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39m Georgia

[remanence-of-love]

[thememedaddy]

[thememedaddy]

[secondlina]

New Crow Time 🐦‍⬛🦊🌟

[suggestionsofkindness]

You serve no one by draining yourself of all your energy, not yourself, not your friends and family and not your job/education. It takes so much longer to recharge and get well again, than if we take care of ourselves as we go. So please recharge, rest and listen to your limits and your needs. You and your well being is important. 🌸

[statictay]

I aspire to be like Gomez Addams because I want nothing more then to run around my house with a sword and love the hell out of my spouse

[thepersonalquotes]

““Too many people are walking around living someone else’s definition of success and wondering why they haven’t made it.” - Kandia Johnson”

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[solassitudes]

my singing voice is good for showers and mornings in the kitchen and drunken nights and lullabies for babies who need sleep and im okay with this

[solassitudes]

i think it’s silly to be ashamed of your art because it’s not in a museum and of your voice because it’s not selling out stadiums. there will always be people who enjoy and appreciate what you can do.

[rosesastrology]

Idk why but this hit me really hard and I’ve been staring at it for a couple minutes.

[ethuil]

[mbrainspaz]

I keep coming back lately to how f*cked up it was that my dad never let me mess anything up. Oh no, don’t climb out the window and sit on the roof–you’ll damage the shingles. So I put out beach towels and was extra careful, and he still got mad. Some of my best childhood memories were sitting out on that roof with my brother or my friends. Man f*ck the shingles. We sold that house a year later anyway. I waited years for him to fix the toilet paper roll holder in an upstairs bathroom–then one day just broke down and fixed it myself. It took me 5 minutes. And he was mad because I didn’t use the right kind of screws. F*ck the right screws. It looked perfect and it worked just fine, at least until I moved out. Now I’ve been out here living with a bunch of rogue ranchers and old engineers and it’s given me a whole new perspective on life. The first day I moved onto this ranch the owner got out an electric saw and cut a hole straight through a sewer pipe. I nearly panicked! Like–YOU CAN JUST DO THAT?!?! Just break something?! It was a horrible job! But BAM–it was done! And that sh*t changed my whole worldview. Last week I helped remodel a bridge with some spare logs and a pickaxe. I’ve sawed open the roof of my house and glued it back together. I’ve torn wall fixtures off and burned them in a bonfire. 

GO AHEAD! BREAK IT. Wear down the shingles. Cut holes through the wall. Get mud on the sofa. Put stickers on your car. Break the world around you just a little instead of living in fear of losing resale value you rarely get back anyway. It’ll be fine. 

[ahedderick]

   This is excellent advice, and carries through into parenting. I always made sure that when my kids were in a destructive mood or wanted to pick at something, they could just- do that. Here’s a clump of mint, you can smush it, chop it up, pull all the leaves off the stem - no problem. Here’s a piece of wood with the bark coming loose, you can pick it that to your heart’s content. I was lucky, I guess, that on a farm there’s always something expendable that can just be ruined for the fun of it. Toddler’s get SO much enjoyment out of deconstructing stuff - and even more if you make a big fuss over how “well” they did it. Look at all the chopped mint! It smells wonderful!

[celebritiesandmovies]

[ryebreadgf]

300122, S.T.

[booksquoteslife]

“People are icebergs, with just a bit you can see and loads you can’t.”

— David Mitchell, The Bone Clocks

[flowury]

[ampervadasz]

Unmute !

[rumplefuckingstiltzkin]

POV: You are Simba

[drtanner]

Love it when you can see the impending disaster before it hits, lol.

[egalitarianchica]

Normalize taking care of men. Normalize holding and kissing them when they’re sad and just because. Normalize doing nice things for them. Normalize genuinely listening to them when they’re upset. Normalize complimenting them and telling them you love and appreciate them. Normalize taking care of your man the same way you would want him to take care of you.

[casualwriter]

Dialogue Prompts: “You’re my hero.”

1. “You’re my hero.”

“I told you not to call me that.”

“You also told me not to lie.”

2. “You’re my hero.”

“I literally do nothing of significance.”

“Makes me wonder just how unbelievable something has to be for you to see it as significant.”

3. “You’re my hero.”

“And what does that make you?”

[bohobaby118]

🖤 sometimes it’s ok to not be ok.

[gentledom089]

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