★ ៸៸៸ FRIENDSHIP 2 ╱ post ❜ ✸ ៸ !?!
# ៸ give them a history that shines through.
By no means do you want them to seem like they just met each other yesterday, if your two friends have known each other for a while now. What you need to do is throw out hints that these friends have known each other for a while ― you need to make the readers curious about these two friends and their history with each other.
And even if your characters meet within the timeline of the story, sneaking in hints that these characters are learning more about each other is a great way to develop your friendship.
Here are a few ways to show that:
# ៸ give them an inside joke.
# ៸ give them a silly, on-going argument.
Friends aren’t always going to agree on everything and their points of conflict don’t always have to be some dramatic issue ― they can be arguing over which one is better: Star Trek or Star Wars, they can argue over whether pineapple belong on pizza or not or maybe they argue over who is the taller one.
Giving them a silly, ongoing argument will make the characters feel real and simultaneously reveal different shades of their personality. Not only that, but it also offers a window into how they handle arguments between themselves. Who is the one that gets really worked up? Who is the one who makes all the great points?
# ៸ utilize nonverbal communication.
When you can start communicating with someone without words, that's when you really know someone. For example:
★ let your characters be comfortable sitting in silence with each other
★ use gestures and facial expressions to convey meaning to each other
★ give them an unspoken rule
★ one friend asks a question, the other answers with silence
★ they can predict what each other are going to do
What is keeping your friends from parting ways? Without something to keep them together, your characters might grow apart. What is the glue that keeps this friendship intact? This can be a character, a goal, or the two of them are just thrown into a situation where they can't get away from each other.
★ one friend is the gardener of the other
★ the two of them must deliver a secret message to a Jedi
★ they both go the same extracurricular club
★ they are toys who both have been captured by an evil kid who likes to torture toys
★ one friend can't achieve his story goal without helping the other friend win a cart race
# ៸ create meaningful scenes.
Now that you have all the key components to an amazing friendship, it’s time to develop it through your story. Insert a few key friendship moments in your novel and show your reader the power of this relationship.
★ one friend gives the other a gift
★ they play a game together
★ they teach each other something
★ one friend gives the other a foot massage
# ៸ don't make the relationship perfect.
People aren’t perfect, and your friends can’t get along together all the time. But that doesn't mean you should stuff in a bunch of contrived conflict between your friendships. Instead, set up situations that will naturally occur because of who these characters are, and what they believe.
Maybe their differences get the better of them, maybe they react differently to a pivotal event in your novel, maybe one of the friend's internal demons gets the better of them, and the other friend has to call them out on it. This only results in more tension between them. This is an especially brilliant method to enhance a character arc.
Or simply make their friendship a more complex. Perhaps your two characters look out for one another, but they are always being compared to one another, and they need to overcome their deep feelings of jealousy for each other or they work well together, but one friend is keeping a lot of secrets from the other.
These complications and character differences not only add to your story, but watching these characters overcome these obstacles and still come out as friends makes your friendship feel more real, deep, and deserved.