually a very big part of why abuse shelters are only for women.
Have you seen a man be forced into parenthood? Legally women have the right to decide parenthood FOR the man. He has no say. If she wants the baby and he doesnt, not only is the baby born, but she can force him to take parental responsibility. While she has many ways to opt out (pills, abortion, adoption which they can even do without the father's consent because of men's lack of reproductive rights), men have no legal way to opt out. They cannot give up parental rights without the mother's consent. So she can sue him for child support. In fact, in many countries, including the US, a woman can sue for child support regardless of the conception of the child. A woman can rape a man or even a boy, get pregnant, and can legally sue for child support. Which takes us to the next point.
Have you seen men's lack of reproductive rights? Women have no legal obligation to inform the man that he is a father. She can hide the baby's existence and he can miss out on what should be his right to raise the baby. If a hospital swaps out a baby or lies about the death of a baby, the mother can sue because at least to women, taking away their chance to raise their child is inconcevable. But it's rather common to do to men.
Have you seen men (or even boys) be conscripted to war? To be forced into military service? It's common for only males to be forced into it all over the world. Forced to fight. Forced to die. As if males are inherently disposable. What about the rights and privileges that are take away from men if they do not sign for the selective service? Rights and privileges women receive just for turning 18. Meanwhile men can face jail time of a 250k fine.
Honeslty i could go on for a while.
Your ignorance of the inequalities men face is not proof that men do not deal with inequalities. If anything, it is proof that your (feminism's) claim to gender equality is half-hearted at best, and outright false at worst. You dont care enough to research what men go through, so you just assume they face nothing worth addressing?
