at the wedding I accidentally flirted too close to the sun and made one of the groomsmen fall in love with me, I realized it immediately and tried to walk it back after there was a weird interaction with him & a guy friend of mine. the guy didn't really talk to me at the goodbye brunch the next morning (which, honestly good, I was with other friends) and then 2 days later on Wednesday (the wedding was Sunday) he texted me "Good Afternoon Shira, you were on my mind. How’s your day going?" in the middle of the afternoon while I was at work and I didn't respond and have remembered about it several times and I know I SHOULD respond but I just...don't care? I'm tired, I don't know this man, at this point it feels like it would almost be more cruel to respond and then have to let him down easy. idk. a man wouldn't give it this much thought if the tables were turned.