[autotono-deactivated20221027]

not my reincarnated ass forgetting that desire is the root of all suffering 😂

[rontieremodeled-deactivated2023]

I know that God is going to take care of me.

[classycookiexo]

[hermajestyimher]

Befriend women who are high maintenance, who are intellectual, who ask for what they deserve, who will only enter public spaces looking like royalty, who have impecable manners and etiquette, who are well read and travelled (or with intentions to), who are ambitious, go getters, who have a high spirit and positive outlook in life. Be around women who signify and personify excellence, so that you too may become excellent. Our surroundings determine how we are shaped, so make sure your surroundings are impecable.

[dimpledthings]

it’s amazing: some people come into your life and it feels natural to love them, even if you’ve never loved like that before. you do things for them simply because they feel right to you.

trust your instincts. cherish them

[theambitiouswoman]

When you truly love yourself, discipline becomes second nature. You deserve to feel and look your absolute best, and pushing yourself to step outside of your comfort zone will expand your experiences in amazing ways. Practicing self-love will help you effortlessly align with the discipline you need to live your best life.

[theambitiouswoman]

When you truly love yourself, discipline becomes second nature. You deserve to feel and look your absolute best, and pushing yourself to step outside of your comfort zone will expand your experiences in amazing ways. Practicing self-love will help you effortlessly align with the discipline you need to live your best life.

[cerleansky]

My therapist was so real for saying the meaning of life is found in connection.

People hug their friends when they meet up and hug them a little tighter when it comes time to say goodbye. My grandfather rebuilt the broken rocking horse my grandmother had as a child, a gift from her father. There's an indescribable ache that goes along with seeing someone you used to know intimately, the becoming of a common stranger. Coincidences that bind, one time I got an uber and the driver used to live in my home before me. It was the last place he saw his father alive as a child and he nearly cried when I told him the walls were still the same colour.

Has anyone ever gotten over their childhood best friend? Is that alone not a testament to the fact we are more than blood and bones.

It's all about connection, friends.

[midnightmillie]

date someone who is interested in you. i don’t mean someone who thinks you’re cute or funny. i mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. someone who wants to read every word you write. someone who wants to hear every note of your favourite song, or watch every scene of your favourite movie. someone who wants to find every scar on your body, and learn where they came from. someone who wants to know your favourite brand of toothpaste, and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them. there is a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

[aidashakur]

“Emotions are visitors, don’t be carried away by their temporary presence.”

[444her]

Observe them, don’t absorb them

[1980vibes]

one of the best feelings is knowing that you’re wanted. knowing that someone wants to talk to you, wants to know how you’re doing, wants to see you.

[deloveusion]

intimate connections, tight hugs and conversations that come from our deepest and darkest chasms. morning cuddles that turn into sex at sunrise and breakfast in bed before the day ahead. spontaneous laughs like crazy people and goofing around like best friends. abundant in life, surrounded by creativity and enjoying the spoils of our experiences.

[luthienne]

girl help i’m starting over again for the 1000th time & i’m beginning to think that life is a never-ending cycle of starting over & i actually have to make peace with that in order to move forward

[femmefatalevibe]

Becoming your own muse makes you magnetic. It's the secret to seducing your dream clients, potential business partners, lovers, spouses, friends, family, and anyone who has the honor to grace your presence. People sense individuals who exude confidence and have ignited the fire inside that drives them. Smile at the mirror and recognize the perfection in your reflection. Never let a negative person, undesirable salary, relationship status, or circumstances dim your light. Only you can define your worth. Trust your intuition. You know deep down what's truly meant for you.

[eatmangoesnekkid]

“A woman who doesn’t care for herself first is a woman who eventually becomes bitter, jaded, and bored by life. When a woman feels loved and radiant, everyone who enters her home feels the same. But the key is that she has to be willing to give it to herself first, and she will instinctively pour (what lives inside her) into everyone else.”

— India Ame’ye, Author

[firstfullmoon]

“Certain kinds of trauma visited on peoples are so deep, so cruel, that unlike money, unlike vengeance, even unlike justice, or rights, or the goodwill of others, only writers can translate such trauma and turn sorrow into meaning, sharpening the moral imagination. A writer’s life and work are not a gift to mankind; they are its necessity.”

— Toni Morrison, from “Peril,” in The Source of Self-Regard

[audrinawf]

I saw this girl on TikTok asking why men date and marry plain Janes instead of spicy Sarah’s and how it’s because men can’t handle the Sarah’s because they are so amazing so they settle for the Janes, and let me just say, she had no business speaking about that topic because she was neither any Jane nor any Sarah, to begin with. Either way, I am so tired of this subject on TikTok as much as I am tired of these dark feminine channels that think femininity has anything to do with manipulation.

Is this not just another form of pick-me mindset? Because they sound so desperate to be picked. Please worry about yourself first. There are enough men out there for everyone. Or maybe you just think plain women don’t deserve love?

If you’re so spicy and hot because you dress up every day, then I do wonder why men are still marrying the plain Janes?

Maybe your personality isn’t as great as you think it is. Maybe you’re not even funny. Maybe you’re an anxious mess, and it’s just not pleasant to be in your company. The only thing you should be worried about is your unchecked ego.

And to clarify this is not a spicy Sarah hate post because I’m not going to group all women into two categories this is specifically a call out to women who have this superiority complex.

I also think women like this have a skewed view of love and relationships, and I can only assume that it’s because they are chronically online. No matter what, people choose the people that bring them the most peace. You are not going to be picked because you think you are cooler in real life; that doesn’t mean anything. Go touch some grass.