max @moovawy - Tumblr Blog

i love getting art suggestions. my ask box is open for any suggestions or questions (or whatever is on your mind)

#ask box

snlthw

three times when dean called cas by silly nicknames and once when cas called him by his first name

lol

drulalovescas

pov: you're watching the love of your life die

cas and dean in their cunty era

#dean winchester #castiel #destiel #destiel fanart #supernatural fanart #spn fanart #supernatural #spn #fanart #my art

ambiguousdisorderken

I’m just starting to think that… maybe there’s more to it all than I thought.

redribbonrobot-deactivated20190

This post reminded me that I doodled this over the weekend. I imagine Dean spotting them in a dumpster, and trying them on in the bathroom only when John was away on a hunt and Sammy was fast asleep.

closet-keys

it's sad to me that cis people never apply their "loved one with a wanted-pregnancy" script to medical transition. like cis people often indicate they don't know how to react to hearing about medical transition, but a huge portion of that social script is directly applicable.

tell someone "congratulations!" tell them "I'm so happy for you. I know you've been trying for a really long time." ask them "do you need help with anything?" throw them a party with loved ones where you all give them some gifts in acknowledgement of how expensive it is. celebrate how far along they are. take photos with them so they have a record of being loved while their body changes. allow them to voice fears and doubts and anxieties about how it'll go, and reassure them that they'll get through the intense medical procedure coming up & you'll be there for support no matter what. let them tell you about the gross parts and laugh together. really listen to them when they talk about how amazing and profound it is that the human body can do this. share in their excitement for beginning a new stage of their life.

If there are complications, comfort them and help them navigate what's next. If they lose access suddenly due to finances or criminalization, treat it like a miscarriage and hold them while they grieve.