I keep seeing post about 'not giving up things because of your disability' and I love the optimism. Sadly that's just not possible for a lot of us.
We lose a lot of things because of our disability and we all have to come to terms with that. Maybe some day you'll be able to do that thing again, but for now it's ok to let go.
You don't need to push yourself that hard or feel like a failure when you can't do that thing anymore. It's ok to give up things, it's not something bad.
If there is something you don't want to give up, then yes you can fight for it. But don't keep fighting to the point where it'll only hurt you more emotionally/physically.
Our lives are already difficult, so it's ok to not be able to do things. That's literally being disabled.
Don't feel pressured to hold onto things that you can't do. The only person that gets to decide if you want to fight for it or let it go is you.
Please be gentle on yourself.