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one of the "these can and should coexist" things to me is "there are numerous fat people who eat healthy and exercise and could beat the average skinny person in a hike" and "fat people who are fat and arent athletic and dont eat super healthy and do get winded walking up hills also are apart of fat liberation and deserve love too"

both of these are true and both deserve love and to be able to be accepted and get proper healthcare

queeranarchism

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

the-2nd-one

Untapped potential in feedees being spoiled beyond just food. Like yes yes I see the appeal in slob stuff but what about the feeders who take pride in their feedee looking good and feeling good and so on?

Like finding only the best quality clothes in their size instead because such corpulence deserves only the best, instead of getting whatever because “they’ll only outgrow it”.

It’s hot out and everyone’s expecting the big guy/girl to sweat up a storm and reek but no, they smell like pure lavender (example) because their feeder spent a good 60-90 minutes in making sure they were nice and clean after a bubble bath or shower and then every inch of them has been covered in only the best products. Body butters, foot creams, face masks and hair care, special sprays– “jajoba & cashmere” branded shit.

It’s all very expensive upkeep, especially when they keep getting bigger and their body becomes even more expensive in every aspect. Doesn’t matter if the feeder is the service sub or the dom or whatever the fuck either, this is just a necessity.

Feedees deserve to be worshipped and taken care of, don’t they? And what does that say about their feeder when they are?

genericpuff

public service announcement to every plus-sized person in the chat:

you don't owe anyone an explanation for your body or your health

being fat isn't a moral failing deserving of judgment

you don't owe anyone self-shame or weight loss just to be loved and accepted

your health isn't solely defined by your weight

you deserve proper healthcare that doesn't reduce you to a number on a scale

you deserve to take care of your health in whatever way you need without being judged for trying

life is too short to not enjoy good food

life is WAY too short to care what other people think

just because other people want you to feel bad for being fat doesn't mean you should

you deserve to feel sexy and beautiful in your body without being reduced to a fetish or told that you're fetishizing fatness

you deserve to take pride in your body without being accused of 'promoting unhealthy lifestyles'

you deserve to date whoever the hell you want without judgment

you deserve to love yourself and your body without being called vain

you deserve to take selfies and share pictures of yourself without people commenting on your body

you deserve to have standards for yourself and how you're treated

you deserve to do what makes you happy and healthy without others turning you into a political statement or a social martyr

you're allowed to have flaws and quirks and personality traits that aren't attributed to your weight

there is no such thing as a "perfect fat person" and you certainly aren't responsible for setting that example

you are loved and you deserve to exist without apology or explanation

the world is better with you in it and that is not up for debate

femme-stuffer

And remember if you don’t provide any kind of love or care towards feedees and simply extremely degrade them only.. you’re just fatphobic ❤️ get help

#separados #por #vírgula

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theartofobesity

Chubby Woman by sculptor Xu Hongfei, in Siena, Italy

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greedychxbb-deactivated20200806

god it makes me so angry to see profiles of 'closeted fat admirers' or garbage like that. you're not fucking closeted. you're not queer and oppressed and have to be afraid in some places and hide who you love. you're just a really shitty human who objectifies fat people, uses them for your orgasms and treats them like trash when you've come because you consider them less worthy than your soulless ass.

gluttonousgoddess

Sorry, but no.

The term “closeted” isn’t only for extreme oppression situations. It is for any time someone has a secret that they want to keep hidden for fear of others looking down upon them. Like how one might lose friends if they knew the person was into fatter people?

In this situation, the problem is beauty standards making thin the norm.

And btw, you can’t tell any of what you suggested from the term “closeted fat admirer”, because all you can gather from that is “I like fat people but my social group frowns upon it”.

chubbychiquita-deactivated20200

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 we're people. not your "dirty little secret". you're part of the problem.

stevita

If you're in a social group that would judge you for liking fat people, you need to ditch your current social group.

And if you'd rather hide your preferences in order to please your fatphobic peers, CONGRATULATIONS! YOU'RE FATPHOBIC TOO!

thedevouress

EXACTLY.

Me and my roommate straight up talk about how much we appreciate thicker bodies and bellies.

I don't have to hide what I find appealing, because they're not fat phobic.

It's the time of body positivity, stop being "afraid" there is nothing wrong with preferences.

You're not "closeted" you're an asshole, you're not even the ones being oppressed? You simply like those who actually are! ASSHOLE.

My friends all know I love bigger girls, I openly post about it even on my Facebook, I am actively making an effort to show others that all bodies are beautiful.

If you don't stand with them, you stand against them, and if that's the case, you stay away from all these larger bodied lovely beings.

They're not objects to fetishize, they are actual beings with feelings too.

Edit: if you think YOU'RE afraid of being seen with them, IMAGINE HOW THEY FEEL.

stevita

Awesome positive addition! On that note, I'd like to add a couple of things people can do in the name of plus size advocacy besides just talking to your family and friends abt why everyone deserves respect:

Do your research on fat friendly clothing lines, public spaces, airlines, college campuses etc. Spread the word abt where to go. (Don't go to Rice. That whole campus is steeped in toxic diet culture. Just so you know.)

If you have funds to spare consider donating or working with the NAAFA, here is a third party site where people have given testimonies of what good the organization has done for the community

https://greatnonprofits.org/org/national-association-to-advance-fat-acceptance-inc