The Values I Give As A Mother Of Three And A Wife
Honesty and Emotional Truth
I give deeply, even when I feel unseen. I love my children and my partner with everything I have, often putting their needs ahead of my own.
Living with chronic pain, hypothyroidism, and everything else I’ve faced takes incredible strength. I push through and keep going, especially for my kids. That’s grit.
I fiercely protect my children — emotionally, physically, and mentally. I want them to feel safe, heard, and loved, even if that means I carry heavy things silently.
💬 4. Honesty and Emotional Truth
I value truth. Not just facts — but my truth. I want to be understood, not dismissed. I don’t like sugarcoating things when it comes to my needs or my pain.
🫶 5. Sacrifice and Service
Whether it’s staying up late with a sick kid, putting my own healing on hold, or biting my tongue to keep the peace, I give — a lot. I serve my family with everything Iv got.
🧭 6. Presence and Connection
Even if I’m hurting or tired, I want to be there. Birthdays, moments, talks — your presence matters to me, and when others don’t show up, it deeply affects me.
⚖️ 7. Fairness and Partnership
As a wife, I want mutual effort not perfection, just trying. I want my partner to show up not just because I asked, but because he sees my worth and feels my pain too.
I’m not stagnant. I’m trying to heal emotionally, physically, and spiritually. I’m willing to reflect, ask hard questions, and grow for myself and for my family.