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by tinchenwaldkindlissi

practicing radical acceptance about the fact that I'm always gonna be weird and awkward and a little difficult to be around. it's okayyyy to be weird as hell

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ohmovie

You really do love him, don't you?

Pride & Prejudice (2005) dir. Joe Wright

self-healing

i think the funniest and realist thing i’ve realized lately is how troubling idealization can be. every person is just… a person. the very people you want to impress or be apart of are just people. even if they seem wildly intimidating because of the way they look or because of their reputation, every one is just a person. human. as embarrassing, as remorseful and they are going through stages of growth just like you are. we only see what we want to see and then drown ourselves further in our own depression and we don’t have to.

oaluz

truly and i am learning the less i idealise others, the more willing i am to meet people where they are warts n all. and the more willing i am to show myself too and bring my whole self into things. my own embarrassment becomes a new normal and fine thing. stumbling becomes more endearing.

welter-of-thoughts

had a teacher once who told us “idealizing people is just as dehumanizing as demonizing them” and that stuck with me so much

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C. S. Lewis

thehobbitchronicles

𓈒⠀⠀ׁ⠀⠀ 🪷 ⠀⠀ׅ⠀⠀ׁ⠀ 𓋼𓍊 ⠀⠀ׅ⠀⠀ 𓂂 ׁ⠀⠀ׅ 🌱 ◌

happyheidi

｡ﾟﾟ･｡･ﾟﾟ｡ﾟ. April will bring blessings.

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kakuriyo

g-meister

oliv3rtate

quiet-nymph

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eternal-echoes

“One day at a time. This is very important. Very often we exhaust ourselves going over the past again and again and also our fears about the future. But when we live in the present moment, we mysteriously find strength. We have the grace to live through what we encounter today. If tomorrow we must face more difficult situations, God will increase his grace. God’s grace is given at the right time for it, day by day.”

— Fr. Jacques Philippe