respect me please.. ^^
ok. so.. I know this boy from the place where I take my english course. this boy or I call him as “biji salak” he is so annoying, he always mocking the other boy, I don’t know why, but the other also thinks he is so annoying. so yesterday ( 31st May 2015), we ( all the english course members) went to a beach, and I have to ride the motorcycle with this “biji salak” , and the story begin..
at first we still have a normal conversation just like the others. we talk about our culture (because we came from the different city) and meet at this english course and we don’t have a chance to talk a lot before, because when we attend the, we have to focus to the english class. but then he start to ask me weird question like :
- how old are you? what if someone in his 20 dating a girl who older than him? what do you think about that?? * I find it weird because, I don’t feel comfortable to talk something like this, with someone who I didn’t close enough. - can you share your experince about how you and your BF f***?? (I said “whaaattt??” and then he said “it’s not like what you think, I mean how you spend the time with your BF.” || ow yeah. whatever!!!)
- he keep ask me to sing. the road to the beach is so hard, I mean it’s up and down because the beach is located behind the mountain, so the road is so scary. then, I ask this “biji salak”,can I hold on him, or his jacket and he say “ you can hold wherever you want”.. oh okay.. :| the most scary thing he did is, when we on the declining path(?), he remove his hand from the motorcycle handlebar. I was screaming and start yelling at him, because it so scary and it’s dangerous. in front of our motorcycle there is a bus, I’m affraid if something bad happen.. oh my god!!! fortunately we save. alhamdulillah. TT.TT and then he start to sing, i don’t know what song that he sing. i don’t care.. and then he start to ask me a weird question again, all I can do is laugh, or just say yes or no.. because I don’t want to talk to him, the longer we talk, the question will get weirder(?)
and when I don’t pay atttention to him, he start to touch my thight, I scream “what are you doing??” he just laughed. “don’t do that to me”, I said. “don’t take it too serious, i’m just joking”, and he touch my thight again.. I scream “STOP IT!!!!!”. I was really angry and stay quiet until the other stop to get rest for a moment. and I asked my friend, Mr. A to exchange with me. at first he reject me, because he thinks that I am joking but then, he realize that i really mean it, I really want to exchange with him, and yes. Mr. A agreed to exchange with thank you Mr. A.. :) all I wanna say is,
dear biji salak,
we are Indonesian. we have a norm. you have to well behave with everyone. You should not be carelessly touching woman. I don’t know about your culture, but you should know not everyone would feel comfortable with your joke. You have your culture, so do I. we have to respect each other. but, after what just happen, I think we can’t get closer as a friend. You gave me bad impression of you and bad memories. not only for me, you also give a bad impression with the others too. the other members might think you are a pervert. I wish yesterday we could make a good memories with the others, but you don’t. it’s not like I didn’t forgive you. I forgive you, but i don’t think we could get close after what you did to me. sorry.
there is Indonesian proverb says “dimana kaki berpijak, di situ langit di junjung” which means wherever you stay, you have to follow the culture. or if you can’t follow the culture, at least you have to respect other people culture. * I messed up with my english again. crap..-_-
