Guys I’m doing 100 ‘open when’ letters for my boyfriend, and I’ll give them to him this Christmas!
Open when you can’t sleep
Open when you miss me a little
Open when you miss me a lot
Open when you need a hug and I’m not there
Open when you’re overwhelmed
Open when life is too much
Open when not even music can tranquilize you
Open when we fight for the 1st time
Open when we fight and it’s your fault
Open when we fight and it’s my fault
Open when you’re stressed
Open when you think about giving up
Open when you think about breaking up
Open when nothing cheers you up
Open when you’re losing your grip
Open when you need to stay ‘here’
Open when you need to be reminded of what’s real and what isn’t
Open when you’ve lied to me
Open when you’re disappointed of yourself
Open when you’re disappointed of me
Open when you need a smile
Open when you need a laugh
Open when you don’t know what to say
Open when you’re so sad you can’t talk
Open when we haven’t talked in days
Open when you want us to talk but can’t
Open when we’re mad at each other
Open when you’re mad at yourself
Open when you want to know some things I love about you
Open when you need a reminder of my love for you
Open when you want to ‘feel’ me but can’t
Open when it’s your birthday
Open when it’s New Year’s Eve
Open when you’re proud of yourself
Open when you’ve failed at something that mattered
Open when you first receive these
Open when you’ve got so much to say, words don’t come out
Open when you need to relax
Open when your mind is blank
Open when the voices in your head won’t shut up
Open when you’re doubting yourself
Open when you’re craving something sweet
Open when it seems the world is against you
Open when you feel insecure
Open when you’ve had a bad day
Open when the distance is too much
Open when you’re thinking about the future
Open when you’re feeling nostalgic
Open when you’re feeling nostalgic about us
Open when you feel lonely
Open when it’s our 6 month anniversary
Open when it’s our 1 year anniversary
Open when you need to know someone cares
Open when you’re overthinking
Open when you feel worthless
Open when you need to rant/vent
Open when you want to know more about me
Open when you feel like I don’t trust you
Open when I’ve been ordering you around too much
Open when I’m distant and you don’t know why
Open when you want to hear an anecdote
Open when you want to relive the first time we met
Open when you’re afraid of losing me
Open when you feel I’m prioritizing others over you
Open when jealousy kicks in
Open when you want to hear a story
Open when you want to read a poem
Open when you want to know which songs make me think of you
Open when you want to kiss me
Open when we fall asleep together for the first time
Open when we actually ‘do it’
Open when you want to hear my 4A.M ramblings
Open when you need support
Open when you’re worried about me
Open when something reminded you of me
Open when you want to give me a gift but have no clue about what
Open when you aren’t feeling anything in particular
Open when you’re feeling everything
Open when you want to read my favorite quotes
Open when I’ve been crying in your arms
Open when you want to die
Open when you’ve said things you didn’t mean
Open when I’ve said things I didn’t mean
Open when we move in together
Open when we travel together for the first time
Open when we first spend a holiday together
Open when you think you’ve had the best day of your life.
And this is it! They’re not in order right now, as you can tell, but hopefully this will give you some inspiration or ideas for your own!
