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arandomthot

Might need a whole semester to cover this chapter

#yess #i havent been on tubmlr for at least a year now #so much has changedd #we do be on x-games mode

curecosmicremade

me: “hi, how are you”

customer: “not dead”

me: “that’s always good”

customer: “not if people hate you”

luneloving

this is just a reminder to quit the jokes about wanting to die and anything else along those lines. it is actually seriously harming you, you just can’t feel it because you’ve numbed yourself to it. it isn’t a healthy coping mechanism and it is only hurting you, whether you realize this or not. words have impact. do not forget this.

awolspaceman

say what you actually want instead. did you just say “ugh i wanna die” because you’re really tired and would rather be at home napping? then say “ugh i wanna take a nap.” say what you really want or need, because i’m gonna be honest with you chief, you probably don’t really want to die. maybe you want the situation you’re in to end, but death ain’t the answer to that. it’s never the answer. there’s always another option, i promise.

chaotictranny-deactivated202004

Yeah, I used to say “I want to die” all the time, but since then I’ve changed it to, “I’m really dysphoric” “I’m sad right now and I don’t know why” “I really wish I could hide in my room for a few days without seeing anyone but I have to get of bed anyway” “I don’t want to eat dinner tonight because I feel really upset” and so on.

Even if your situation and feelings can’t be helped or changed, express them; hiding behind the same sentence every time you’re upset will only make it harder to face what’s actually going on emotionally/mentally for you.

#!!!

violenx

i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying i’m trying

gogh-save-the-bees

i apeachiate you

poemswords

chloroscythe

in my head theres a little mouse wearing a little apron and she makes all my emotions

bishounen-curious-deactivated20

she needs to read a fuckin recipe this bitch is just making a MESS

gloupblog

realising more and more that the only limits in life are the ones you set yourself. I’m not too old to start things, not too shy to talk to people to try new things, I’m capable of literally anything and I’m not going to be the reason I don’t do all the things I want to do

zodaeac

The signs as English proverbs [F&G Edition]

Aries: Faith can move mountains.

Taurus: Fight fire with fire.

Gemini: Fight the good fight.

Cancer: First come, first served.

Leo: First thing’s first.

Virgo: Flattery will get you nowhere.

Libra: Forgive and forget.

Scorpio: Give credit where credit is due.

Sagittarius: Go the extra mile.

Capricorn: Good things come to those who wait.

Aquarius: Good fences make good neighbors.

Pisces: Great minds think alike.

elssaaa

can’t wait ‘till ive graduated uni and got a job and a flat so i can adopt a rescue dog that’s the dream folks

petalya

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

petalya

With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?

ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”

vs.

“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.

#tea