I have not faced an impactful loss by death at a close proximity but I do have a great deal of experience in deaths of relationships of all nature. I believe, we must have these dialogues and fail to understand why people shy away from it or fake please others. Some name it a character flaw or consider it an immoral deed referring to religious beliefs, going ahead and putting one in a box or stating that they lack people management skills. Well, it is absolutely okay to let relationships die. You heard it. We have got to normalise not liking people without conflict. It is not a beef, it is all about the vibe. No two people are the same and shared vibes, energies and wavelengths are still a thing of the present. There are several maneuvering methods of dealing our emotions and every Human adapts a unique coping mechanism when any sort of discomfort falls upon them by circumstances either given birth intentionally or unintentionally by a fellow being. To be precise, it is not a death of a relationship. It is the death of the dynamic between the two at that stage of the relationship. A person is never wholly toxic by nature but most times, they can be toxic for the other person in the equation or it bodes both ways. Some relationships are not worth saving, atleast not in that moment or phase of our life. When someone ghosts you (physically/metaphorically/emotionally or all three), respect the dead and move on. Our ego or the society's voices in our head can rest for a day. Lift that dead relationship, bury it, sit through the mourning period. Take that rigidity ride but do not indulge in it, deal with it. For now, put your energy into the right people and over the years, you may find yourself reconnecting with the same being and a more healthy relationship will rekindle. I personally prefer losing the relationship than them being taken away by death because that way, I know someday when we both are on the same rainbow scale, we will cross over, meet in the middle and be in the light together. Call me immature, name it a flaw but how I see it, we can either grow or you can go! #Pensivemoment #Blogdiaries #Staticnoiseturnedtoart #Death #Anendisgood #Bleedingwords https://www.instagram.com/p/CLx71ZFhKnJzl9empWGQrK6ZYbGrGM_a31azIo0/?igshid=vs7kn8ezazpg
